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### Sensory cues ### Sensory cues
#### A01 #### A01
Theme: Sensory cues Theme: Sensory cues
Intensity: 2 Intensity: 2
Primary text: Would you be up for choosing a scent that you want your partner to wear for a close evening? Primary text: Would you be up for choosing a scent that you want your partner to wear for a close evening?
Partner text: Would you be up for choosing a scent that you want your partner to wear for a close evening? Partner text: Would you be up for choosing a scent that you want your partner to wear for a close evening?
Intended outcome: One partner selects a scent cue for the other to use on their next intentional date night. Intended outcome: One partner selects a scent cue for the other to use on their next intentional date night.
#### A02 #### A02
Theme: Sensory cues Theme: Sensory cues
Intensity: 3 Intensity: 3
Primary text: Would you like your partner to prepare a playlist that sets the mood for a more intimate evening with you? Primary text: Would you like your partner to prepare a playlist that sets the mood for a more intimate evening with you?
Partner text: Would you like to prepare a playlist that sets the mood for a more intimate evening with your partner? Partner text: Would you like to prepare a playlist that sets the mood for a more intimate evening with your partner?
Intended outcome: The receiving partner gets a personally chosen mood playlist. Intended outcome: The receiving partner gets a personally chosen mood playlist.
#### A03 #### A03
Theme: Sensory cues Theme: Sensory cues
Intensity: 3 Intensity: 3
Primary text: Would you enjoy your partner guiding you through a slow eyes-closed guessing game with safe household textures? Primary text: Would you enjoy your partner guiding you through a slow eyes-closed guessing game with safe household textures?
Partner text: Would you enjoy guiding your partner through a slow eyes-closed guessing game with safe household textures? Partner text: Would you enjoy guiding your partner through a slow eyes-closed guessing game with safe household textures?
Intended outcome: The proposer leads a private sensory game and the receiver agrees to participate. Intended outcome: The proposer leads a private sensory game and the receiver agrees to participate.
#### A04 #### A04
Theme: Sensory cues Theme: Sensory cues
Intensity: 3 Intensity: 3
Primary text: Would you like your partner to choose the lighting for a close evening together? Primary text: Would you like your partner to choose the lighting for a close evening together?
Partner text: Would you like to choose the lighting for a close evening together with your partner? Partner text: Would you like to choose the lighting for a close evening together with your partner?
Intended outcome: One partner creates the visual atmosphere while the other agrees to experience it. Intended outcome: One partner creates the visual atmosphere while the other agrees to experience it.
#### A05 #### A05
Theme: Sensory cues Theme: Sensory cues
Intensity: 4 Intensity: 4
Primary text: Would you be open to your partner asking you to focus only on their voice for a few uninterrupted minutes? Primary text: Would you be open to your partner asking you to focus only on their voice for a few uninterrupted minutes?
Partner text: Would you be open to asking your partner to focus only on your voice for a few uninterrupted minutes? Partner text: Would you be open to asking your partner to focus only on your voice for a few uninterrupted minutes?
Intended outcome: The proposer receives undivided, voice-led attention in private. Intended outcome: The proposer receives undivided, voice-led attention in private.
#### A06 #### A06
Theme: Sensory cues Theme: Sensory cues
Intensity: 3 Intensity: 3
Primary text: Would you like your partner to pick a dessert or drink for you to share slowly after your date? Primary text: Would you like your partner to pick a dessert or drink for you to share slowly after your date?
Partner text: Would you like to pick a dessert or drink for your partner to share slowly after your date? Partner text: Would you like to pick a dessert or drink for your partner to share slowly after your date?
Intended outcome: The proposer chooses a shared treat that extends a date into a close moment. Intended outcome: The proposer chooses a shared treat that extends a date into a close moment.
#### A07 #### A07
Theme: Sensory cues Theme: Sensory cues
Intensity: 4 Intensity: 4
Primary text: Would you enjoy your partner choosing one song and asking you to stay close with them until it ends? Primary text: Would you enjoy your partner choosing one song and asking you to stay close with them until it ends?
Partner text: Would you enjoy choosing one song and asking your partner to stay close with you until it ends? Partner text: Would you enjoy choosing one song and asking your partner to stay close with you until it ends?
Intended outcome: The couple agrees to a deliberate, uninterrupted closeness ritual around one song. Intended outcome: The couple agrees to a deliberate, uninterrupted closeness ritual around one song.
#### A08 #### A08
Theme: Sensory cues Theme: Sensory cues
Intensity: 2 Intensity: 2
Primary text: Would you like your partner to leave a note telling you one small detail they find especially attractive about you? Primary text: Would you like your partner to leave a note telling you one small detail they find especially attractive about you?
Partner text: Would you like to leave your partner a note telling them one small detail you find especially attractive about them? Partner text: Would you like to leave your partner a note telling them one small detail you find especially attractive about them?
Intended outcome: The proposer gives the receiver a specific, private compliment in writing. Intended outcome: The proposer gives the receiver a specific, private compliment in writing.
### Private performance ### Private performance
#### A09 #### A09
Theme: Private performance Theme: Private performance
Intensity: 2 Intensity: 2
Primary text: Would you like your partner to choose a song and perform a playful lip-sync just for you? Primary text: Would you like your partner to choose a song and perform a playful lip-sync just for you?
Partner text: Would you like to choose a song and perform a playful lip-sync just for your partner? Partner text: Would you like to choose a song and perform a playful lip-sync just for your partner?
Intended outcome: One partner gives the other a private, playful performance. Intended outcome: One partner gives the other a private, playful performance.
#### A10 #### A10
Theme: Private performance Theme: Private performance
Intensity: 3 Intensity: 3
Primary text: Would you enjoy your partner giving you a short, confident compliment speech before your next date night? Primary text: Would you enjoy your partner giving you a short, confident compliment speech before your next date night?
Partner text: Would you enjoy giving your partner a short, confident compliment speech before your next date night? Partner text: Would you enjoy giving your partner a short, confident compliment speech before your next date night?
Intended outcome: The receiver gets a deliberate verbal build-up before the date. Intended outcome: The receiver gets a deliberate verbal build-up before the date.
#### A11 #### A11
Theme: Private performance Theme: Private performance
Intensity: 3 Intensity: 3
Primary text: Would you be up for your partner choosing a song for you to slow-dance to together at home? Primary text: Would you be up for your partner choosing a song for you to slow-dance to together at home?
Partner text: Would you be up for choosing a song for you and your partner to slow-dance to together at home? Partner text: Would you be up for choosing a song for you and your partner to slow-dance to together at home?
Intended outcome: The proposer picks the soundtrack for a private slow dance. Intended outcome: The proposer picks the soundtrack for a private slow dance.
#### A12 #### A12
Theme: Private performance Theme: Private performance
Intensity: 4 Intensity: 4
Primary text: Would you like your partner to tell you, face to face, the version of you they find hardest to resist? Primary text: Would you like your partner to tell you, face to face, the version of you they find hardest to resist?
Partner text: Would you like to tell your partner, face to face, the version of them you find hardest to resist? Partner text: Would you like to tell your partner, face to face, the version of them you find hardest to resist?
Intended outcome: The couple shares a direct, personal desire statement. Intended outcome: The couple shares a direct, personal desire statement.
#### A13 #### A13
Theme: Private performance Theme: Private performance
Intensity: 2 Intensity: 2
Primary text: Would you enjoy your partner making you laugh with a deliberately over-the-top romantic introduction? Primary text: Would you enjoy your partner making you laugh with a deliberately over-the-top romantic introduction?
Partner text: Would you enjoy making your partner laugh with a deliberately over-the-top romantic introduction? Partner text: Would you enjoy making your partner laugh with a deliberately over-the-top romantic introduction?
Intended outcome: One partner performs a comic, affectionate introduction for the other. Intended outcome: One partner performs a comic, affectionate introduction for the other.
#### A14 #### A14
Theme: Private performance Theme: Private performance
Intensity: 3 Intensity: 3
Primary text: Would you like your partner to write and read you a short invitation for a private evening together? Primary text: Would you like your partner to write and read you a short invitation for a private evening together?
Partner text: Would you like to write and read your partner a short invitation for a private evening together? Partner text: Would you like to write and read your partner a short invitation for a private evening together?
Intended outcome: The proposer creates a spoken invitation that frames the evening. Intended outcome: The proposer creates a spoken invitation that frames the evening.
#### A15 #### A15
Theme: Private performance Theme: Private performance
Intensity: 4 Intensity: 4
Primary text: Would you be open to your partner asking you to sit back while they set the pace for the first part of your evening? Primary text: Would you be open to your partner asking you to sit back while they set the pace for the first part of your evening?
Partner text: Would you be open to asking your partner to sit back while you set the pace for the first part of your evening? Partner text: Would you be open to asking your partner to sit back while you set the pace for the first part of your evening?
Intended outcome: The proposer leads the opening part of a mutually agreed private evening. Intended outcome: The proposer leads the opening part of a mutually agreed private evening.
#### A16 #### A16
Theme: Private performance Theme: Private performance
Intensity: 3 Intensity: 3
Primary text: Would you like your partner to reveal one new side of their confidence through a private dance for you? Primary text: Would you like your partner to reveal one new side of their confidence through a private dance for you?
Partner text: Would you like to reveal one new side of your confidence through a private dance for your partner? Partner text: Would you like to reveal one new side of your confidence through a private dance for your partner?
Intended outcome: One partner shares a confidence-focused private dance. Intended outcome: One partner shares a confidence-focused private dance.
### Clothes and confidence ### Clothes and confidence
#### A17 #### A17
Theme: Clothes and confidence Theme: Clothes and confidence
Intensity: 2 Intensity: 2
Primary text: Would you like your partner to choose one outfit detail for your next date that makes them smile? Primary text: Would you like your partner to choose one outfit detail for your next date that makes them smile?
Partner text: Would you like to choose one outfit detail for your partner's next date that makes you smile? Partner text: Would you like to choose one outfit detail for your partner's next date that makes you smile?
Intended outcome: The proposer chooses a small style detail for the receiver to wear. Intended outcome: The proposer chooses a small style detail for the receiver to wear.
#### A18 #### A18
Theme: Clothes and confidence Theme: Clothes and confidence
Intensity: 3 Intensity: 3
Primary text: Would you enjoy your partner putting together a look for you that feels more daring than your usual style? Primary text: Would you enjoy your partner putting together a look for you that feels more daring than your usual style?
Partner text: Would you enjoy putting together a look for your partner that feels more daring than their usual style? Partner text: Would you enjoy putting together a look for your partner that feels more daring than their usual style?
Intended outcome: One partner styles the other for a bolder but comfortable date-night look. Intended outcome: One partner styles the other for a bolder but comfortable date-night look.
#### A19 #### A19
Theme: Clothes and confidence Theme: Clothes and confidence
Intensity: 3 Intensity: 3
Primary text: Would you like your partner to ask you to wear the colour they most associate with you feeling confident? Primary text: Would you like your partner to ask you to wear the colour they most associate with you feeling confident?
Partner text: Would you like to ask your partner to wear the colour you most associate with them feeling confident? Partner text: Would you like to ask your partner to wear the colour you most associate with them feeling confident?
Intended outcome: The receiver wears a colour chosen for its confidence association. Intended outcome: The receiver wears a colour chosen for its confidence association.
#### A20 #### A20
Theme: Clothes and confidence Theme: Clothes and confidence
Intensity: 4 Intensity: 4
Primary text: Would you be open to your partner choosing the dress code for a private evening, within limits you both agree first? Primary text: Would you be open to your partner choosing the dress code for a private evening, within limits you both agree first?
Partner text: Would you be open to choosing the dress code for a private evening, within limits you both agree first? Partner text: Would you be open to choosing the dress code for a private evening, within limits you both agree first?
Intended outcome: One partner leads the evening's agreed presentation and atmosphere. Intended outcome: One partner leads the evening's agreed presentation and atmosphere.
#### A21 #### A21
Theme: Clothes and confidence Theme: Clothes and confidence
Intensity: 2 Intensity: 2
Primary text: Would you like your partner to send you a message before your date saying exactly what they hope you will wear? Primary text: Would you like your partner to send you a message before your date saying exactly what they hope you will wear?
Partner text: Would you like to send your partner a message before your date saying exactly what you hope they will wear? Partner text: Would you like to send your partner a message before your date saying exactly what you hope they will wear?
Intended outcome: The receiver gets a style preference message before a date. Intended outcome: The receiver gets a style preference message before a date.
#### A22 #### A22
Theme: Clothes and confidence Theme: Clothes and confidence
Intensity: 3 Intensity: 3
Primary text: Would you enjoy your partner choosing an accessory for you to wear as a private signal between you? Primary text: Would you enjoy your partner choosing an accessory for you to wear as a private signal between you?
Partner text: Would you enjoy choosing an accessory for your partner to wear as a private signal between you? Partner text: Would you enjoy choosing an accessory for your partner to wear as a private signal between you?
Intended outcome: The couple establishes a subtle shared signal using an accessory. Intended outcome: The couple establishes a subtle shared signal using an accessory.
#### A23 #### A23
Theme: Clothes and confidence Theme: Clothes and confidence
Intensity: 4 Intensity: 4
Primary text: Would you be up for your partner asking you to get ready slowly while they give you one sincere compliment at each step? Primary text: Would you be up for your partner asking you to get ready slowly while they give you one sincere compliment at each step?
Partner text: Would you be up for asking your partner to get ready slowly while you give them one sincere compliment at each step? Partner text: Would you be up for asking your partner to get ready slowly while you give them one sincere compliment at each step?
Intended outcome: The proposer gives the receiver a paced confidence ritual before a night together. Intended outcome: The proposer gives the receiver a paced confidence ritual before a night together.
#### A24 #### A24
Theme: Clothes and confidence Theme: Clothes and confidence
Intensity: 3 Intensity: 3
Primary text: Would you like your partner to choose a 'stay in' outfit for you that feels intentionally different from everyday clothes? Primary text: Would you like your partner to choose a 'stay in' outfit for you that feels intentionally different from everyday clothes?
Partner text: Would you like to choose a 'stay in' outfit for your partner that feels intentionally different from everyday clothes? Partner text: Would you like to choose a 'stay in' outfit for your partner that feels intentionally different from everyday clothes?
Intended outcome: The proposer selects a special at-home look for the receiver. Intended outcome: The proposer selects a special at-home look for the receiver.
### Remaining authored asymmetric entries ### Remaining authored asymmetric entries
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are deliberately retained verbatim in the task transcript for integration. are deliberately retained verbatim in the task transcript for integration.
#### A25 #### A25
Theme: Fantasy exchange Theme: Fantasy exchange
Intensity: 2 Intensity: 2
Primary text: Would you like your partner to tell you about a fictional date they would plan for the two of you with no practical limits? Primary text: Would you like your partner to tell you about a fictional date they would plan for the two of you with no practical limits?
Partner text: Would you like to tell your partner about a fictional date you would plan for the two of you with no practical limits? Partner text: Would you like to tell your partner about a fictional date you would plan for the two of you with no practical limits?
Intended outcome: The proposer shares an imaginative, romance-forward date scenario. Intended outcome: The proposer shares an imaginative, romance-forward date scenario.
#### A26 #### A26
Theme: Fantasy exchange Theme: Fantasy exchange
Intensity: 3 Intensity: 3
Primary text: Would you enjoy your partner writing a three-line scene about the two of you meeting as strangers in a glamorous place? Primary text: Would you enjoy your partner writing a three-line scene about the two of you meeting as strangers in a glamorous place?
Partner text: Would you enjoy writing a three-line scene about you and your partner meeting as strangers in a glamorous place? Partner text: Would you enjoy writing a three-line scene about you and your partner meeting as strangers in a glamorous place?
Intended outcome: The couple gets a short shared fantasy prompt to discuss or play with. Intended outcome: The couple gets a short shared fantasy prompt to discuss or play with.
#### A27 #### A27
Theme: Fantasy exchange Theme: Fantasy exchange
Intensity: 3 Intensity: 3
Primary text: Would you be open to your partner asking what kind of attention makes you feel most wanted in an imagined scenario? Primary text: Would you be open to your partner asking what kind of attention makes you feel most wanted in an imagined scenario?
Partner text: Would you be open to asking your partner what kind of attention makes them feel most wanted in an imagined scenario? Partner text: Would you be open to asking your partner what kind of attention makes them feel most wanted in an imagined scenario?
Intended outcome: The receiver names a preferred kind of romantic attention without needing to commit to it. Intended outcome: The receiver names a preferred kind of romantic attention without needing to commit to it.
#### A28 #### A28
Theme: Fantasy exchange Theme: Fantasy exchange
Intensity: 4 Intensity: 4
Primary text: Would you like your partner to propose a fictional version of tonight where they get to surprise you, and you choose the boundaries first? Primary text: Would you like your partner to propose a fictional version of tonight where they get to surprise you, and you choose the boundaries first?
Partner text: Would you like to propose a fictional version of tonight where you get to surprise your partner, and they choose the boundaries first? Partner text: Would you like to propose a fictional version of tonight where you get to surprise your partner, and they choose the boundaries first?
Intended outcome: One partner proposes an agreed fantasy frame, with the receiver setting limits. Intended outcome: One partner proposes an agreed fantasy frame, with the receiver setting limits.
#### A29 #### A29
Theme: Fantasy exchange Theme: Fantasy exchange
Intensity: 2 Intensity: 2
Primary text: Would you like your partner to invent a nickname for the more confident version of you? Primary text: Would you like your partner to invent a nickname for the more confident version of you?
Partner text: Would you like to invent a nickname for the more confident version of your partner? Partner text: Would you like to invent a nickname for the more confident version of your partner?
Intended outcome: The couple creates a playful private identity cue. Intended outcome: The couple creates a playful private identity cue.
#### A30 #### A30
Theme: Fantasy exchange Theme: Fantasy exchange
Intensity: 3 Intensity: 3
Primary text: Would you enjoy your partner describing the setting of their ideal slow-burn evening with you? Primary text: Would you enjoy your partner describing the setting of their ideal slow-burn evening with you?
Partner text: Would you enjoy describing the setting of your ideal slow-burn evening with your partner? Partner text: Would you enjoy describing the setting of your ideal slow-burn evening with your partner?
Intended outcome: The proposer shares a detailed atmosphere preference that can inform a future plan. Intended outcome: The proposer shares a detailed atmosphere preference that can inform a future plan.
#### A31 #### A31
Theme: Fantasy exchange Theme: Fantasy exchange
Intensity: 4 Intensity: 4
Primary text: Would you be open to your partner asking you what you would want them to take charge of in an imaginary evening? Primary text: Would you be open to your partner asking you what you would want them to take charge of in an imaginary evening?
Partner text: Would you be open to asking your partner what they would want you to take charge of in an imaginary evening? Partner text: Would you be open to asking your partner what they would want you to take charge of in an imaginary evening?
Intended outcome: The receiver identifies one area of leadership they would welcome in fantasy. Intended outcome: The receiver identifies one area of leadership they would welcome in fantasy.
#### A32 #### A32
Theme: Fantasy exchange Theme: Fantasy exchange
Intensity: 3 Intensity: 3
Primary text: Would you like your partner to send you a private message that starts, 'If we had the whole evening to ourselves...' ? Primary text: Would you like your partner to send you a private message that starts, 'If we had the whole evening to ourselves...' ?
Partner text: Would you like to send your partner a private message that starts, 'If we had the whole evening to ourselves...' ? Partner text: Would you like to send your partner a private message that starts, 'If we had the whole evening to ourselves...' ?
Intended outcome: The proposer sends an open-ended desire prompt for a private exchange. Intended outcome: The proposer sends an open-ended desire prompt for a private exchange.
#### A33 #### A33
Theme: Roleplay Theme: Roleplay
Intensity: 2 Intensity: 2
Primary text: Would you like your partner to pretend they are meeting you for the first time and ask you out again? Primary text: Would you like your partner to pretend they are meeting you for the first time and ask you out again?
Partner text: Would you like to pretend you are meeting your partner for the first time and ask them out again? Partner text: Would you like to pretend you are meeting your partner for the first time and ask them out again?
Intended outcome: The proposer recreates a first-meeting invitation in character. Intended outcome: The proposer recreates a first-meeting invitation in character.
#### A34 #### A34
Theme: Roleplay Theme: Roleplay
Intensity: 3 Intensity: 3
Primary text: Would you enjoy your partner taking the role of your personal host for an evening at home? Primary text: Would you enjoy your partner taking the role of your personal host for an evening at home?
Partner text: Would you enjoy taking the role of your partner's personal host for an evening at home? Partner text: Would you enjoy taking the role of your partner's personal host for an evening at home?
Intended outcome: One partner plans and hosts a dedicated private evening. Intended outcome: One partner plans and hosts a dedicated private evening.
#### A35 #### A35
Theme: Roleplay Theme: Roleplay
Intensity: 3 Intensity: 3
Primary text: Would you be up for your partner acting as a confident stranger who has one hour to win you over? Primary text: Would you be up for your partner acting as a confident stranger who has one hour to win you over?
Partner text: Would you be up for acting as a confident stranger who has one hour to win your partner over? Partner text: Would you be up for acting as a confident stranger who has one hour to win your partner over?
Intended outcome: The proposer takes on a flirtatious stranger character during an agreed private scenario. Intended outcome: The proposer takes on a flirtatious stranger character during an agreed private scenario.
#### A36 #### A36
Theme: Roleplay Theme: Roleplay
Intensity: 4 Intensity: 4
Primary text: Would you like your partner to choose a role where they lead the conversation and you decide when to step out of character? Primary text: Would you like your partner to choose a role where they lead the conversation and you decide when to step out of character?
Partner text: Would you like to choose a role where you lead the conversation and your partner decides when to step out of character? Partner text: Would you like to choose a role where you lead the conversation and your partner decides when to step out of character?
Intended outcome: The proposer leads a consensual roleplay conversation with a clear exit controlled by the receiver. Intended outcome: The proposer leads a consensual roleplay conversation with a clear exit controlled by the receiver.
#### A37 #### A37
Theme: Roleplay Theme: Roleplay
Intensity: 2 Intensity: 2
Primary text: Would you enjoy your partner writing you a pretend invitation to an exclusive event for two? Primary text: Would you enjoy your partner writing you a pretend invitation to an exclusive event for two?
Partner text: Would you enjoy writing your partner a pretend invitation to an exclusive event for two? Partner text: Would you enjoy writing your partner a pretend invitation to an exclusive event for two?
Intended outcome: The proposer creates a playful invitation that introduces a private date concept. Intended outcome: The proposer creates a playful invitation that introduces a private date concept.
#### A38 #### A38
Theme: Roleplay Theme: Roleplay
Intensity: 3 Intensity: 3
Primary text: Would you like your partner to play the part of a stylist who gives you one confidence challenge for the evening? Primary text: Would you like your partner to play the part of a stylist who gives you one confidence challenge for the evening?
Partner text: Would you like to play the part of a stylist who gives your partner one confidence challenge for the evening? Partner text: Would you like to play the part of a stylist who gives your partner one confidence challenge for the evening?
Intended outcome: One partner sets a light, agreed confidence challenge in character. Intended outcome: One partner sets a light, agreed confidence challenge in character.
#### A39 #### A39
Theme: Roleplay Theme: Roleplay
Intensity: 4 Intensity: 4
Primary text: Would you be open to your partner choosing a character who is bolder than they usually are, while you set the limits of the scene? Primary text: Would you be open to your partner choosing a character who is bolder than they usually are, while you set the limits of the scene?
Partner text: Would you be open to choosing a character who is bolder than you usually are, while your partner sets the limits of the scene? Partner text: Would you be open to choosing a character who is bolder than you usually are, while your partner sets the limits of the scene?
Intended outcome: The proposer explores a bolder role while the receiver sets the scene's boundaries. Intended outcome: The proposer explores a bolder role while the receiver sets the scene's boundaries.
#### A40 #### A40
Theme: Settings and atmosphere Theme: Settings and atmosphere
Intensity: 2 Intensity: 2
Primary text: Would you like your partner to turn one room into a date-night space before you arrive? Primary text: Would you like your partner to turn one room into a date-night space before you arrive?
Partner text: Would you like to turn one room into a date-night space before your partner arrives? Partner text: Would you like to turn one room into a date-night space before your partner arrives?
Intended outcome: The proposer prepares a distinct at-home setting for the receiver. Intended outcome: The proposer prepares a distinct at-home setting for the receiver.
#### A41 #### A41
Theme: Settings and atmosphere Theme: Settings and atmosphere
Intensity: 3 Intensity: 3
Primary text: Would you enjoy your partner choosing a place in your home where you are not usually romantic and making it feel special? Primary text: Would you enjoy your partner choosing a place in your home where you are not usually romantic and making it feel special?
Partner text: Would you enjoy choosing a place in your home where you and your partner are not usually romantic and making it feel special? Partner text: Would you enjoy choosing a place in your home where you and your partner are not usually romantic and making it feel special?
Intended outcome: One partner transforms an ordinary indoor space into a deliberate romantic setting. Intended outcome: One partner transforms an ordinary indoor space into a deliberate romantic setting.
#### A42 #### A42
Theme: Settings and atmosphere Theme: Settings and atmosphere
Intensity: 3 Intensity: 3
Primary text: Would you like your partner to plan a candlelit late-night snack for the two of you after everything else is quiet? Primary text: Would you like your partner to plan a candlelit late-night snack for the two of you after everything else is quiet?
Partner text: Would you like to plan a candlelit late-night snack for you and your partner after everything else is quiet? Partner text: Would you like to plan a candlelit late-night snack for you and your partner after everything else is quiet?
Intended outcome: The proposer creates a calm, intimate-feeling post-evening ritual. Intended outcome: The proposer creates a calm, intimate-feeling post-evening ritual.
#### A43 #### A43
Theme: Settings and atmosphere Theme: Settings and atmosphere
Intensity: 4 Intensity: 4
Primary text: Would you be open to your partner arranging a private evening where your phones stay out of reach until you both agree to check them? Primary text: Would you be open to your partner arranging a private evening where your phones stay out of reach until you both agree to check them?
Partner text: Would you be open to arranging a private evening where your phones stay out of reach until you both agree to check them? Partner text: Would you be open to arranging a private evening where your phones stay out of reach until you both agree to check them?
Intended outcome: The couple agrees to protected, distraction-free private time. Intended outcome: The couple agrees to protected, distraction-free private time.
#### A44 #### A44
Theme: Settings and atmosphere Theme: Settings and atmosphere
Intensity: 2 Intensity: 2
Primary text: Would you like your partner to choose the route for a slow evening walk that ends somewhere cosy? Primary text: Would you like your partner to choose the route for a slow evening walk that ends somewhere cosy?
Partner text: Would you like to choose the route for a slow evening walk that ends somewhere cosy with your partner? Partner text: Would you like to choose the route for a slow evening walk that ends somewhere cosy with your partner?
Intended outcome: The proposer directs a low-pressure shared walk toward a close setting. Intended outcome: The proposer directs a low-pressure shared walk toward a close setting.
#### A45 #### A45
Theme: Settings and atmosphere Theme: Settings and atmosphere
Intensity: 3 Intensity: 3
Primary text: Would you enjoy your partner planning a 'no agenda' hour where they only focus on making you feel looked after? Primary text: Would you enjoy your partner planning a 'no agenda' hour where they only focus on making you feel looked after?
Partner text: Would you enjoy planning a 'no agenda' hour where you only focus on making your partner feel looked after? Partner text: Would you enjoy planning a 'no agenda' hour where you only focus on making your partner feel looked after?
Intended outcome: One partner takes responsibility for a gentle, attentiveness-focused hour. Intended outcome: One partner takes responsibility for a gentle, attentiveness-focused hour.
#### A46 #### A46
Theme: Settings and atmosphere Theme: Settings and atmosphere
Intensity: 4 Intensity: 4
Primary text: Would you like your partner to choose a private setting for a conversation about what would make tonight feel exciting to you? Primary text: Would you like your partner to choose a private setting for a conversation about what would make tonight feel exciting to you?
Partner text: Would you like to choose a private setting for a conversation about what would make tonight feel exciting to your partner? Partner text: Would you like to choose a private setting for a conversation about what would make tonight feel exciting to your partner?
Intended outcome: The proposer creates the conditions for a direct desire and boundaries conversation. Intended outcome: The proposer creates the conditions for a direct desire and boundaries conversation.
#### A47 #### A47
Theme: Surprise and novelty Theme: Surprise and novelty
Intensity: 2 Intensity: 2
Primary text: Would you like your partner to leave you a sealed note with one romantic surprise inside? Primary text: Would you like your partner to leave you a sealed note with one romantic surprise inside?
Partner text: Would you like to leave your partner a sealed note with one romantic surprise inside? Partner text: Would you like to leave your partner a sealed note with one romantic surprise inside?
Intended outcome: The proposer creates a small, consent-safe romantic surprise for the receiver. Intended outcome: The proposer creates a small, consent-safe romantic surprise for the receiver.
#### A48 #### A48
Theme: Surprise and novelty Theme: Surprise and novelty
Intensity: 3 Intensity: 3
Primary text: Would you enjoy your partner planning one part of your evening that they do not reveal until you have both agreed to begin? Primary text: Would you enjoy your partner planning one part of your evening that they do not reveal until you have both agreed to begin?
Partner text: Would you enjoy planning one part of your evening that you do not reveal until you and your partner have both agreed to begin? Partner text: Would you enjoy planning one part of your evening that you do not reveal until you and your partner have both agreed to begin?
Intended outcome: One partner prepares a mutually agreed surprise element. Intended outcome: One partner prepares a mutually agreed surprise element.
#### A49 #### A49
Theme: Surprise and novelty Theme: Surprise and novelty
Intensity: 3 Intensity: 3
Primary text: Would you like your partner to give you a choice between two different kinds of close evening, without telling you which they hope you pick? Primary text: Would you like your partner to give you a choice between two different kinds of close evening, without telling you which they hope you pick?
Partner text: Would you like to give your partner a choice between two different kinds of close evening, without telling them which you hope they pick? Partner text: Would you like to give your partner a choice between two different kinds of close evening, without telling them which you hope they pick?
Intended outcome: The couple uses a playful choice to reveal preferences and select a plan. Intended outcome: The couple uses a playful choice to reveal preferences and select a plan.
#### A50 #### A50
Theme: Surprise and novelty Theme: Surprise and novelty
Intensity: 4 Intensity: 4
Primary text: Would you be open to your partner asking you to say yes to one surprise date-night detail, after they tell you the category but not the detail? Primary text: Would you be open to your partner asking you to say yes to one surprise date-night detail, after they tell you the category but not the detail?
Partner text: Would you be open to asking your partner to say yes to one surprise date-night detail, after you tell them the category but not the detail? Partner text: Would you be open to asking your partner to say yes to one surprise date-night detail, after you tell them the category but not the detail?
Intended outcome: The receiver consents to a bounded surprise with enough information to choose safely. Intended outcome: The receiver consents to a bounded surprise with enough information to choose safely.
#### A51 #### A51
Theme: Surprise and novelty Theme: Surprise and novelty
Intensity: 2 Intensity: 2
Primary text: Would you like your partner to hide a clue somewhere at home that leads to a compliment from them? Primary text: Would you like your partner to hide a clue somewhere at home that leads to a compliment from them?
Partner text: Would you like to hide a clue somewhere at home that leads your partner to a compliment from you? Partner text: Would you like to hide a clue somewhere at home that leads your partner to a compliment from you?
Intended outcome: The proposer creates a mini treasure hunt ending in affirmation. Intended outcome: The proposer creates a mini treasure hunt ending in affirmation.
#### A52 #### A52
Theme: Surprise and novelty Theme: Surprise and novelty
Intensity: 3 Intensity: 3
Primary text: Would you enjoy your partner choosing a new shared ritual for the first ten minutes of date night? Primary text: Would you enjoy your partner choosing a new shared ritual for the first ten minutes of date night?
Partner text: Would you enjoy choosing a new shared ritual for the first ten minutes of date night with your partner? Partner text: Would you enjoy choosing a new shared ritual for the first ten minutes of date night with your partner?
Intended outcome: The proposer introduces a repeatable opening ritual for intentional time together. Intended outcome: The proposer introduces a repeatable opening ritual for intentional time together.
#### A53 #### A53
Theme: Surprise and novelty Theme: Surprise and novelty
Intensity: 4 Intensity: 4
Primary text: Would you like your partner to surprise you with a confidence challenge that you can change or stop at any point? Primary text: Would you like your partner to surprise you with a confidence challenge that you can change or stop at any point?
Partner text: Would you like to surprise your partner with a confidence challenge that they can change or stop at any point? Partner text: Would you like to surprise your partner with a confidence challenge that they can change or stop at any point?
Intended outcome: The proposer offers a novel confidence prompt with explicit receiver control. Intended outcome: The proposer offers a novel confidence prompt with explicit receiver control.
#### A54 #### A54
Theme: Long-distance desire Theme: Long-distance desire
Intensity: 2 Intensity: 2
Primary text: Would you like your partner to send you a voice note describing the first thing they want to do when you next have time alone together? Primary text: Would you like your partner to send you a voice note describing the first thing they want to do when you next have time alone together?
Partner text: Would you like to send your partner a voice note describing the first thing you want to do when you next have time alone together? Partner text: Would you like to send your partner a voice note describing the first thing you want to do when you next have time alone together?
Intended outcome: The proposer shares an anticipation-building voice message for the next reunion. Intended outcome: The proposer shares an anticipation-building voice message for the next reunion.
#### A55 #### A55
Theme: Long-distance desire Theme: Long-distance desire
Intensity: 3 Intensity: 3
Primary text: Would you enjoy your partner planning a video-date mood for you to join from wherever you are? Primary text: Would you enjoy your partner planning a video-date mood for you to join from wherever you are?
Partner text: Would you enjoy planning a video-date mood for your partner to join from wherever they are? Partner text: Would you enjoy planning a video-date mood for your partner to join from wherever they are?
Intended outcome: One partner sets a shared remote date atmosphere. Intended outcome: One partner sets a shared remote date atmosphere.
#### A56 #### A56
Theme: Long-distance desire Theme: Long-distance desire
Intensity: 3 Intensity: 3
Primary text: Would you like your partner to send you a message telling you what they miss most about being close to you? Primary text: Would you like your partner to send you a message telling you what they miss most about being close to you?
Partner text: Would you like to send your partner a message telling them what you miss most about being close to them? Partner text: Would you like to send your partner a message telling them what you miss most about being close to them?
Intended outcome: The receiver gets a specific intimacy-adjacent expression of longing. Intended outcome: The receiver gets a specific intimacy-adjacent expression of longing.
#### A57 #### A57
Theme: Long-distance desire Theme: Long-distance desire
Intensity: 4 Intensity: 4
Primary text: Would you be open to your partner arranging a private call where you both say one thing you hope to explore together when you reunite? Primary text: Would you be open to your partner arranging a private call where you both say one thing you hope to explore together when you reunite?
Partner text: Would you be open to arranging a private call where you both say one thing you hope to explore together when you reunite? Partner text: Would you be open to arranging a private call where you both say one thing you hope to explore together when you reunite?
Intended outcome: The couple holds a mutual, forward-looking conversation about agreed future intimacy. Intended outcome: The couple holds a mutual, forward-looking conversation about agreed future intimacy.
#### A58 #### A58
Theme: Long-distance desire Theme: Long-distance desire
Intensity: 2 Intensity: 2
Primary text: Would you like your partner to send you a photo of something that reminds them of your chemistry? Primary text: Would you like your partner to send you a photo of something that reminds them of your chemistry?
Partner text: Would you like to send your partner a photo of something that reminds you of your chemistry? Partner text: Would you like to send your partner a photo of something that reminds you of your chemistry?
Intended outcome: The proposer shares a safe visual cue connected to their relationship. Intended outcome: The proposer shares a safe visual cue connected to their relationship.
#### A59 #### A59
Theme: Long-distance desire Theme: Long-distance desire
Intensity: 3 Intensity: 3
Primary text: Would you enjoy your partner choosing a song for you to listen to at the same time from different places? Primary text: Would you enjoy your partner choosing a song for you to listen to at the same time from different places?
Partner text: Would you enjoy choosing a song for you and your partner to listen to at the same time from different places? Partner text: Would you enjoy choosing a song for you and your partner to listen to at the same time from different places?
Intended outcome: The pair creates a synchronized remote closeness ritual. Intended outcome: The pair creates a synchronized remote closeness ritual.
#### A60 #### A60
Theme: Long-distance desire Theme: Long-distance desire
Intensity: 4 Intensity: 4
Primary text: Would you like your partner to ask you for one honest promise about how you will make time for each other when distance ends? Primary text: Would you like your partner to ask you for one honest promise about how you will make time for each other when distance ends?
Partner text: Would you like to ask your partner for one honest promise about how you will make time for each other when distance ends? Partner text: Would you like to ask your partner for one honest promise about how you will make time for each other when distance ends?
Intended outcome: The couple makes a concrete reunion-intent commitment. Intended outcome: The couple makes a concrete reunion-intent commitment.
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1. **Theme:** Flirty communication | **Intensity:** 2 1. **Theme:** Flirty communication | **Intensity:** 2
**Prompt:** Write the compliment you most want your partner to give you before a close moment. **Prompt:** Write the compliment you most want your partner to give you before a close moment.
**Intended outcome:** Your partner learns the exact reassurance that makes you feel wanted and can use it as a sincere opening. **Intended outcome:** Your partner learns the exact reassurance that makes you feel wanted and can use it as a sincere opening.
2. **Theme:** Flirty communication | **Intensity:** 2 2. **Theme:** Flirty communication | **Intensity:** 2
**Prompt:** Finish this sentence for your partner: “When you look at me like that, I want you to know...” **Prompt:** Finish this sentence for your partner: “When you look at me like that, I want you to know...”
**Intended outcome:** Your partner receives a personal signal about the effect their attention has on you. **Intended outcome:** Your partner receives a personal signal about the effect their attention has on you.
3. **Theme:** Flirty communication | **Intensity:** 3 3. **Theme:** Flirty communication | **Intensity:** 3
**Prompt:** Write a one-line invitation that would make you smile if your partner sent it unexpectedly. **Prompt:** Write a one-line invitation that would make you smile if your partner sent it unexpectedly.
**Intended outcome:** Your partner gets a ready-to-use private message and learns the tone that draws you in. **Intended outcome:** Your partner gets a ready-to-use private message and learns the tone that draws you in.
4. **Theme:** Flirty communication | **Intensity:** 3 4. **Theme:** Flirty communication | **Intensity:** 3
**Prompt:** Describe the kind of teasing remark that feels playful to you rather than awkward. **Prompt:** Describe the kind of teasing remark that feels playful to you rather than awkward.
**Intended outcome:** Your partner learns your preferred style of flirtation and a boundary around what keeps it fun. **Intended outcome:** Your partner learns your preferred style of flirtation and a boundary around what keeps it fun.
5. **Theme:** Flirty communication | **Intensity:** 3 5. **Theme:** Flirty communication | **Intensity:** 3
**Prompt:** Tell your partner one thing they do that immediately changes the mood between you. **Prompt:** Tell your partner one thing they do that immediately changes the mood between you.
**Intended outcome:** Your partner discovers a specific behaviour worth repeating when you both want more closeness. **Intended outcome:** Your partner discovers a specific behaviour worth repeating when you both want more closeness.
6. **Theme:** Flirty communication | **Intensity:** 4 6. **Theme:** Flirty communication | **Intensity:** 4
**Prompt:** Write the boldest thing you would like your partner to say to you privately, in your own words. **Prompt:** Write the boldest thing you would like your partner to say to you privately, in your own words.
**Intended outcome:** Your partner receives direct permission to use language that feels exciting to you. **Intended outcome:** Your partner receives direct permission to use language that feels exciting to you.
7. **Theme:** Flirty communication | **Intensity:** 4 7. **Theme:** Flirty communication | **Intensity:** 4
**Prompt:** Describe a private conversation you would love to have when you both feel especially open. **Prompt:** Describe a private conversation you would love to have when you both feel especially open.
**Intended outcome:** Your partner learns the subject you are curious to explore and can choose a comfortable time to start it. **Intended outcome:** Your partner learns the subject you are curious to explore and can choose a comfortable time to start it.
8. **Theme:** Anticipation | **Intensity:** 2 8. **Theme:** Anticipation | **Intensity:** 2
**Prompt:** Describe the ideal first hint that a special evening together is coming. **Prompt:** Describe the ideal first hint that a special evening together is coming.
**Intended outcome:** Your partner learns how to build anticipation in a way that feels welcome rather than vague. **Intended outcome:** Your partner learns how to build anticipation in a way that feels welcome rather than vague.
9. **Theme:** Anticipation | **Intensity:** 2 9. **Theme:** Anticipation | **Intensity:** 2
**Prompt:** Write the kind of message that would make you look forward to seeing your partner later. **Prompt:** Write the kind of message that would make you look forward to seeing your partner later.
**Intended outcome:** Your partner gets a concrete cue they can send before you reconnect. **Intended outcome:** Your partner gets a concrete cue they can send before you reconnect.
10. **Theme:** Anticipation | **Intensity:** 3 10. **Theme:** Anticipation | **Intensity:** 3
**Prompt:** Tell your partner what preparation would make you feel more relaxed before a private date at home. **Prompt:** Tell your partner what preparation would make you feel more relaxed before a private date at home.
**Intended outcome:** Your partner learns a practical condition that helps you arrive present and receptive. **Intended outcome:** Your partner learns a practical condition that helps you arrive present and receptive.
11. **Theme:** Anticipation | **Intensity:** 3 11. **Theme:** Anticipation | **Intensity:** 3
**Prompt:** Describe a small change to your usual evening routine that would make it feel more intentional. **Prompt:** Describe a small change to your usual evening routine that would make it feel more intentional.
**Intended outcome:** Your partner receives one realistic ritual to create a sense of occasion together. **Intended outcome:** Your partner receives one realistic ritual to create a sense of occasion together.
12. **Theme:** Anticipation | **Intensity:** 3 12. **Theme:** Anticipation | **Intensity:** 3
**Prompt:** Write what you would enjoy being asked to choose before your next intimate evening. **Prompt:** Write what you would enjoy being asked to choose before your next intimate evening.
**Intended outcome:** Your partner learns where offering you a choice creates more excitement. **Intended outcome:** Your partner learns where offering you a choice creates more excitement.
13. **Theme:** Anticipation | **Intensity:** 4 13. **Theme:** Anticipation | **Intensity:** 4
**Prompt:** Share one private surprise you would genuinely enjoy your partner planning for you. **Prompt:** Share one private surprise you would genuinely enjoy your partner planning for you.
**Intended outcome:** Your partner receives a clear idea for an unexpected gesture, including the kind of surprise you welcome. **Intended outcome:** Your partner receives a clear idea for an unexpected gesture, including the kind of surprise you welcome.
14. **Theme:** Anticipation | **Intensity:** 4 14. **Theme:** Anticipation | **Intensity:** 4
**Prompt:** Write a short countdown message you would like to receive before a night focused on the two of you. **Prompt:** Write a short countdown message you would like to receive before a night focused on the two of you.
**Intended outcome:** Your partner gets language that builds suspense without guessing what would land well. **Intended outcome:** Your partner gets language that builds suspense without guessing what would land well.
15. **Theme:** Taking the lead | **Intensity:** 2 15. **Theme:** Taking the lead | **Intensity:** 2
**Prompt:** Describe one part of a date where you would enjoy deciding what happens next. **Prompt:** Describe one part of a date where you would enjoy deciding what happens next.
**Intended outcome:** Your partner learns a low-pressure moment where your initiative would feel attractive. **Intended outcome:** Your partner learns a low-pressure moment where your initiative would feel attractive.
16. **Theme:** Taking the lead | **Intensity:** 2 16. **Theme:** Taking the lead | **Intensity:** 2
**Prompt:** Write an invitation you would feel confident making when you want more one-to-one time. **Prompt:** Write an invitation you would feel confident making when you want more one-to-one time.
**Intended outcome:** Your partner receives a phrase that makes your interest unmistakable and easy to answer. **Intended outcome:** Your partner receives a phrase that makes your interest unmistakable and easy to answer.
17. **Theme:** Taking the lead | **Intensity:** 3 17. **Theme:** Taking the lead | **Intensity:** 3
**Prompt:** Tell your partner what kind of plan you would enjoy taking charge of from start to finish. **Prompt:** Tell your partner what kind of plan you would enjoy taking charge of from start to finish.
**Intended outcome:** Your partner learns which shared experience you want to own and can leave space for you to lead it. **Intended outcome:** Your partner learns which shared experience you want to own and can leave space for you to lead it.
18. **Theme:** Taking the lead | **Intensity:** 3 18. **Theme:** Taking the lead | **Intensity:** 3
**Prompt:** Describe how you would like your partner to respond when you make a bold suggestion. **Prompt:** Describe how you would like your partner to respond when you make a bold suggestion.
**Intended outcome:** Your partner gets a practical guide for encouraging your confidence in the moment. **Intended outcome:** Your partner gets a practical guide for encouraging your confidence in the moment.
19. **Theme:** Taking the lead | **Intensity:** 3 19. **Theme:** Taking the lead | **Intensity:** 3
**Prompt:** Write one decision you would like to make for both of you during a private evening. **Prompt:** Write one decision you would like to make for both of you during a private evening.
**Intended outcome:** Your partner learns the kind of authority you want to try, with a concrete decision to hand over. **Intended outcome:** Your partner learns the kind of authority you want to try, with a concrete decision to hand over.
20. **Theme:** Taking the lead | **Intensity:** 4 20. **Theme:** Taking the lead | **Intensity:** 4
**Prompt:** Describe a confident version of yourself you would like your partner to see more often. **Prompt:** Describe a confident version of yourself you would like your partner to see more often.
**Intended outcome:** Your partner learns what confidence looks like for you and how they can invite it out. **Intended outcome:** Your partner learns what confidence looks like for you and how they can invite it out.
21. **Theme:** Taking the lead | **Intensity:** 4 21. **Theme:** Taking the lead | **Intensity:** 4
**Prompt:** Write the private challenge you would like to set for your partner, including what would make it exciting. **Prompt:** Write the private challenge you would like to set for your partner, including what would make it exciting.
**Intended outcome:** Your partner receives a consensual challenge with the reason it appeals to you. **Intended outcome:** Your partner receives a consensual challenge with the reason it appeals to you.
22. **Theme:** Following | **Intensity:** 2 22. **Theme:** Following | **Intensity:** 2
**Prompt:** Tell your partner one decision you would enjoy not having to make on a date. **Prompt:** Tell your partner one decision you would enjoy not having to make on a date.
**Intended outcome:** Your partner learns a simple place where taking initiative would feel caring. **Intended outcome:** Your partner learns a simple place where taking initiative would feel caring.
23. **Theme:** Following | **Intensity:** 2 23. **Theme:** Following | **Intensity:** 2
**Prompt:** Describe the kind of invitation that makes it easy for you to say yes. **Prompt:** Describe the kind of invitation that makes it easy for you to say yes.
**Intended outcome:** Your partner learns the wording and atmosphere that lower pressure for you. **Intended outcome:** Your partner learns the wording and atmosphere that lower pressure for you.
24. **Theme:** Following | **Intensity:** 3 24. **Theme:** Following | **Intensity:** 3
**Prompt:** Write what helps you trust your partner’s lead during a more intimate moment. **Prompt:** Write what helps you trust your partner’s lead during a more intimate moment.
**Intended outcome:** Your partner learns the specific reassurance or check-in that helps you relax into their plan. **Intended outcome:** Your partner learns the specific reassurance or check-in that helps you relax into their plan.
25. **Theme:** Following | **Intensity:** 3 25. **Theme:** Following | **Intensity:** 3
**Prompt:** Share one surprise choice you would enjoy your partner making for you. **Prompt:** Share one surprise choice you would enjoy your partner making for you.
**Intended outcome:** Your partner gets a defined area where surprise feels exciting and safe. **Intended outcome:** Your partner gets a defined area where surprise feels exciting and safe.
26. **Theme:** Following | **Intensity:** 3 26. **Theme:** Following | **Intensity:** 3
**Prompt:** Describe how you want your partner to check that you are still enjoying their lead. **Prompt:** Describe how you want your partner to check that you are still enjoying their lead.
**Intended outcome:** Your partner receives a clear check-in preference they can use without breaking the mood. **Intended outcome:** Your partner receives a clear check-in preference they can use without breaking the mood.
27. **Theme:** Following | **Intensity:** 4 27. **Theme:** Following | **Intensity:** 4
**Prompt:** Write about a private situation where you would like to be guided step by step, in your own terms. **Prompt:** Write about a private situation where you would like to be guided step by step, in your own terms.
**Intended outcome:** Your partner learns the type of guidance you are curious about and the limits you want respected. **Intended outcome:** Your partner learns the type of guidance you are curious about and the limits you want respected.
28. **Theme:** Following | **Intensity:** 4 28. **Theme:** Following | **Intensity:** 4
**Prompt:** Tell your partner what would make it feel exciting to let them choose the pace for a while. **Prompt:** Tell your partner what would make it feel exciting to let them choose the pace for a while.
**Intended outcome:** Your partner learns the conditions that make you comfortable giving them more influence. **Intended outcome:** Your partner learns the conditions that make you comfortable giving them more influence.
29. **Theme:** Shared control | **Intensity:** 2 29. **Theme:** Shared control | **Intensity:** 2
**Prompt:** Name one decision you want to make together before your next close evening. **Prompt:** Name one decision you want to make together before your next close evening.
**Intended outcome:** Your partner learns where collaboration matters most to you and can plan it jointly. **Intended outcome:** Your partner learns where collaboration matters most to you and can plan it jointly.
30. **Theme:** Shared control | **Intensity:** 2 30. **Theme:** Shared control | **Intensity:** 2
**Prompt:** Describe your ideal signal for “let’s keep going” during a private moment. **Prompt:** Describe your ideal signal for “let’s keep going” during a private moment.
**Intended outcome:** Your partner receives a simple shared cue that makes mutual enthusiasm easier to read. **Intended outcome:** Your partner receives a simple shared cue that makes mutual enthusiasm easier to read.
31. **Theme:** Shared control | **Intensity:** 3 31. **Theme:** Shared control | **Intensity:** 3
**Prompt:** Write the rule you would like both of you to follow when trying something unfamiliar together. **Prompt:** Write the rule you would like both of you to follow when trying something unfamiliar together.
**Intended outcome:** Your partner learns a mutual agreement that makes exploration feel safer. **Intended outcome:** Your partner learns a mutual agreement that makes exploration feel safer.
32. **Theme:** Shared control | **Intensity:** 3 32. **Theme:** Shared control | **Intensity:** 3
**Prompt:** Tell your partner how you would like to alternate who chooses the next part of a date. **Prompt:** Tell your partner how you would like to alternate who chooses the next part of a date.
**Intended outcome:** Your partner gets a workable rhythm for sharing initiative rather than defaulting to one person. **Intended outcome:** Your partner gets a workable rhythm for sharing initiative rather than defaulting to one person.
33. **Theme:** Shared control | **Intensity:** 3 33. **Theme:** Shared control | **Intensity:** 3
**Prompt:** Describe one moment where you would enjoy pausing together to decide what you both want. **Prompt:** Describe one moment where you would enjoy pausing together to decide what you both want.
**Intended outcome:** Your partner learns when a joint decision would add connection instead of interrupting it. **Intended outcome:** Your partner learns when a joint decision would add connection instead of interrupting it.
34. **Theme:** Shared control | **Intensity:** 4 34. **Theme:** Shared control | **Intensity:** 4
**Prompt:** Write the private agreement that would make you feel brave enough to explore more together. **Prompt:** Write the private agreement that would make you feel brave enough to explore more together.
**Intended outcome:** Your partner receives a concrete mutual promise that supports bolder, consent-led choices. **Intended outcome:** Your partner receives a concrete mutual promise that supports bolder, consent-led choices.
35. **Theme:** Shared control | **Intensity:** 4 35. **Theme:** Shared control | **Intensity:** 4
**Prompt:** Share the question you want your partner to ask before either of you raises the intensity. **Prompt:** Share the question you want your partner to ask before either of you raises the intensity.
**Intended outcome:** Your partner learns the exact invitation to use before moving into more charged territory. **Intended outcome:** Your partner learns the exact invitation to use before moving into more charged territory.
36. **Theme:** Boundaries and check-ins | **Intensity:** 2 36. **Theme:** Boundaries and check-ins | **Intensity:** 2
**Prompt:** Write one phrase that means “I like this, but slower” for you. **Prompt:** Write one phrase that means “I like this, but slower” for you.
**Intended outcome:** Your partner receives a clear signal for adjusting pace without uncertainty. **Intended outcome:** Your partner receives a clear signal for adjusting pace without uncertainty.
37. **Theme:** Boundaries and check-ins | **Intensity:** 2 37. **Theme:** Boundaries and check-ins | **Intensity:** 2
**Prompt:** Describe the best way for your partner to ask whether you are comfortable. **Prompt:** Describe the best way for your partner to ask whether you are comfortable.
**Intended outcome:** Your partner learns a check-in style that feels caring rather than clinical. **Intended outcome:** Your partner learns a check-in style that feels caring rather than clinical.
38. **Theme:** Boundaries and check-ins | **Intensity:** 3 38. **Theme:** Boundaries and check-ins | **Intensity:** 3
**Prompt:** Tell your partner one thing you need before you can enjoy a more adventurous private plan. **Prompt:** Tell your partner one thing you need before you can enjoy a more adventurous private plan.
**Intended outcome:** Your partner learns a condition that turns curiosity into a safer shared possibility. **Intended outcome:** Your partner learns a condition that turns curiosity into a safer shared possibility.
39. **Theme:** Boundaries and check-ins | **Intensity:** 3 39. **Theme:** Boundaries and check-ins | **Intensity:** 3
**Prompt:** Write a kind way you would want your partner to respond if you change your mind. **Prompt:** Write a kind way you would want your partner to respond if you change your mind.
**Intended outcome:** Your partner gets direct guidance for making a change of plan feel respected and easy. **Intended outcome:** Your partner gets direct guidance for making a change of plan feel respected and easy.
40. **Theme:** Boundaries and check-ins | **Intensity:** 3 40. **Theme:** Boundaries and check-ins | **Intensity:** 3
**Prompt:** Describe one topic you would prefer to discuss before, rather than during, a close moment. **Prompt:** Describe one topic you would prefer to discuss before, rather than during, a close moment.
**Intended outcome:** Your partner learns what deserves a calm conversation in advance. **Intended outcome:** Your partner learns what deserves a calm conversation in advance.
41. **Theme:** Boundaries and check-ins | **Intensity:** 4 41. **Theme:** Boundaries and check-ins | **Intensity:** 4
**Prompt:** Share a boundary that makes you feel more able to be adventurous within it. **Prompt:** Share a boundary that makes you feel more able to be adventurous within it.
**Intended outcome:** Your partner learns the limit that creates freedom rather than reducing the mood. **Intended outcome:** Your partner learns the limit that creates freedom rather than reducing the mood.
42. **Theme:** Boundaries and check-ins | **Intensity:** 4 42. **Theme:** Boundaries and check-ins | **Intensity:** 4
**Prompt:** Write the reassurance you need when you suggest something that feels vulnerable to say aloud. **Prompt:** Write the reassurance you need when you suggest something that feels vulnerable to say aloud.
**Intended outcome:** Your partner receives a practical response that helps you bring up bolder ideas honestly. **Intended outcome:** Your partner receives a practical response that helps you bring up bolder ideas honestly.
43. **Theme:** Aftercare and reconnection | **Intensity:** 2 43. **Theme:** Aftercare and reconnection | **Intensity:** 2
**Prompt:** Describe how you like to reconnect after an especially close moment. **Prompt:** Describe how you like to reconnect after an especially close moment.
**Intended outcome:** Your partner learns the small act that helps you feel settled and connected afterward. **Intended outcome:** Your partner learns the small act that helps you feel settled and connected afterward.
44. **Theme:** Aftercare and reconnection | **Intensity:** 2 44. **Theme:** Aftercare and reconnection | **Intensity:** 2
**Prompt:** Write the first question you would like your partner to ask after trying something new together. **Prompt:** Write the first question you would like your partner to ask after trying something new together.
**Intended outcome:** Your partner receives a ready-made invitation for a thoughtful debrief. **Intended outcome:** Your partner receives a ready-made invitation for a thoughtful debrief.
45. **Theme:** Aftercare and reconnection | **Intensity:** 3 45. **Theme:** Aftercare and reconnection | **Intensity:** 3
**Prompt:** Tell your partner what makes you feel appreciated after you have been emotionally open. **Prompt:** Tell your partner what makes you feel appreciated after you have been emotionally open.
**Intended outcome:** Your partner learns how to recognise your vulnerability in a way that lands. **Intended outcome:** Your partner learns how to recognise your vulnerability in a way that lands.
46. **Theme:** Aftercare and reconnection | **Intensity:** 3 46. **Theme:** Aftercare and reconnection | **Intensity:** 3
**Prompt:** Describe the kind of quiet time you would enjoy sharing once the excitement has passed. **Prompt:** Describe the kind of quiet time you would enjoy sharing once the excitement has passed.
**Intended outcome:** Your partner gets a concrete picture of the calm connection you want afterward. **Intended outcome:** Your partner gets a concrete picture of the calm connection you want afterward.
47. **Theme:** Aftercare and reconnection | **Intensity:** 3 47. **Theme:** Aftercare and reconnection | **Intensity:** 3
**Prompt:** Write one thing you would like to hear after you take a private risk together. **Prompt:** Write one thing you would like to hear after you take a private risk together.
**Intended outcome:** Your partner learns the affirmation that helps you feel proud rather than self-conscious. **Intended outcome:** Your partner learns the affirmation that helps you feel proud rather than self-conscious.
48. **Theme:** Aftercare and reconnection | **Intensity:** 4 48. **Theme:** Aftercare and reconnection | **Intensity:** 4
**Prompt:** Share the part of a close experience you would most want to talk through afterward. **Prompt:** Share the part of a close experience you would most want to talk through afterward.
**Intended outcome:** Your partner learns what reflection would deepen trust and make a future experience better. **Intended outcome:** Your partner learns what reflection would deepen trust and make a future experience better.
49. **Theme:** Giving and receiving attention | **Intensity:** 2 49. **Theme:** Giving and receiving attention | **Intensity:** 2
**Prompt:** Describe one way your partner can give you their full attention that you rarely ask for. **Prompt:** Describe one way your partner can give you their full attention that you rarely ask for.
**Intended outcome:** Your partner discovers a specific act of focus that makes you feel prioritised. **Intended outcome:** Your partner discovers a specific act of focus that makes you feel prioritised.
50. **Theme:** Giving and receiving attention | **Intensity:** 2 50. **Theme:** Giving and receiving attention | **Intensity:** 2
**Prompt:** Write about a moment when you feel most noticed by your partner. **Prompt:** Write about a moment when you feel most noticed by your partner.
**Intended outcome:** Your partner learns the context in which their attention has the greatest effect. **Intended outcome:** Your partner learns the context in which their attention has the greatest effect.
51. **Theme:** Giving and receiving attention | **Intensity:** 3 51. **Theme:** Giving and receiving attention | **Intensity:** 3
**Prompt:** Tell your partner what you enjoy doing when you want to make them feel desired. **Prompt:** Tell your partner what you enjoy doing when you want to make them feel desired.
**Intended outcome:** Your partner learns how you naturally show interest and can recognise the signal. **Intended outcome:** Your partner learns how you naturally show interest and can recognise the signal.
52. **Theme:** Giving and receiving attention | **Intensity:** 3 52. **Theme:** Giving and receiving attention | **Intensity:** 3
**Prompt:** Describe the kind of praise you most enjoy receiving privately. **Prompt:** Describe the kind of praise you most enjoy receiving privately.
**Intended outcome:** Your partner gets a personal guide to language that makes you feel seen. **Intended outcome:** Your partner gets a personal guide to language that makes you feel seen.
53. **Theme:** Giving and receiving attention | **Intensity:** 3 53. **Theme:** Giving and receiving attention | **Intensity:** 3
**Prompt:** Write one request you would enjoy hearing from your partner when they want your attention. **Prompt:** Write one request you would enjoy hearing from your partner when they want your attention.
**Intended outcome:** Your partner receives a low-pressure way to ask directly for more of you. **Intended outcome:** Your partner receives a low-pressure way to ask directly for more of you.
54. **Theme:** Giving and receiving attention | **Intensity:** 4 54. **Theme:** Giving and receiving attention | **Intensity:** 4
**Prompt:** Share the private gesture that would make you feel unmistakably chosen by your partner. **Prompt:** Share the private gesture that would make you feel unmistakably chosen by your partner.
**Intended outcome:** Your partner learns a specific, high-impact way to make you feel desired. **Intended outcome:** Your partner learns a specific, high-impact way to make you feel desired.
55. **Theme:** Sensory cues | **Intensity:** 2 55. **Theme:** Sensory cues | **Intensity:** 2
**Prompt:** Describe a scent that instantly makes an evening feel more intimate to you. **Prompt:** Describe a scent that instantly makes an evening feel more intimate to you.
**Intended outcome:** Your partner learns an atmosphere cue they can use when planning a close night in. **Intended outcome:** Your partner learns an atmosphere cue they can use when planning a close night in.
56. **Theme:** Sensory cues | **Intensity:** 2 56. **Theme:** Sensory cues | **Intensity:** 2
**Prompt:** Write about the music that would help you leave everyday stress behind together. **Prompt:** Write about the music that would help you leave everyday stress behind together.
**Intended outcome:** Your partner gets a mood-setting choice that supports a more connected evening. **Intended outcome:** Your partner gets a mood-setting choice that supports a more connected evening.
57. **Theme:** Sensory cues | **Intensity:** 3 57. **Theme:** Sensory cues | **Intensity:** 3
**Prompt:** Tell your partner which kind of lighting makes you feel most confident and relaxed. **Prompt:** Tell your partner which kind of lighting makes you feel most confident and relaxed.
**Intended outcome:** Your partner learns a practical way to shape the room around your comfort. **Intended outcome:** Your partner learns a practical way to shape the room around your comfort.
58. **Theme:** Sensory cues | **Intensity:** 3 58. **Theme:** Sensory cues | **Intensity:** 3
**Prompt:** Describe a texture, fabric, or cosy detail that makes a private setting feel special. **Prompt:** Describe a texture, fabric, or cosy detail that makes a private setting feel special.
**Intended outcome:** Your partner receives an actionable detail for creating a setting that appeals to you. **Intended outcome:** Your partner receives an actionable detail for creating a setting that appeals to you.
59. **Theme:** Sensory cues | **Intensity:** 3 59. **Theme:** Sensory cues | **Intensity:** 3
**Prompt:** Write about the sound of your partner’s voice that you find most captivating. **Prompt:** Write about the sound of your partner’s voice that you find most captivating.
**Intended outcome:** Your partner learns a vocal quality that makes you feel drawn closer. **Intended outcome:** Your partner learns a vocal quality that makes you feel drawn closer.
60. **Theme:** Sensory cues | **Intensity:** 4 60. **Theme:** Sensory cues | **Intensity:** 4
**Prompt:** Share the full sensory mood you would like your partner to create for an intimate evening. **Prompt:** Share the full sensory mood you would like your partner to create for an intimate evening.
**Intended outcome:** Your partner receives a personal brief for a more immersive, intentional atmosphere. **Intended outcome:** Your partner receives a personal brief for a more immersive, intentional atmosphere.
61. **Theme:** Private performance | **Intensity:** 2 61. **Theme:** Private performance | **Intensity:** 2
**Prompt:** Write about a playful thing you would enjoy doing just to make your partner smile in private. **Prompt:** Write about a playful thing you would enjoy doing just to make your partner smile in private.
**Intended outcome:** Your partner learns a personal expression of your confidence they can encourage. **Intended outcome:** Your partner learns a personal expression of your confidence they can encourage.
62. **Theme:** Private performance | **Intensity:** 2 62. **Theme:** Private performance | **Intensity:** 2
**Prompt:** Describe a song that would make you feel expressive if you had the room to yourselves. **Prompt:** Describe a song that would make you feel expressive if you had the room to yourselves.
**Intended outcome:** Your partner gets a soundtrack that invites a more playful side of you out. **Intended outcome:** Your partner gets a soundtrack that invites a more playful side of you out.
63. **Theme:** Private performance | **Intensity:** 3 63. **Theme:** Private performance | **Intensity:** 3
**Prompt:** Tell your partner what kind of attention helps you feel confident being watched by them. **Prompt:** Tell your partner what kind of attention helps you feel confident being watched by them.
**Intended outcome:** Your partner learns how to make their attention feel encouraging rather than exposing. **Intended outcome:** Your partner learns how to make their attention feel encouraging rather than exposing.
64. **Theme:** Private performance | **Intensity:** 3 64. **Theme:** Private performance | **Intensity:** 3
**Prompt:** Write a private dare you would enjoy accepting from your partner. **Prompt:** Write a private dare you would enjoy accepting from your partner.
**Intended outcome:** Your partner receives a consent-led challenge that fits your idea of playful boldness. **Intended outcome:** Your partner receives a consent-led challenge that fits your idea of playful boldness.
65. **Theme:** Private performance | **Intensity:** 3 65. **Theme:** Private performance | **Intensity:** 3
**Prompt:** Describe the reaction from your partner that would make you want to be more expressive. **Prompt:** Describe the reaction from your partner that would make you want to be more expressive.
**Intended outcome:** Your partner learns the feedback that builds your confidence in the moment. **Intended outcome:** Your partner learns the feedback that builds your confidence in the moment.
66. **Theme:** Private performance | **Intensity:** 4 66. **Theme:** Private performance | **Intensity:** 4
**Prompt:** Share a private moment where you would enjoy being the centre of your partner’s attention. **Prompt:** Share a private moment where you would enjoy being the centre of your partner’s attention.
**Intended outcome:** Your partner learns the kind of focused attention you are curious to receive and can plan it with you. **Intended outcome:** Your partner learns the kind of focused attention you are curious to receive and can plan it with you.
67. **Theme:** Clothes and confidence | **Intensity:** 2 67. **Theme:** Clothes and confidence | **Intensity:** 2
**Prompt:** Describe an outfit that makes you feel more like yourself on a date with your partner. **Prompt:** Describe an outfit that makes you feel more like yourself on a date with your partner.
**Intended outcome:** Your partner learns the look that supports your confidence and can compliment it specifically. **Intended outcome:** Your partner learns the look that supports your confidence and can compliment it specifically.
68. **Theme:** Clothes and confidence | **Intensity:** 2 68. **Theme:** Clothes and confidence | **Intensity:** 2
**Prompt:** Write the colour you would love your partner to notice you wearing. **Prompt:** Write the colour you would love your partner to notice you wearing.
**Intended outcome:** Your partner gets a small visual detail to notice and celebrate. **Intended outcome:** Your partner gets a small visual detail to notice and celebrate.
69. **Theme:** Clothes and confidence | **Intensity:** 3 69. **Theme:** Clothes and confidence | **Intensity:** 3
**Prompt:** Tell your partner what you would enjoy choosing for them to wear on a private date night. **Prompt:** Tell your partner what you would enjoy choosing for them to wear on a private date night.
**Intended outcome:** Your partner learns your taste and has a clear invitation to let you style part of the evening. **Intended outcome:** Your partner learns your taste and has a clear invitation to let you style part of the evening.
70. **Theme:** Clothes and confidence | **Intensity:** 3 70. **Theme:** Clothes and confidence | **Intensity:** 3
**Prompt:** Describe the compliment about your appearance that would feel most meaningful from your partner. **Prompt:** Describe the compliment about your appearance that would feel most meaningful from your partner.
**Intended outcome:** Your partner receives guidance for praise that strengthens your confidence. **Intended outcome:** Your partner receives guidance for praise that strengthens your confidence.
71. **Theme:** Clothes and confidence | **Intensity:** 3 71. **Theme:** Clothes and confidence | **Intensity:** 3
**Prompt:** Write about one detail of getting ready that makes you feel more alluring. **Prompt:** Write about one detail of getting ready that makes you feel more alluring.
**Intended outcome:** Your partner learns the ritual that helps you shift into a more confident mood. **Intended outcome:** Your partner learns the ritual that helps you shift into a more confident mood.
72. **Theme:** Clothes and confidence | **Intensity:** 4 72. **Theme:** Clothes and confidence | **Intensity:** 4
**Prompt:** Share the private look you would be excited to reveal to your partner, in your own words. **Prompt:** Share the private look you would be excited to reveal to your partner, in your own words.
**Intended outcome:** Your partner learns what kind of reveal feels exciting to you and can respond with the right attention. **Intended outcome:** Your partner learns what kind of reveal feels exciting to you and can respond with the right attention.
73. **Theme:** Fantasy exchange | **Intensity:** 2 73. **Theme:** Fantasy exchange | **Intensity:** 2
**Prompt:** Write about a fictional romance scene whose mood you would love to borrow for a date. **Prompt:** Write about a fictional romance scene whose mood you would love to borrow for a date.
**Intended outcome:** Your partner learns the emotional tone you are drawn to without needing to guess the reference. **Intended outcome:** Your partner learns the emotional tone you are drawn to without needing to guess the reference.
74. **Theme:** Fantasy exchange | **Intensity:** 2 74. **Theme:** Fantasy exchange | **Intensity:** 2
**Prompt:** Describe the kind of imagined setting that makes you feel more adventurous with your partner. **Prompt:** Describe the kind of imagined setting that makes you feel more adventurous with your partner.
**Intended outcome:** Your partner receives a setting idea that can inspire a themed evening. **Intended outcome:** Your partner receives a setting idea that can inspire a themed evening.
75. **Theme:** Fantasy exchange | **Intensity:** 3 75. **Theme:** Fantasy exchange | **Intensity:** 3
**Prompt:** Tell your partner what role you would enjoy imagining for yourself during a playful private scenario. **Prompt:** Tell your partner what role you would enjoy imagining for yourself during a playful private scenario.
**Intended outcome:** Your partner learns the character energy you are curious to try. **Intended outcome:** Your partner learns the character energy you are curious to try.
76. **Theme:** Fantasy exchange | **Intensity:** 3 76. **Theme:** Fantasy exchange | **Intensity:** 3
**Prompt:** Write a fictional opening line your partner could use to begin a shared fantasy. **Prompt:** Write a fictional opening line your partner could use to begin a shared fantasy.
**Intended outcome:** Your partner gets a tailored starting line for playful imagination together. **Intended outcome:** Your partner gets a tailored starting line for playful imagination together.
77. **Theme:** Fantasy exchange | **Intensity:** 3 77. **Theme:** Fantasy exchange | **Intensity:** 3
**Prompt:** Describe the one detail that would make an imagined scenario feel believable and exciting to you. **Prompt:** Describe the one detail that would make an imagined scenario feel believable and exciting to you.
**Intended outcome:** Your partner learns the ingredient that turns a vague idea into something engaging. **Intended outcome:** Your partner learns the ingredient that turns a vague idea into something engaging.
78. **Theme:** Fantasy exchange | **Intensity:** 4 78. **Theme:** Fantasy exchange | **Intensity:** 4
**Prompt:** Share a private fantasy premise you would like to explore only in conversation first. **Prompt:** Share a private fantasy premise you would like to explore only in conversation first.
**Intended outcome:** Your partner learns a higher-intensity idea while the first follow-up remains a safe discussion. **Intended outcome:** Your partner learns a higher-intensity idea while the first follow-up remains a safe discussion.
79. **Theme:** Roleplay | **Intensity:** 2 79. **Theme:** Roleplay | **Intensity:** 2
**Prompt:** Write the nickname you would enjoy your partner using during a playful private game. **Prompt:** Write the nickname you would enjoy your partner using during a playful private game.
**Intended outcome:** Your partner receives language that helps set a playful tone you welcome. **Intended outcome:** Your partner receives language that helps set a playful tone you welcome.
80. **Theme:** Roleplay | **Intensity:** 2 80. **Theme:** Roleplay | **Intensity:** 2
**Prompt:** Describe a simple character trait you would enjoy your partner pretending to have for one evening. **Prompt:** Describe a simple character trait you would enjoy your partner pretending to have for one evening.
**Intended outcome:** Your partner gets a low-stakes roleplay cue that can make an ordinary night feel new. **Intended outcome:** Your partner gets a low-stakes roleplay cue that can make an ordinary night feel new.
81. **Theme:** Roleplay | **Intensity:** 3 81. **Theme:** Roleplay | **Intensity:** 3
**Prompt:** Tell your partner the kind of made-up first meeting you would enjoy acting out together. **Prompt:** Tell your partner the kind of made-up first meeting you would enjoy acting out together.
**Intended outcome:** Your partner learns a shared scenario that gives both of you a clear starting point. **Intended outcome:** Your partner learns a shared scenario that gives both of you a clear starting point.
82. **Theme:** Roleplay | **Intensity:** 3 82. **Theme:** Roleplay | **Intensity:** 3
**Prompt:** Write the setting where you would enjoy pretending you have just met your partner. **Prompt:** Write the setting where you would enjoy pretending you have just met your partner.
**Intended outcome:** Your partner receives a scene to build around for a playful reset of familiar chemistry. **Intended outcome:** Your partner receives a scene to build around for a playful reset of familiar chemistry.
83. **Theme:** Roleplay | **Intensity:** 3 83. **Theme:** Roleplay | **Intensity:** 3
**Prompt:** Describe the one rule that would help roleplay feel comfortable and fun for you. **Prompt:** Describe the one rule that would help roleplay feel comfortable and fun for you.
**Intended outcome:** Your partner learns the agreement that keeps the game connected to your real trust. **Intended outcome:** Your partner learns the agreement that keeps the game connected to your real trust.
84. **Theme:** Roleplay | **Intensity:** 4 84. **Theme:** Roleplay | **Intensity:** 4
**Prompt:** Share a bolder character dynamic you are curious to discuss with your partner before trying it. **Prompt:** Share a bolder character dynamic you are curious to discuss with your partner before trying it.
**Intended outcome:** Your partner learns what dynamic interests you and can talk through comfort, limits, and interest first. **Intended outcome:** Your partner learns what dynamic interests you and can talk through comfort, limits, and interest first.
85. **Theme:** Settings and atmosphere | **Intensity:** 2 85. **Theme:** Settings and atmosphere | **Intensity:** 2
**Prompt:** Describe the room where you would most like to have an uninterrupted evening with your partner. **Prompt:** Describe the room where you would most like to have an uninterrupted evening with your partner.
**Intended outcome:** Your partner learns which environment helps you feel most present together. **Intended outcome:** Your partner learns which environment helps you feel most present together.
86. **Theme:** Settings and atmosphere | **Intensity:** 2 86. **Theme:** Settings and atmosphere | **Intensity:** 2
**Prompt:** Write the first thing you would change at home to make a regular night feel more special. **Prompt:** Write the first thing you would change at home to make a regular night feel more special.
**Intended outcome:** Your partner gets a realistic way to shift an ordinary evening into a date. **Intended outcome:** Your partner gets a realistic way to shift an ordinary evening into a date.
87. **Theme:** Settings and atmosphere | **Intensity:** 3 87. **Theme:** Settings and atmosphere | **Intensity:** 3
**Prompt:** Tell your partner what makes a hotel-style evening feel exciting to you. **Prompt:** Tell your partner what makes a hotel-style evening feel exciting to you.
**Intended outcome:** Your partner learns the elements of novelty or escape you would like recreated. **Intended outcome:** Your partner learns the elements of novelty or escape you would like recreated.
88. **Theme:** Settings and atmosphere | **Intensity:** 3 88. **Theme:** Settings and atmosphere | **Intensity:** 3
**Prompt:** Describe the kind of privacy you need before you can fully switch off together. **Prompt:** Describe the kind of privacy you need before you can fully switch off together.
**Intended outcome:** Your partner learns the practical conditions needed for you to feel unhurried. **Intended outcome:** Your partner learns the practical conditions needed for you to feel unhurried.
89. **Theme:** Settings and atmosphere | **Intensity:** 3 89. **Theme:** Settings and atmosphere | **Intensity:** 3
**Prompt:** Write about a place from a past date that you would love to recreate the feeling of at home. **Prompt:** Write about a place from a past date that you would love to recreate the feeling of at home.
**Intended outcome:** Your partner receives an emotional reference point and ideas for bringing it back. **Intended outcome:** Your partner receives an emotional reference point and ideas for bringing it back.
90. **Theme:** Settings and atmosphere | **Intensity:** 4 90. **Theme:** Settings and atmosphere | **Intensity:** 4
**Prompt:** Share the most adventurous private setting you would enjoy planning together, while staying within your comfort zone. **Prompt:** Share the most adventurous private setting you would enjoy planning together, while staying within your comfort zone.
**Intended outcome:** Your partner learns your appetite for novelty and the limits that make the plan feel right. **Intended outcome:** Your partner learns your appetite for novelty and the limits that make the plan feel right.
91. **Theme:** Surprise and novelty | **Intensity:** 2 91. **Theme:** Surprise and novelty | **Intensity:** 2
**Prompt:** Write one small unexpected gesture that would brighten a normal day with your partner. **Prompt:** Write one small unexpected gesture that would brighten a normal day with your partner.
**Intended outcome:** Your partner gets a specific surprise that signals private affection. **Intended outcome:** Your partner gets a specific surprise that signals private affection.
92. **Theme:** Surprise and novelty | **Intensity:** 2 92. **Theme:** Surprise and novelty | **Intensity:** 2
**Prompt:** Describe the kind of spontaneous invitation you would be happy to receive. **Prompt:** Describe the kind of spontaneous invitation you would be happy to receive.
**Intended outcome:** Your partner learns how to be impulsive in a way that still feels welcome. **Intended outcome:** Your partner learns how to be impulsive in a way that still feels welcome.
93. **Theme:** Surprise and novelty | **Intensity:** 3 93. **Theme:** Surprise and novelty | **Intensity:** 3
**Prompt:** Tell your partner one familiar routine you would enjoy changing up together. **Prompt:** Tell your partner one familiar routine you would enjoy changing up together.
**Intended outcome:** Your partner learns where novelty would improve your shared rhythm. **Intended outcome:** Your partner learns where novelty would improve your shared rhythm.
94. **Theme:** Surprise and novelty | **Intensity:** 3 94. **Theme:** Surprise and novelty | **Intensity:** 3
**Prompt:** Write a sealed-note prompt you would enjoy your partner giving you to open later. **Prompt:** Write a sealed-note prompt you would enjoy your partner giving you to open later.
**Intended outcome:** Your partner receives a private prompt format that can create suspense across the day. **Intended outcome:** Your partner receives a private prompt format that can create suspense across the day.
95. **Theme:** Surprise and novelty | **Intensity:** 3 95. **Theme:** Surprise and novelty | **Intensity:** 3
**Prompt:** Describe a new rule for one evening that would make it feel different from your usual time together. **Prompt:** Describe a new rule for one evening that would make it feel different from your usual time together.
**Intended outcome:** Your partner gets a simple novelty experiment that you have already signalled interest in. **Intended outcome:** Your partner gets a simple novelty experiment that you have already signalled interest in.
96. **Theme:** Surprise and novelty | **Intensity:** 4 96. **Theme:** Surprise and novelty | **Intensity:** 4
**Prompt:** Share the bold surprise you would enjoy discovering after your partner has checked the broad limits with you. **Prompt:** Share the bold surprise you would enjoy discovering after your partner has checked the broad limits with you.
**Intended outcome:** Your partner learns both the surprise you want and the consent conversation needed before planning it. **Intended outcome:** Your partner learns both the surprise you want and the consent conversation needed before planning it.
97. **Theme:** Long-distance desire | **Intensity:** 2 97. **Theme:** Long-distance desire | **Intensity:** 2
**Prompt:** Write the message that would make you feel closest to your partner when you are apart. **Prompt:** Write the message that would make you feel closest to your partner when you are apart.
**Intended outcome:** Your partner learns the kind of connection that travels well between visits. **Intended outcome:** Your partner learns the kind of connection that travels well between visits.
98. **Theme:** Long-distance desire | **Intensity:** 2 98. **Theme:** Long-distance desire | **Intensity:** 2
**Prompt:** Describe a tiny ritual you would like to share on the evenings you cannot be together. **Prompt:** Describe a tiny ritual you would like to share on the evenings you cannot be together.
**Intended outcome:** Your partner receives a repeatable way to maintain intimacy across distance. **Intended outcome:** Your partner receives a repeatable way to maintain intimacy across distance.
99. **Theme:** Long-distance desire | **Intensity:** 3 99. **Theme:** Long-distance desire | **Intensity:** 3
**Prompt:** Tell your partner what you would like to plan together before your next time in the same place. **Prompt:** Tell your partner what you would like to plan together before your next time in the same place.
**Intended outcome:** Your partner learns which shared anticipation would make a reunion more meaningful. **Intended outcome:** Your partner learns which shared anticipation would make a reunion more meaningful.
100. **Theme:** Long-distance desire | **Intensity:** 4 100. **Theme:** Long-distance desire | **Intensity:** 4
**Prompt:** Write the private promise you would like to exchange before a longer period apart. **Prompt:** Write the private promise you would like to exchange before a longer period apart.
**Intended outcome:** Your partner receives a personal commitment that can sustain desire, reassurance, and connection until you reunite. **Intended outcome:** Your partner receives a personal commitment that can sustain desire, reassurance, and connection until you reunite.