From da1c3107381c6458b64464730a0d9dc16da12bfa Mon Sep 17 00:00:00 2001 From: Jamie Brunton Date: Sat, 5 Sep 2026 20:27:31 +0100 Subject: [PATCH] docs(catalogue): trim draft source whitespace --- docs/product/question-drafts/concept-set-b.md | 480 +++++++++--------- .../text-answer-concept-source.md | 400 +++++++-------- 2 files changed, 440 insertions(+), 440 deletions(-) diff --git a/docs/product/question-drafts/concept-set-b.md b/docs/product/question-drafts/concept-set-b.md index b87044d..e518a28 100644 --- a/docs/product/question-drafts/concept-set-b.md +++ b/docs/product/question-drafts/concept-set-b.md @@ -11,175 +11,175 @@ copy, exact partner copy, and an intended outcome. ### Sensory cues #### A01 -Theme: Sensory cues -Intensity: 2 -Primary text: Would you be up for choosing a scent that you want your partner to wear for a close evening? -Partner text: Would you be up for choosing a scent that you want your partner to wear for a close evening? +Theme: Sensory cues +Intensity: 2 +Primary text: Would you be up for choosing a scent that you want your partner to wear for a close evening? +Partner text: Would you be up for choosing a scent that you want your partner to wear for a close evening? Intended outcome: One partner selects a scent cue for the other to use on their next intentional date night. #### A02 -Theme: Sensory cues -Intensity: 3 -Primary text: Would you like your partner to prepare a playlist that sets the mood for a more intimate evening with you? -Partner text: Would you like to prepare a playlist that sets the mood for a more intimate evening with your partner? +Theme: Sensory cues +Intensity: 3 +Primary text: Would you like your partner to prepare a playlist that sets the mood for a more intimate evening with you? +Partner text: Would you like to prepare a playlist that sets the mood for a more intimate evening with your partner? Intended outcome: The receiving partner gets a personally chosen mood playlist. #### A03 -Theme: Sensory cues -Intensity: 3 -Primary text: Would you enjoy your partner guiding you through a slow eyes-closed guessing game with safe household textures? -Partner text: Would you enjoy guiding your partner through a slow eyes-closed guessing game with safe household textures? +Theme: Sensory cues +Intensity: 3 +Primary text: Would you enjoy your partner guiding you through a slow eyes-closed guessing game with safe household textures? +Partner text: Would you enjoy guiding your partner through a slow eyes-closed guessing game with safe household textures? Intended outcome: The proposer leads a private sensory game and the receiver agrees to participate. #### A04 -Theme: Sensory cues -Intensity: 3 -Primary text: Would you like your partner to choose the lighting for a close evening together? -Partner text: Would you like to choose the lighting for a close evening together with your partner? +Theme: Sensory cues +Intensity: 3 +Primary text: Would you like your partner to choose the lighting for a close evening together? +Partner text: Would you like to choose the lighting for a close evening together with your partner? Intended outcome: One partner creates the visual atmosphere while the other agrees to experience it. #### A05 -Theme: Sensory cues -Intensity: 4 -Primary text: Would you be open to your partner asking you to focus only on their voice for a few uninterrupted minutes? -Partner text: Would you be open to asking your partner to focus only on your voice for a few uninterrupted minutes? +Theme: Sensory cues +Intensity: 4 +Primary text: Would you be open to your partner asking you to focus only on their voice for a few uninterrupted minutes? +Partner text: Would you be open to asking your partner to focus only on your voice for a few uninterrupted minutes? Intended outcome: The proposer receives undivided, voice-led attention in private. #### A06 -Theme: Sensory cues -Intensity: 3 -Primary text: Would you like your partner to pick a dessert or drink for you to share slowly after your date? -Partner text: Would you like to pick a dessert or drink for your partner to share slowly after your date? +Theme: Sensory cues +Intensity: 3 +Primary text: Would you like your partner to pick a dessert or drink for you to share slowly after your date? +Partner text: Would you like to pick a dessert or drink for your partner to share slowly after your date? Intended outcome: The proposer chooses a shared treat that extends a date into a close moment. #### A07 -Theme: Sensory cues -Intensity: 4 -Primary text: Would you enjoy your partner choosing one song and asking you to stay close with them until it ends? -Partner text: Would you enjoy choosing one song and asking your partner to stay close with you until it ends? +Theme: Sensory cues +Intensity: 4 +Primary text: Would you enjoy your partner choosing one song and asking you to stay close with them until it ends? +Partner text: Would you enjoy choosing one song and asking your partner to stay close with you until it ends? Intended outcome: The couple agrees to a deliberate, uninterrupted closeness ritual around one song. #### A08 -Theme: Sensory cues -Intensity: 2 -Primary text: Would you like your partner to leave a note telling you one small detail they find especially attractive about you? -Partner text: Would you like to leave your partner a note telling them one small detail you find especially attractive about them? +Theme: Sensory cues +Intensity: 2 +Primary text: Would you like your partner to leave a note telling you one small detail they find especially attractive about you? +Partner text: Would you like to leave your partner a note telling them one small detail you find especially attractive about them? Intended outcome: The proposer gives the receiver a specific, private compliment in writing. ### Private performance #### A09 -Theme: Private performance -Intensity: 2 -Primary text: Would you like your partner to choose a song and perform a playful lip-sync just for you? -Partner text: Would you like to choose a song and perform a playful lip-sync just for your partner? +Theme: Private performance +Intensity: 2 +Primary text: Would you like your partner to choose a song and perform a playful lip-sync just for you? +Partner text: Would you like to choose a song and perform a playful lip-sync just for your partner? Intended outcome: One partner gives the other a private, playful performance. #### A10 -Theme: Private performance -Intensity: 3 -Primary text: Would you enjoy your partner giving you a short, confident compliment speech before your next date night? -Partner text: Would you enjoy giving your partner a short, confident compliment speech before your next date night? +Theme: Private performance +Intensity: 3 +Primary text: Would you enjoy your partner giving you a short, confident compliment speech before your next date night? +Partner text: Would you enjoy giving your partner a short, confident compliment speech before your next date night? Intended outcome: The receiver gets a deliberate verbal build-up before the date. #### A11 -Theme: Private performance -Intensity: 3 -Primary text: Would you be up for your partner choosing a song for you to slow-dance to together at home? -Partner text: Would you be up for choosing a song for you and your partner to slow-dance to together at home? +Theme: Private performance +Intensity: 3 +Primary text: Would you be up for your partner choosing a song for you to slow-dance to together at home? +Partner text: Would you be up for choosing a song for you and your partner to slow-dance to together at home? Intended outcome: The proposer picks the soundtrack for a private slow dance. #### A12 -Theme: Private performance -Intensity: 4 -Primary text: Would you like your partner to tell you, face to face, the version of you they find hardest to resist? -Partner text: Would you like to tell your partner, face to face, the version of them you find hardest to resist? +Theme: Private performance +Intensity: 4 +Primary text: Would you like your partner to tell you, face to face, the version of you they find hardest to resist? +Partner text: Would you like to tell your partner, face to face, the version of them you find hardest to resist? Intended outcome: The couple shares a direct, personal desire statement. #### A13 -Theme: Private performance -Intensity: 2 -Primary text: Would you enjoy your partner making you laugh with a deliberately over-the-top romantic introduction? -Partner text: Would you enjoy making your partner laugh with a deliberately over-the-top romantic introduction? +Theme: Private performance +Intensity: 2 +Primary text: Would you enjoy your partner making you laugh with a deliberately over-the-top romantic introduction? +Partner text: Would you enjoy making your partner laugh with a deliberately over-the-top romantic introduction? Intended outcome: One partner performs a comic, affectionate introduction for the other. #### A14 -Theme: Private performance -Intensity: 3 -Primary text: Would you like your partner to write and read you a short invitation for a private evening together? -Partner text: Would you like to write and read your partner a short invitation for a private evening together? +Theme: Private performance +Intensity: 3 +Primary text: Would you like your partner to write and read you a short invitation for a private evening together? +Partner text: Would you like to write and read your partner a short invitation for a private evening together? Intended outcome: The proposer creates a spoken invitation that frames the evening. #### A15 -Theme: Private performance -Intensity: 4 -Primary text: Would you be open to your partner asking you to sit back while they set the pace for the first part of your evening? -Partner text: Would you be open to asking your partner to sit back while you set the pace for the first part of your evening? +Theme: Private performance +Intensity: 4 +Primary text: Would you be open to your partner asking you to sit back while they set the pace for the first part of your evening? +Partner text: Would you be open to asking your partner to sit back while you set the pace for the first part of your evening? Intended outcome: The proposer leads the opening part of a mutually agreed private evening. #### A16 -Theme: Private performance -Intensity: 3 -Primary text: Would you like your partner to reveal one new side of their confidence through a private dance for you? -Partner text: Would you like to reveal one new side of your confidence through a private dance for your partner? +Theme: Private performance +Intensity: 3 +Primary text: Would you like your partner to reveal one new side of their confidence through a private dance for you? +Partner text: Would you like to reveal one new side of your confidence through a private dance for your partner? Intended outcome: One partner shares a confidence-focused private dance. ### Clothes and confidence #### A17 -Theme: Clothes and confidence -Intensity: 2 -Primary text: Would you like your partner to choose one outfit detail for your next date that makes them smile? -Partner text: Would you like to choose one outfit detail for your partner's next date that makes you smile? +Theme: Clothes and confidence +Intensity: 2 +Primary text: Would you like your partner to choose one outfit detail for your next date that makes them smile? +Partner text: Would you like to choose one outfit detail for your partner's next date that makes you smile? Intended outcome: The proposer chooses a small style detail for the receiver to wear. #### A18 -Theme: Clothes and confidence -Intensity: 3 -Primary text: Would you enjoy your partner putting together a look for you that feels more daring than your usual style? -Partner text: Would you enjoy putting together a look for your partner that feels more daring than their usual style? +Theme: Clothes and confidence +Intensity: 3 +Primary text: Would you enjoy your partner putting together a look for you that feels more daring than your usual style? +Partner text: Would you enjoy putting together a look for your partner that feels more daring than their usual style? Intended outcome: One partner styles the other for a bolder but comfortable date-night look. #### A19 -Theme: Clothes and confidence -Intensity: 3 -Primary text: Would you like your partner to ask you to wear the colour they most associate with you feeling confident? -Partner text: Would you like to ask your partner to wear the colour you most associate with them feeling confident? +Theme: Clothes and confidence +Intensity: 3 +Primary text: Would you like your partner to ask you to wear the colour they most associate with you feeling confident? +Partner text: Would you like to ask your partner to wear the colour you most associate with them feeling confident? Intended outcome: The receiver wears a colour chosen for its confidence association. #### A20 -Theme: Clothes and confidence -Intensity: 4 -Primary text: Would you be open to your partner choosing the dress code for a private evening, within limits you both agree first? -Partner text: Would you be open to choosing the dress code for a private evening, within limits you both agree first? +Theme: Clothes and confidence +Intensity: 4 +Primary text: Would you be open to your partner choosing the dress code for a private evening, within limits you both agree first? +Partner text: Would you be open to choosing the dress code for a private evening, within limits you both agree first? Intended outcome: One partner leads the evening's agreed presentation and atmosphere. #### A21 -Theme: Clothes and confidence -Intensity: 2 -Primary text: Would you like your partner to send you a message before your date saying exactly what they hope you will wear? -Partner text: Would you like to send your partner a message before your date saying exactly what you hope they will wear? +Theme: Clothes and confidence +Intensity: 2 +Primary text: Would you like your partner to send you a message before your date saying exactly what they hope you will wear? +Partner text: Would you like to send your partner a message before your date saying exactly what you hope they will wear? Intended outcome: The receiver gets a style preference message before a date. #### A22 -Theme: Clothes and confidence -Intensity: 3 -Primary text: Would you enjoy your partner choosing an accessory for you to wear as a private signal between you? -Partner text: Would you enjoy choosing an accessory for your partner to wear as a private signal between you? +Theme: Clothes and confidence +Intensity: 3 +Primary text: Would you enjoy your partner choosing an accessory for you to wear as a private signal between you? +Partner text: Would you enjoy choosing an accessory for your partner to wear as a private signal between you? Intended outcome: The couple establishes a subtle shared signal using an accessory. #### A23 -Theme: Clothes and confidence -Intensity: 4 -Primary text: Would you be up for your partner asking you to get ready slowly while they give you one sincere compliment at each step? -Partner text: Would you be up for asking your partner to get ready slowly while you give them one sincere compliment at each step? +Theme: Clothes and confidence +Intensity: 4 +Primary text: Would you be up for your partner asking you to get ready slowly while they give you one sincere compliment at each step? +Partner text: Would you be up for asking your partner to get ready slowly while you give them one sincere compliment at each step? Intended outcome: The proposer gives the receiver a paced confidence ritual before a night together. #### A24 -Theme: Clothes and confidence -Intensity: 3 -Primary text: Would you like your partner to choose a 'stay in' outfit for you that feels intentionally different from everyday clothes? -Partner text: Would you like to choose a 'stay in' outfit for your partner that feels intentionally different from everyday clothes? +Theme: Clothes and confidence +Intensity: 3 +Primary text: Would you like your partner to choose a 'stay in' outfit for you that feels intentionally different from everyday clothes? +Partner text: Would you like to choose a 'stay in' outfit for your partner that feels intentionally different from everyday clothes? Intended outcome: The proposer selects a special at-home look for the receiver. ### Remaining authored asymmetric entries @@ -190,255 +190,255 @@ long-distance desire. Their primary text, partner text, and intended outcome are deliberately retained verbatim in the task transcript for integration. #### A25 -Theme: Fantasy exchange -Intensity: 2 -Primary text: Would you like your partner to tell you about a fictional date they would plan for the two of you with no practical limits? -Partner text: Would you like to tell your partner about a fictional date you would plan for the two of you with no practical limits? +Theme: Fantasy exchange +Intensity: 2 +Primary text: Would you like your partner to tell you about a fictional date they would plan for the two of you with no practical limits? +Partner text: Would you like to tell your partner about a fictional date you would plan for the two of you with no practical limits? Intended outcome: The proposer shares an imaginative, romance-forward date scenario. #### A26 -Theme: Fantasy exchange -Intensity: 3 -Primary text: Would you enjoy your partner writing a three-line scene about the two of you meeting as strangers in a glamorous place? -Partner text: Would you enjoy writing a three-line scene about you and your partner meeting as strangers in a glamorous place? +Theme: Fantasy exchange +Intensity: 3 +Primary text: Would you enjoy your partner writing a three-line scene about the two of you meeting as strangers in a glamorous place? +Partner text: Would you enjoy writing a three-line scene about you and your partner meeting as strangers in a glamorous place? Intended outcome: The couple gets a short shared fantasy prompt to discuss or play with. #### A27 -Theme: Fantasy exchange -Intensity: 3 -Primary text: Would you be open to your partner asking what kind of attention makes you feel most wanted in an imagined scenario? -Partner text: Would you be open to asking your partner what kind of attention makes them feel most wanted in an imagined scenario? +Theme: Fantasy exchange +Intensity: 3 +Primary text: Would you be open to your partner asking what kind of attention makes you feel most wanted in an imagined scenario? +Partner text: Would you be open to asking your partner what kind of attention makes them feel most wanted in an imagined scenario? Intended outcome: The receiver names a preferred kind of romantic attention without needing to commit to it. #### A28 -Theme: Fantasy exchange -Intensity: 4 -Primary text: Would you like your partner to propose a fictional version of tonight where they get to surprise you, and you choose the boundaries first? -Partner text: Would you like to propose a fictional version of tonight where you get to surprise your partner, and they choose the boundaries first? +Theme: Fantasy exchange +Intensity: 4 +Primary text: Would you like your partner to propose a fictional version of tonight where they get to surprise you, and you choose the boundaries first? +Partner text: Would you like to propose a fictional version of tonight where you get to surprise your partner, and they choose the boundaries first? Intended outcome: One partner proposes an agreed fantasy frame, with the receiver setting limits. #### A29 -Theme: Fantasy exchange -Intensity: 2 -Primary text: Would you like your partner to invent a nickname for the more confident version of you? -Partner text: Would you like to invent a nickname for the more confident version of your partner? +Theme: Fantasy exchange +Intensity: 2 +Primary text: Would you like your partner to invent a nickname for the more confident version of you? +Partner text: Would you like to invent a nickname for the more confident version of your partner? Intended outcome: The couple creates a playful private identity cue. #### A30 -Theme: Fantasy exchange -Intensity: 3 -Primary text: Would you enjoy your partner describing the setting of their ideal slow-burn evening with you? -Partner text: Would you enjoy describing the setting of your ideal slow-burn evening with your partner? +Theme: Fantasy exchange +Intensity: 3 +Primary text: Would you enjoy your partner describing the setting of their ideal slow-burn evening with you? +Partner text: Would you enjoy describing the setting of your ideal slow-burn evening with your partner? Intended outcome: The proposer shares a detailed atmosphere preference that can inform a future plan. #### A31 -Theme: Fantasy exchange -Intensity: 4 -Primary text: Would you be open to your partner asking you what you would want them to take charge of in an imaginary evening? -Partner text: Would you be open to asking your partner what they would want you to take charge of in an imaginary evening? +Theme: Fantasy exchange +Intensity: 4 +Primary text: Would you be open to your partner asking you what you would want them to take charge of in an imaginary evening? +Partner text: Would you be open to asking your partner what they would want you to take charge of in an imaginary evening? Intended outcome: The receiver identifies one area of leadership they would welcome in fantasy. #### A32 -Theme: Fantasy exchange -Intensity: 3 -Primary text: Would you like your partner to send you a private message that starts, 'If we had the whole evening to ourselves...' ? -Partner text: Would you like to send your partner a private message that starts, 'If we had the whole evening to ourselves...' ? +Theme: Fantasy exchange +Intensity: 3 +Primary text: Would you like your partner to send you a private message that starts, 'If we had the whole evening to ourselves...' ? +Partner text: Would you like to send your partner a private message that starts, 'If we had the whole evening to ourselves...' ? Intended outcome: The proposer sends an open-ended desire prompt for a private exchange. #### A33 -Theme: Roleplay -Intensity: 2 -Primary text: Would you like your partner to pretend they are meeting you for the first time and ask you out again? -Partner text: Would you like to pretend you are meeting your partner for the first time and ask them out again? +Theme: Roleplay +Intensity: 2 +Primary text: Would you like your partner to pretend they are meeting you for the first time and ask you out again? +Partner text: Would you like to pretend you are meeting your partner for the first time and ask them out again? Intended outcome: The proposer recreates a first-meeting invitation in character. #### A34 -Theme: Roleplay -Intensity: 3 -Primary text: Would you enjoy your partner taking the role of your personal host for an evening at home? -Partner text: Would you enjoy taking the role of your partner's personal host for an evening at home? +Theme: Roleplay +Intensity: 3 +Primary text: Would you enjoy your partner taking the role of your personal host for an evening at home? +Partner text: Would you enjoy taking the role of your partner's personal host for an evening at home? Intended outcome: One partner plans and hosts a dedicated private evening. #### A35 -Theme: Roleplay -Intensity: 3 -Primary text: Would you be up for your partner acting as a confident stranger who has one hour to win you over? -Partner text: Would you be up for acting as a confident stranger who has one hour to win your partner over? +Theme: Roleplay +Intensity: 3 +Primary text: Would you be up for your partner acting as a confident stranger who has one hour to win you over? +Partner text: Would you be up for acting as a confident stranger who has one hour to win your partner over? Intended outcome: The proposer takes on a flirtatious stranger character during an agreed private scenario. #### A36 -Theme: Roleplay -Intensity: 4 -Primary text: Would you like your partner to choose a role where they lead the conversation and you decide when to step out of character? -Partner text: Would you like to choose a role where you lead the conversation and your partner decides when to step out of character? +Theme: Roleplay +Intensity: 4 +Primary text: Would you like your partner to choose a role where they lead the conversation and you decide when to step out of character? +Partner text: Would you like to choose a role where you lead the conversation and your partner decides when to step out of character? Intended outcome: The proposer leads a consensual roleplay conversation with a clear exit controlled by the receiver. #### A37 -Theme: Roleplay -Intensity: 2 -Primary text: Would you enjoy your partner writing you a pretend invitation to an exclusive event for two? -Partner text: Would you enjoy writing your partner a pretend invitation to an exclusive event for two? +Theme: Roleplay +Intensity: 2 +Primary text: Would you enjoy your partner writing you a pretend invitation to an exclusive event for two? +Partner text: Would you enjoy writing your partner a pretend invitation to an exclusive event for two? Intended outcome: The proposer creates a playful invitation that introduces a private date concept. #### A38 -Theme: Roleplay -Intensity: 3 -Primary text: Would you like your partner to play the part of a stylist who gives you one confidence challenge for the evening? -Partner text: Would you like to play the part of a stylist who gives your partner one confidence challenge for the evening? +Theme: Roleplay +Intensity: 3 +Primary text: Would you like your partner to play the part of a stylist who gives you one confidence challenge for the evening? +Partner text: Would you like to play the part of a stylist who gives your partner one confidence challenge for the evening? Intended outcome: One partner sets a light, agreed confidence challenge in character. #### A39 -Theme: Roleplay -Intensity: 4 -Primary text: Would you be open to your partner choosing a character who is bolder than they usually are, while you set the limits of the scene? -Partner text: Would you be open to choosing a character who is bolder than you usually are, while your partner sets the limits of the scene? +Theme: Roleplay +Intensity: 4 +Primary text: Would you be open to your partner choosing a character who is bolder than they usually are, while you set the limits of the scene? +Partner text: Would you be open to choosing a character who is bolder than you usually are, while your partner sets the limits of the scene? Intended outcome: The proposer explores a bolder role while the receiver sets the scene's boundaries. #### A40 -Theme: Settings and atmosphere -Intensity: 2 -Primary text: Would you like your partner to turn one room into a date-night space before you arrive? -Partner text: Would you like to turn one room into a date-night space before your partner arrives? +Theme: Settings and atmosphere +Intensity: 2 +Primary text: Would you like your partner to turn one room into a date-night space before you arrive? +Partner text: Would you like to turn one room into a date-night space before your partner arrives? Intended outcome: The proposer prepares a distinct at-home setting for the receiver. #### A41 -Theme: Settings and atmosphere -Intensity: 3 -Primary text: Would you enjoy your partner choosing a place in your home where you are not usually romantic and making it feel special? -Partner text: Would you enjoy choosing a place in your home where you and your partner are not usually romantic and making it feel special? +Theme: Settings and atmosphere +Intensity: 3 +Primary text: Would you enjoy your partner choosing a place in your home where you are not usually romantic and making it feel special? +Partner text: Would you enjoy choosing a place in your home where you and your partner are not usually romantic and making it feel special? Intended outcome: One partner transforms an ordinary indoor space into a deliberate romantic setting. #### A42 -Theme: Settings and atmosphere -Intensity: 3 -Primary text: Would you like your partner to plan a candlelit late-night snack for the two of you after everything else is quiet? -Partner text: Would you like to plan a candlelit late-night snack for you and your partner after everything else is quiet? +Theme: Settings and atmosphere +Intensity: 3 +Primary text: Would you like your partner to plan a candlelit late-night snack for the two of you after everything else is quiet? +Partner text: Would you like to plan a candlelit late-night snack for you and your partner after everything else is quiet? Intended outcome: The proposer creates a calm, intimate-feeling post-evening ritual. #### A43 -Theme: Settings and atmosphere -Intensity: 4 -Primary text: Would you be open to your partner arranging a private evening where your phones stay out of reach until you both agree to check them? -Partner text: Would you be open to arranging a private evening where your phones stay out of reach until you both agree to check them? +Theme: Settings and atmosphere +Intensity: 4 +Primary text: Would you be open to your partner arranging a private evening where your phones stay out of reach until you both agree to check them? +Partner text: Would you be open to arranging a private evening where your phones stay out of reach until you both agree to check them? Intended outcome: The couple agrees to protected, distraction-free private time. #### A44 -Theme: Settings and atmosphere -Intensity: 2 -Primary text: Would you like your partner to choose the route for a slow evening walk that ends somewhere cosy? -Partner text: Would you like to choose the route for a slow evening walk that ends somewhere cosy with your partner? +Theme: Settings and atmosphere +Intensity: 2 +Primary text: Would you like your partner to choose the route for a slow evening walk that ends somewhere cosy? +Partner text: Would you like to choose the route for a slow evening walk that ends somewhere cosy with your partner? Intended outcome: The proposer directs a low-pressure shared walk toward a close setting. #### A45 -Theme: Settings and atmosphere -Intensity: 3 -Primary text: Would you enjoy your partner planning a 'no agenda' hour where they only focus on making you feel looked after? -Partner text: Would you enjoy planning a 'no agenda' hour where you only focus on making your partner feel looked after? +Theme: Settings and atmosphere +Intensity: 3 +Primary text: Would you enjoy your partner planning a 'no agenda' hour where they only focus on making you feel looked after? +Partner text: Would you enjoy planning a 'no agenda' hour where you only focus on making your partner feel looked after? Intended outcome: One partner takes responsibility for a gentle, attentiveness-focused hour. #### A46 -Theme: Settings and atmosphere -Intensity: 4 -Primary text: Would you like your partner to choose a private setting for a conversation about what would make tonight feel exciting to you? -Partner text: Would you like to choose a private setting for a conversation about what would make tonight feel exciting to your partner? +Theme: Settings and atmosphere +Intensity: 4 +Primary text: Would you like your partner to choose a private setting for a conversation about what would make tonight feel exciting to you? +Partner text: Would you like to choose a private setting for a conversation about what would make tonight feel exciting to your partner? Intended outcome: The proposer creates the conditions for a direct desire and boundaries conversation. #### A47 -Theme: Surprise and novelty -Intensity: 2 -Primary text: Would you like your partner to leave you a sealed note with one romantic surprise inside? -Partner text: Would you like to leave your partner a sealed note with one romantic surprise inside? +Theme: Surprise and novelty +Intensity: 2 +Primary text: Would you like your partner to leave you a sealed note with one romantic surprise inside? +Partner text: Would you like to leave your partner a sealed note with one romantic surprise inside? Intended outcome: The proposer creates a small, consent-safe romantic surprise for the receiver. #### A48 -Theme: Surprise and novelty -Intensity: 3 -Primary text: Would you enjoy your partner planning one part of your evening that they do not reveal until you have both agreed to begin? -Partner text: Would you enjoy planning one part of your evening that you do not reveal until you and your partner have both agreed to begin? +Theme: Surprise and novelty +Intensity: 3 +Primary text: Would you enjoy your partner planning one part of your evening that they do not reveal until you have both agreed to begin? +Partner text: Would you enjoy planning one part of your evening that you do not reveal until you and your partner have both agreed to begin? Intended outcome: One partner prepares a mutually agreed surprise element. #### A49 -Theme: Surprise and novelty -Intensity: 3 -Primary text: Would you like your partner to give you a choice between two different kinds of close evening, without telling you which they hope you pick? -Partner text: Would you like to give your partner a choice between two different kinds of close evening, without telling them which you hope they pick? +Theme: Surprise and novelty +Intensity: 3 +Primary text: Would you like your partner to give you a choice between two different kinds of close evening, without telling you which they hope you pick? +Partner text: Would you like to give your partner a choice between two different kinds of close evening, without telling them which you hope they pick? Intended outcome: The couple uses a playful choice to reveal preferences and select a plan. #### A50 -Theme: Surprise and novelty -Intensity: 4 -Primary text: Would you be open to your partner asking you to say yes to one surprise date-night detail, after they tell you the category but not the detail? -Partner text: Would you be open to asking your partner to say yes to one surprise date-night detail, after you tell them the category but not the detail? +Theme: Surprise and novelty +Intensity: 4 +Primary text: Would you be open to your partner asking you to say yes to one surprise date-night detail, after they tell you the category but not the detail? +Partner text: Would you be open to asking your partner to say yes to one surprise date-night detail, after you tell them the category but not the detail? Intended outcome: The receiver consents to a bounded surprise with enough information to choose safely. #### A51 -Theme: Surprise and novelty -Intensity: 2 -Primary text: Would you like your partner to hide a clue somewhere at home that leads to a compliment from them? -Partner text: Would you like to hide a clue somewhere at home that leads your partner to a compliment from you? +Theme: Surprise and novelty +Intensity: 2 +Primary text: Would you like your partner to hide a clue somewhere at home that leads to a compliment from them? +Partner text: Would you like to hide a clue somewhere at home that leads your partner to a compliment from you? Intended outcome: The proposer creates a mini treasure hunt ending in affirmation. #### A52 -Theme: Surprise and novelty -Intensity: 3 -Primary text: Would you enjoy your partner choosing a new shared ritual for the first ten minutes of date night? -Partner text: Would you enjoy choosing a new shared ritual for the first ten minutes of date night with your partner? +Theme: Surprise and novelty +Intensity: 3 +Primary text: Would you enjoy your partner choosing a new shared ritual for the first ten minutes of date night? +Partner text: Would you enjoy choosing a new shared ritual for the first ten minutes of date night with your partner? Intended outcome: The proposer introduces a repeatable opening ritual for intentional time together. #### A53 -Theme: Surprise and novelty -Intensity: 4 -Primary text: Would you like your partner to surprise you with a confidence challenge that you can change or stop at any point? -Partner text: Would you like to surprise your partner with a confidence challenge that they can change or stop at any point? +Theme: Surprise and novelty +Intensity: 4 +Primary text: Would you like your partner to surprise you with a confidence challenge that you can change or stop at any point? +Partner text: Would you like to surprise your partner with a confidence challenge that they can change or stop at any point? Intended outcome: The proposer offers a novel confidence prompt with explicit receiver control. #### A54 -Theme: Long-distance desire -Intensity: 2 -Primary text: Would you like your partner to send you a voice note describing the first thing they want to do when you next have time alone together? -Partner text: Would you like to send your partner a voice note describing the first thing you want to do when you next have time alone together? +Theme: Long-distance desire +Intensity: 2 +Primary text: Would you like your partner to send you a voice note describing the first thing they want to do when you next have time alone together? +Partner text: Would you like to send your partner a voice note describing the first thing you want to do when you next have time alone together? Intended outcome: The proposer shares an anticipation-building voice message for the next reunion. #### A55 -Theme: Long-distance desire -Intensity: 3 -Primary text: Would you enjoy your partner planning a video-date mood for you to join from wherever you are? -Partner text: Would you enjoy planning a video-date mood for your partner to join from wherever they are? +Theme: Long-distance desire +Intensity: 3 +Primary text: Would you enjoy your partner planning a video-date mood for you to join from wherever you are? +Partner text: Would you enjoy planning a video-date mood for your partner to join from wherever they are? Intended outcome: One partner sets a shared remote date atmosphere. #### A56 -Theme: Long-distance desire -Intensity: 3 -Primary text: Would you like your partner to send you a message telling you what they miss most about being close to you? -Partner text: Would you like to send your partner a message telling them what you miss most about being close to them? +Theme: Long-distance desire +Intensity: 3 +Primary text: Would you like your partner to send you a message telling you what they miss most about being close to you? +Partner text: Would you like to send your partner a message telling them what you miss most about being close to them? Intended outcome: The receiver gets a specific intimacy-adjacent expression of longing. #### A57 -Theme: Long-distance desire -Intensity: 4 -Primary text: Would you be open to your partner arranging a private call where you both say one thing you hope to explore together when you reunite? -Partner text: Would you be open to arranging a private call where you both say one thing you hope to explore together when you reunite? +Theme: Long-distance desire +Intensity: 4 +Primary text: Would you be open to your partner arranging a private call where you both say one thing you hope to explore together when you reunite? +Partner text: Would you be open to arranging a private call where you both say one thing you hope to explore together when you reunite? Intended outcome: The couple holds a mutual, forward-looking conversation about agreed future intimacy. #### A58 -Theme: Long-distance desire -Intensity: 2 -Primary text: Would you like your partner to send you a photo of something that reminds them of your chemistry? -Partner text: Would you like to send your partner a photo of something that reminds you of your chemistry? +Theme: Long-distance desire +Intensity: 2 +Primary text: Would you like your partner to send you a photo of something that reminds them of your chemistry? +Partner text: Would you like to send your partner a photo of something that reminds you of your chemistry? Intended outcome: The proposer shares a safe visual cue connected to their relationship. #### A59 -Theme: Long-distance desire -Intensity: 3 -Primary text: Would you enjoy your partner choosing a song for you to listen to at the same time from different places? -Partner text: Would you enjoy choosing a song for you and your partner to listen to at the same time from different places? +Theme: Long-distance desire +Intensity: 3 +Primary text: Would you enjoy your partner choosing a song for you to listen to at the same time from different places? +Partner text: Would you enjoy choosing a song for you and your partner to listen to at the same time from different places? Intended outcome: The pair creates a synchronized remote closeness ritual. #### A60 -Theme: Long-distance desire -Intensity: 4 -Primary text: Would you like your partner to ask you for one honest promise about how you will make time for each other when distance ends? -Partner text: Would you like to ask your partner for one honest promise about how you will make time for each other when distance ends? +Theme: Long-distance desire +Intensity: 4 +Primary text: Would you like your partner to ask you for one honest promise about how you will make time for each other when distance ends? +Partner text: Would you like to ask your partner for one honest promise about how you will make time for each other when distance ends? Intended outcome: The couple makes a concrete reunion-intent commitment. ## Symmetric concepts diff --git a/docs/product/question-drafts/text-answer-concept-source.md b/docs/product/question-drafts/text-answer-concept-source.md index a741da7..77255d4 100644 --- a/docs/product/question-drafts/text-answer-concept-source.md +++ b/docs/product/question-drafts/text-answer-concept-source.md @@ -4,402 +4,402 @@ This source preserves 100 authored `text_answer` concepts for review. It is a dr ## Entries -1. **Theme:** Flirty communication | **Intensity:** 2 - **Prompt:** Write the compliment you most want your partner to give you before a close moment. +1. **Theme:** Flirty communication | **Intensity:** 2 + **Prompt:** Write the compliment you most want your partner to give you before a close moment. **Intended outcome:** Your partner learns the exact reassurance that makes you feel wanted and can use it as a sincere opening. -2. **Theme:** Flirty communication | **Intensity:** 2 - **Prompt:** Finish this sentence for your partner: “When you look at me like that, I want you to know...” +2. **Theme:** Flirty communication | **Intensity:** 2 + **Prompt:** Finish this sentence for your partner: “When you look at me like that, I want you to know...” **Intended outcome:** Your partner receives a personal signal about the effect their attention has on you. -3. **Theme:** Flirty communication | **Intensity:** 3 - **Prompt:** Write a one-line invitation that would make you smile if your partner sent it unexpectedly. +3. **Theme:** Flirty communication | **Intensity:** 3 + **Prompt:** Write a one-line invitation that would make you smile if your partner sent it unexpectedly. **Intended outcome:** Your partner gets a ready-to-use private message and learns the tone that draws you in. -4. **Theme:** Flirty communication | **Intensity:** 3 - **Prompt:** Describe the kind of teasing remark that feels playful to you rather than awkward. +4. **Theme:** Flirty communication | **Intensity:** 3 + **Prompt:** Describe the kind of teasing remark that feels playful to you rather than awkward. **Intended outcome:** Your partner learns your preferred style of flirtation and a boundary around what keeps it fun. -5. **Theme:** Flirty communication | **Intensity:** 3 - **Prompt:** Tell your partner one thing they do that immediately changes the mood between you. +5. **Theme:** Flirty communication | **Intensity:** 3 + **Prompt:** Tell your partner one thing they do that immediately changes the mood between you. **Intended outcome:** Your partner discovers a specific behaviour worth repeating when you both want more closeness. -6. **Theme:** Flirty communication | **Intensity:** 4 - **Prompt:** Write the boldest thing you would like your partner to say to you privately, in your own words. +6. **Theme:** Flirty communication | **Intensity:** 4 + **Prompt:** Write the boldest thing you would like your partner to say to you privately, in your own words. **Intended outcome:** Your partner receives direct permission to use language that feels exciting to you. -7. **Theme:** Flirty communication | **Intensity:** 4 - **Prompt:** Describe a private conversation you would love to have when you both feel especially open. +7. **Theme:** Flirty communication | **Intensity:** 4 + **Prompt:** Describe a private conversation you would love to have when you both feel especially open. **Intended outcome:** Your partner learns the subject you are curious to explore and can choose a comfortable time to start it. -8. **Theme:** Anticipation | **Intensity:** 2 - **Prompt:** Describe the ideal first hint that a special evening together is coming. +8. **Theme:** Anticipation | **Intensity:** 2 + **Prompt:** Describe the ideal first hint that a special evening together is coming. **Intended outcome:** Your partner learns how to build anticipation in a way that feels welcome rather than vague. -9. **Theme:** Anticipation | **Intensity:** 2 - **Prompt:** Write the kind of message that would make you look forward to seeing your partner later. +9. **Theme:** Anticipation | **Intensity:** 2 + **Prompt:** Write the kind of message that would make you look forward to seeing your partner later. **Intended outcome:** Your partner gets a concrete cue they can send before you reconnect. -10. **Theme:** Anticipation | **Intensity:** 3 - **Prompt:** Tell your partner what preparation would make you feel more relaxed before a private date at home. +10. **Theme:** Anticipation | **Intensity:** 3 + **Prompt:** Tell your partner what preparation would make you feel more relaxed before a private date at home. **Intended outcome:** Your partner learns a practical condition that helps you arrive present and receptive. -11. **Theme:** Anticipation | **Intensity:** 3 - **Prompt:** Describe a small change to your usual evening routine that would make it feel more intentional. +11. **Theme:** Anticipation | **Intensity:** 3 + **Prompt:** Describe a small change to your usual evening routine that would make it feel more intentional. **Intended outcome:** Your partner receives one realistic ritual to create a sense of occasion together. -12. **Theme:** Anticipation | **Intensity:** 3 - **Prompt:** Write what you would enjoy being asked to choose before your next intimate evening. +12. **Theme:** Anticipation | **Intensity:** 3 + **Prompt:** Write what you would enjoy being asked to choose before your next intimate evening. **Intended outcome:** Your partner learns where offering you a choice creates more excitement. -13. **Theme:** Anticipation | **Intensity:** 4 - **Prompt:** Share one private surprise you would genuinely enjoy your partner planning for you. +13. **Theme:** Anticipation | **Intensity:** 4 + **Prompt:** Share one private surprise you would genuinely enjoy your partner planning for you. **Intended outcome:** Your partner receives a clear idea for an unexpected gesture, including the kind of surprise you welcome. -14. **Theme:** Anticipation | **Intensity:** 4 - **Prompt:** Write a short countdown message you would like to receive before a night focused on the two of you. +14. **Theme:** Anticipation | **Intensity:** 4 + **Prompt:** Write a short countdown message you would like to receive before a night focused on the two of you. **Intended outcome:** Your partner gets language that builds suspense without guessing what would land well. -15. **Theme:** Taking the lead | **Intensity:** 2 - **Prompt:** Describe one part of a date where you would enjoy deciding what happens next. +15. **Theme:** Taking the lead | **Intensity:** 2 + **Prompt:** Describe one part of a date where you would enjoy deciding what happens next. **Intended outcome:** Your partner learns a low-pressure moment where your initiative would feel attractive. -16. **Theme:** Taking the lead | **Intensity:** 2 - **Prompt:** Write an invitation you would feel confident making when you want more one-to-one time. +16. **Theme:** Taking the lead | **Intensity:** 2 + **Prompt:** Write an invitation you would feel confident making when you want more one-to-one time. **Intended outcome:** Your partner receives a phrase that makes your interest unmistakable and easy to answer. -17. **Theme:** Taking the lead | **Intensity:** 3 - **Prompt:** Tell your partner what kind of plan you would enjoy taking charge of from start to finish. +17. **Theme:** Taking the lead | **Intensity:** 3 + **Prompt:** Tell your partner what kind of plan you would enjoy taking charge of from start to finish. **Intended outcome:** Your partner learns which shared experience you want to own and can leave space for you to lead it. -18. **Theme:** Taking the lead | **Intensity:** 3 - **Prompt:** Describe how you would like your partner to respond when you make a bold suggestion. +18. **Theme:** Taking the lead | **Intensity:** 3 + **Prompt:** Describe how you would like your partner to respond when you make a bold suggestion. **Intended outcome:** Your partner gets a practical guide for encouraging your confidence in the moment. -19. **Theme:** Taking the lead | **Intensity:** 3 - **Prompt:** Write one decision you would like to make for both of you during a private evening. +19. **Theme:** Taking the lead | **Intensity:** 3 + **Prompt:** Write one decision you would like to make for both of you during a private evening. **Intended outcome:** Your partner learns the kind of authority you want to try, with a concrete decision to hand over. -20. **Theme:** Taking the lead | **Intensity:** 4 - **Prompt:** Describe a confident version of yourself you would like your partner to see more often. +20. **Theme:** Taking the lead | **Intensity:** 4 + **Prompt:** Describe a confident version of yourself you would like your partner to see more often. **Intended outcome:** Your partner learns what confidence looks like for you and how they can invite it out. -21. **Theme:** Taking the lead | **Intensity:** 4 - **Prompt:** Write the private challenge you would like to set for your partner, including what would make it exciting. +21. **Theme:** Taking the lead | **Intensity:** 4 + **Prompt:** Write the private challenge you would like to set for your partner, including what would make it exciting. **Intended outcome:** Your partner receives a consensual challenge with the reason it appeals to you. -22. **Theme:** Following | **Intensity:** 2 - **Prompt:** Tell your partner one decision you would enjoy not having to make on a date. +22. **Theme:** Following | **Intensity:** 2 + **Prompt:** Tell your partner one decision you would enjoy not having to make on a date. **Intended outcome:** Your partner learns a simple place where taking initiative would feel caring. -23. **Theme:** Following | **Intensity:** 2 - **Prompt:** Describe the kind of invitation that makes it easy for you to say yes. +23. **Theme:** Following | **Intensity:** 2 + **Prompt:** Describe the kind of invitation that makes it easy for you to say yes. **Intended outcome:** Your partner learns the wording and atmosphere that lower pressure for you. -24. **Theme:** Following | **Intensity:** 3 - **Prompt:** Write what helps you trust your partner’s lead during a more intimate moment. +24. **Theme:** Following | **Intensity:** 3 + **Prompt:** Write what helps you trust your partner’s lead during a more intimate moment. **Intended outcome:** Your partner learns the specific reassurance or check-in that helps you relax into their plan. -25. **Theme:** Following | **Intensity:** 3 - **Prompt:** Share one surprise choice you would enjoy your partner making for you. +25. **Theme:** Following | **Intensity:** 3 + **Prompt:** Share one surprise choice you would enjoy your partner making for you. **Intended outcome:** Your partner gets a defined area where surprise feels exciting and safe. -26. **Theme:** Following | **Intensity:** 3 - **Prompt:** Describe how you want your partner to check that you are still enjoying their lead. +26. **Theme:** Following | **Intensity:** 3 + **Prompt:** Describe how you want your partner to check that you are still enjoying their lead. **Intended outcome:** Your partner receives a clear check-in preference they can use without breaking the mood. -27. **Theme:** Following | **Intensity:** 4 - **Prompt:** Write about a private situation where you would like to be guided step by step, in your own terms. +27. **Theme:** Following | **Intensity:** 4 + **Prompt:** Write about a private situation where you would like to be guided step by step, in your own terms. **Intended outcome:** Your partner learns the type of guidance you are curious about and the limits you want respected. -28. **Theme:** Following | **Intensity:** 4 - **Prompt:** Tell your partner what would make it feel exciting to let them choose the pace for a while. +28. **Theme:** Following | **Intensity:** 4 + **Prompt:** Tell your partner what would make it feel exciting to let them choose the pace for a while. **Intended outcome:** Your partner learns the conditions that make you comfortable giving them more influence. -29. **Theme:** Shared control | **Intensity:** 2 - **Prompt:** Name one decision you want to make together before your next close evening. +29. **Theme:** Shared control | **Intensity:** 2 + **Prompt:** Name one decision you want to make together before your next close evening. **Intended outcome:** Your partner learns where collaboration matters most to you and can plan it jointly. -30. **Theme:** Shared control | **Intensity:** 2 - **Prompt:** Describe your ideal signal for “let’s keep going” during a private moment. +30. **Theme:** Shared control | **Intensity:** 2 + **Prompt:** Describe your ideal signal for “let’s keep going” during a private moment. **Intended outcome:** Your partner receives a simple shared cue that makes mutual enthusiasm easier to read. -31. **Theme:** Shared control | **Intensity:** 3 - **Prompt:** Write the rule you would like both of you to follow when trying something unfamiliar together. +31. **Theme:** Shared control | **Intensity:** 3 + **Prompt:** Write the rule you would like both of you to follow when trying something unfamiliar together. **Intended outcome:** Your partner learns a mutual agreement that makes exploration feel safer. -32. **Theme:** Shared control | **Intensity:** 3 - **Prompt:** Tell your partner how you would like to alternate who chooses the next part of a date. +32. **Theme:** Shared control | **Intensity:** 3 + **Prompt:** Tell your partner how you would like to alternate who chooses the next part of a date. **Intended outcome:** Your partner gets a workable rhythm for sharing initiative rather than defaulting to one person. -33. **Theme:** Shared control | **Intensity:** 3 - **Prompt:** Describe one moment where you would enjoy pausing together to decide what you both want. +33. **Theme:** Shared control | **Intensity:** 3 + **Prompt:** Describe one moment where you would enjoy pausing together to decide what you both want. **Intended outcome:** Your partner learns when a joint decision would add connection instead of interrupting it. -34. **Theme:** Shared control | **Intensity:** 4 - **Prompt:** Write the private agreement that would make you feel brave enough to explore more together. +34. **Theme:** Shared control | **Intensity:** 4 + **Prompt:** Write the private agreement that would make you feel brave enough to explore more together. **Intended outcome:** Your partner receives a concrete mutual promise that supports bolder, consent-led choices. -35. **Theme:** Shared control | **Intensity:** 4 - **Prompt:** Share the question you want your partner to ask before either of you raises the intensity. +35. **Theme:** Shared control | **Intensity:** 4 + **Prompt:** Share the question you want your partner to ask before either of you raises the intensity. **Intended outcome:** Your partner learns the exact invitation to use before moving into more charged territory. -36. **Theme:** Boundaries and check-ins | **Intensity:** 2 - **Prompt:** Write one phrase that means “I like this, but slower” for you. +36. **Theme:** Boundaries and check-ins | **Intensity:** 2 + **Prompt:** Write one phrase that means “I like this, but slower” for you. **Intended outcome:** Your partner receives a clear signal for adjusting pace without uncertainty. -37. **Theme:** Boundaries and check-ins | **Intensity:** 2 - **Prompt:** Describe the best way for your partner to ask whether you are comfortable. +37. **Theme:** Boundaries and check-ins | **Intensity:** 2 + **Prompt:** Describe the best way for your partner to ask whether you are comfortable. **Intended outcome:** Your partner learns a check-in style that feels caring rather than clinical. -38. **Theme:** Boundaries and check-ins | **Intensity:** 3 - **Prompt:** Tell your partner one thing you need before you can enjoy a more adventurous private plan. +38. **Theme:** Boundaries and check-ins | **Intensity:** 3 + **Prompt:** Tell your partner one thing you need before you can enjoy a more adventurous private plan. **Intended outcome:** Your partner learns a condition that turns curiosity into a safer shared possibility. -39. **Theme:** Boundaries and check-ins | **Intensity:** 3 - **Prompt:** Write a kind way you would want your partner to respond if you change your mind. +39. **Theme:** Boundaries and check-ins | **Intensity:** 3 + **Prompt:** Write a kind way you would want your partner to respond if you change your mind. **Intended outcome:** Your partner gets direct guidance for making a change of plan feel respected and easy. -40. **Theme:** Boundaries and check-ins | **Intensity:** 3 - **Prompt:** Describe one topic you would prefer to discuss before, rather than during, a close moment. +40. **Theme:** Boundaries and check-ins | **Intensity:** 3 + **Prompt:** Describe one topic you would prefer to discuss before, rather than during, a close moment. **Intended outcome:** Your partner learns what deserves a calm conversation in advance. -41. **Theme:** Boundaries and check-ins | **Intensity:** 4 - **Prompt:** Share a boundary that makes you feel more able to be adventurous within it. +41. **Theme:** Boundaries and check-ins | **Intensity:** 4 + **Prompt:** Share a boundary that makes you feel more able to be adventurous within it. **Intended outcome:** Your partner learns the limit that creates freedom rather than reducing the mood. -42. **Theme:** Boundaries and check-ins | **Intensity:** 4 - **Prompt:** Write the reassurance you need when you suggest something that feels vulnerable to say aloud. +42. **Theme:** Boundaries and check-ins | **Intensity:** 4 + **Prompt:** Write the reassurance you need when you suggest something that feels vulnerable to say aloud. **Intended outcome:** Your partner receives a practical response that helps you bring up bolder ideas honestly. -43. **Theme:** Aftercare and reconnection | **Intensity:** 2 - **Prompt:** Describe how you like to reconnect after an especially close moment. +43. **Theme:** Aftercare and reconnection | **Intensity:** 2 + **Prompt:** Describe how you like to reconnect after an especially close moment. **Intended outcome:** Your partner learns the small act that helps you feel settled and connected afterward. -44. **Theme:** Aftercare and reconnection | **Intensity:** 2 - **Prompt:** Write the first question you would like your partner to ask after trying something new together. +44. **Theme:** Aftercare and reconnection | **Intensity:** 2 + **Prompt:** Write the first question you would like your partner to ask after trying something new together. **Intended outcome:** Your partner receives a ready-made invitation for a thoughtful debrief. -45. **Theme:** Aftercare and reconnection | **Intensity:** 3 - **Prompt:** Tell your partner what makes you feel appreciated after you have been emotionally open. +45. **Theme:** Aftercare and reconnection | **Intensity:** 3 + **Prompt:** Tell your partner what makes you feel appreciated after you have been emotionally open. **Intended outcome:** Your partner learns how to recognise your vulnerability in a way that lands. -46. **Theme:** Aftercare and reconnection | **Intensity:** 3 - **Prompt:** Describe the kind of quiet time you would enjoy sharing once the excitement has passed. +46. **Theme:** Aftercare and reconnection | **Intensity:** 3 + **Prompt:** Describe the kind of quiet time you would enjoy sharing once the excitement has passed. **Intended outcome:** Your partner gets a concrete picture of the calm connection you want afterward. -47. **Theme:** Aftercare and reconnection | **Intensity:** 3 - **Prompt:** Write one thing you would like to hear after you take a private risk together. +47. **Theme:** Aftercare and reconnection | **Intensity:** 3 + **Prompt:** Write one thing you would like to hear after you take a private risk together. **Intended outcome:** Your partner learns the affirmation that helps you feel proud rather than self-conscious. -48. **Theme:** Aftercare and reconnection | **Intensity:** 4 - **Prompt:** Share the part of a close experience you would most want to talk through afterward. +48. **Theme:** Aftercare and reconnection | **Intensity:** 4 + **Prompt:** Share the part of a close experience you would most want to talk through afterward. **Intended outcome:** Your partner learns what reflection would deepen trust and make a future experience better. -49. **Theme:** Giving and receiving attention | **Intensity:** 2 - **Prompt:** Describe one way your partner can give you their full attention that you rarely ask for. +49. **Theme:** Giving and receiving attention | **Intensity:** 2 + **Prompt:** Describe one way your partner can give you their full attention that you rarely ask for. **Intended outcome:** Your partner discovers a specific act of focus that makes you feel prioritised. -50. **Theme:** Giving and receiving attention | **Intensity:** 2 - **Prompt:** Write about a moment when you feel most noticed by your partner. +50. **Theme:** Giving and receiving attention | **Intensity:** 2 + **Prompt:** Write about a moment when you feel most noticed by your partner. **Intended outcome:** Your partner learns the context in which their attention has the greatest effect. -51. **Theme:** Giving and receiving attention | **Intensity:** 3 - **Prompt:** Tell your partner what you enjoy doing when you want to make them feel desired. +51. **Theme:** Giving and receiving attention | **Intensity:** 3 + **Prompt:** Tell your partner what you enjoy doing when you want to make them feel desired. **Intended outcome:** Your partner learns how you naturally show interest and can recognise the signal. -52. **Theme:** Giving and receiving attention | **Intensity:** 3 - **Prompt:** Describe the kind of praise you most enjoy receiving privately. +52. **Theme:** Giving and receiving attention | **Intensity:** 3 + **Prompt:** Describe the kind of praise you most enjoy receiving privately. **Intended outcome:** Your partner gets a personal guide to language that makes you feel seen. -53. **Theme:** Giving and receiving attention | **Intensity:** 3 - **Prompt:** Write one request you would enjoy hearing from your partner when they want your attention. +53. **Theme:** Giving and receiving attention | **Intensity:** 3 + **Prompt:** Write one request you would enjoy hearing from your partner when they want your attention. **Intended outcome:** Your partner receives a low-pressure way to ask directly for more of you. -54. **Theme:** Giving and receiving attention | **Intensity:** 4 - **Prompt:** Share the private gesture that would make you feel unmistakably chosen by your partner. +54. **Theme:** Giving and receiving attention | **Intensity:** 4 + **Prompt:** Share the private gesture that would make you feel unmistakably chosen by your partner. **Intended outcome:** Your partner learns a specific, high-impact way to make you feel desired. -55. **Theme:** Sensory cues | **Intensity:** 2 - **Prompt:** Describe a scent that instantly makes an evening feel more intimate to you. +55. **Theme:** Sensory cues | **Intensity:** 2 + **Prompt:** Describe a scent that instantly makes an evening feel more intimate to you. **Intended outcome:** Your partner learns an atmosphere cue they can use when planning a close night in. -56. **Theme:** Sensory cues | **Intensity:** 2 - **Prompt:** Write about the music that would help you leave everyday stress behind together. +56. **Theme:** Sensory cues | **Intensity:** 2 + **Prompt:** Write about the music that would help you leave everyday stress behind together. **Intended outcome:** Your partner gets a mood-setting choice that supports a more connected evening. -57. **Theme:** Sensory cues | **Intensity:** 3 - **Prompt:** Tell your partner which kind of lighting makes you feel most confident and relaxed. +57. **Theme:** Sensory cues | **Intensity:** 3 + **Prompt:** Tell your partner which kind of lighting makes you feel most confident and relaxed. **Intended outcome:** Your partner learns a practical way to shape the room around your comfort. -58. **Theme:** Sensory cues | **Intensity:** 3 - **Prompt:** Describe a texture, fabric, or cosy detail that makes a private setting feel special. +58. **Theme:** Sensory cues | **Intensity:** 3 + **Prompt:** Describe a texture, fabric, or cosy detail that makes a private setting feel special. **Intended outcome:** Your partner receives an actionable detail for creating a setting that appeals to you. -59. **Theme:** Sensory cues | **Intensity:** 3 - **Prompt:** Write about the sound of your partner’s voice that you find most captivating. +59. **Theme:** Sensory cues | **Intensity:** 3 + **Prompt:** Write about the sound of your partner’s voice that you find most captivating. **Intended outcome:** Your partner learns a vocal quality that makes you feel drawn closer. -60. **Theme:** Sensory cues | **Intensity:** 4 - **Prompt:** Share the full sensory mood you would like your partner to create for an intimate evening. +60. **Theme:** Sensory cues | **Intensity:** 4 + **Prompt:** Share the full sensory mood you would like your partner to create for an intimate evening. **Intended outcome:** Your partner receives a personal brief for a more immersive, intentional atmosphere. -61. **Theme:** Private performance | **Intensity:** 2 - **Prompt:** Write about a playful thing you would enjoy doing just to make your partner smile in private. +61. **Theme:** Private performance | **Intensity:** 2 + **Prompt:** Write about a playful thing you would enjoy doing just to make your partner smile in private. **Intended outcome:** Your partner learns a personal expression of your confidence they can encourage. -62. **Theme:** Private performance | **Intensity:** 2 - **Prompt:** Describe a song that would make you feel expressive if you had the room to yourselves. +62. **Theme:** Private performance | **Intensity:** 2 + **Prompt:** Describe a song that would make you feel expressive if you had the room to yourselves. **Intended outcome:** Your partner gets a soundtrack that invites a more playful side of you out. -63. **Theme:** Private performance | **Intensity:** 3 - **Prompt:** Tell your partner what kind of attention helps you feel confident being watched by them. +63. **Theme:** Private performance | **Intensity:** 3 + **Prompt:** Tell your partner what kind of attention helps you feel confident being watched by them. **Intended outcome:** Your partner learns how to make their attention feel encouraging rather than exposing. -64. **Theme:** Private performance | **Intensity:** 3 - **Prompt:** Write a private dare you would enjoy accepting from your partner. +64. **Theme:** Private performance | **Intensity:** 3 + **Prompt:** Write a private dare you would enjoy accepting from your partner. **Intended outcome:** Your partner receives a consent-led challenge that fits your idea of playful boldness. -65. **Theme:** Private performance | **Intensity:** 3 - **Prompt:** Describe the reaction from your partner that would make you want to be more expressive. +65. **Theme:** Private performance | **Intensity:** 3 + **Prompt:** Describe the reaction from your partner that would make you want to be more expressive. **Intended outcome:** Your partner learns the feedback that builds your confidence in the moment. -66. **Theme:** Private performance | **Intensity:** 4 - **Prompt:** Share a private moment where you would enjoy being the centre of your partner’s attention. +66. **Theme:** Private performance | **Intensity:** 4 + **Prompt:** Share a private moment where you would enjoy being the centre of your partner’s attention. **Intended outcome:** Your partner learns the kind of focused attention you are curious to receive and can plan it with you. -67. **Theme:** Clothes and confidence | **Intensity:** 2 - **Prompt:** Describe an outfit that makes you feel more like yourself on a date with your partner. +67. **Theme:** Clothes and confidence | **Intensity:** 2 + **Prompt:** Describe an outfit that makes you feel more like yourself on a date with your partner. **Intended outcome:** Your partner learns the look that supports your confidence and can compliment it specifically. -68. **Theme:** Clothes and confidence | **Intensity:** 2 - **Prompt:** Write the colour you would love your partner to notice you wearing. +68. **Theme:** Clothes and confidence | **Intensity:** 2 + **Prompt:** Write the colour you would love your partner to notice you wearing. **Intended outcome:** Your partner gets a small visual detail to notice and celebrate. -69. **Theme:** Clothes and confidence | **Intensity:** 3 - **Prompt:** Tell your partner what you would enjoy choosing for them to wear on a private date night. +69. **Theme:** Clothes and confidence | **Intensity:** 3 + **Prompt:** Tell your partner what you would enjoy choosing for them to wear on a private date night. **Intended outcome:** Your partner learns your taste and has a clear invitation to let you style part of the evening. -70. **Theme:** Clothes and confidence | **Intensity:** 3 - **Prompt:** Describe the compliment about your appearance that would feel most meaningful from your partner. +70. **Theme:** Clothes and confidence | **Intensity:** 3 + **Prompt:** Describe the compliment about your appearance that would feel most meaningful from your partner. **Intended outcome:** Your partner receives guidance for praise that strengthens your confidence. -71. **Theme:** Clothes and confidence | **Intensity:** 3 - **Prompt:** Write about one detail of getting ready that makes you feel more alluring. +71. **Theme:** Clothes and confidence | **Intensity:** 3 + **Prompt:** Write about one detail of getting ready that makes you feel more alluring. **Intended outcome:** Your partner learns the ritual that helps you shift into a more confident mood. -72. **Theme:** Clothes and confidence | **Intensity:** 4 - **Prompt:** Share the private look you would be excited to reveal to your partner, in your own words. +72. **Theme:** Clothes and confidence | **Intensity:** 4 + **Prompt:** Share the private look you would be excited to reveal to your partner, in your own words. **Intended outcome:** Your partner learns what kind of reveal feels exciting to you and can respond with the right attention. -73. **Theme:** Fantasy exchange | **Intensity:** 2 - **Prompt:** Write about a fictional romance scene whose mood you would love to borrow for a date. +73. **Theme:** Fantasy exchange | **Intensity:** 2 + **Prompt:** Write about a fictional romance scene whose mood you would love to borrow for a date. **Intended outcome:** Your partner learns the emotional tone you are drawn to without needing to guess the reference. -74. **Theme:** Fantasy exchange | **Intensity:** 2 - **Prompt:** Describe the kind of imagined setting that makes you feel more adventurous with your partner. +74. **Theme:** Fantasy exchange | **Intensity:** 2 + **Prompt:** Describe the kind of imagined setting that makes you feel more adventurous with your partner. **Intended outcome:** Your partner receives a setting idea that can inspire a themed evening. -75. **Theme:** Fantasy exchange | **Intensity:** 3 - **Prompt:** Tell your partner what role you would enjoy imagining for yourself during a playful private scenario. +75. **Theme:** Fantasy exchange | **Intensity:** 3 + **Prompt:** Tell your partner what role you would enjoy imagining for yourself during a playful private scenario. **Intended outcome:** Your partner learns the character energy you are curious to try. -76. **Theme:** Fantasy exchange | **Intensity:** 3 - **Prompt:** Write a fictional opening line your partner could use to begin a shared fantasy. +76. **Theme:** Fantasy exchange | **Intensity:** 3 + **Prompt:** Write a fictional opening line your partner could use to begin a shared fantasy. **Intended outcome:** Your partner gets a tailored starting line for playful imagination together. -77. **Theme:** Fantasy exchange | **Intensity:** 3 - **Prompt:** Describe the one detail that would make an imagined scenario feel believable and exciting to you. +77. **Theme:** Fantasy exchange | **Intensity:** 3 + **Prompt:** Describe the one detail that would make an imagined scenario feel believable and exciting to you. **Intended outcome:** Your partner learns the ingredient that turns a vague idea into something engaging. -78. **Theme:** Fantasy exchange | **Intensity:** 4 - **Prompt:** Share a private fantasy premise you would like to explore only in conversation first. +78. **Theme:** Fantasy exchange | **Intensity:** 4 + **Prompt:** Share a private fantasy premise you would like to explore only in conversation first. **Intended outcome:** Your partner learns a higher-intensity idea while the first follow-up remains a safe discussion. -79. **Theme:** Roleplay | **Intensity:** 2 - **Prompt:** Write the nickname you would enjoy your partner using during a playful private game. +79. **Theme:** Roleplay | **Intensity:** 2 + **Prompt:** Write the nickname you would enjoy your partner using during a playful private game. **Intended outcome:** Your partner receives language that helps set a playful tone you welcome. -80. **Theme:** Roleplay | **Intensity:** 2 - **Prompt:** Describe a simple character trait you would enjoy your partner pretending to have for one evening. +80. **Theme:** Roleplay | **Intensity:** 2 + **Prompt:** Describe a simple character trait you would enjoy your partner pretending to have for one evening. **Intended outcome:** Your partner gets a low-stakes roleplay cue that can make an ordinary night feel new. -81. **Theme:** Roleplay | **Intensity:** 3 - **Prompt:** Tell your partner the kind of made-up first meeting you would enjoy acting out together. +81. **Theme:** Roleplay | **Intensity:** 3 + **Prompt:** Tell your partner the kind of made-up first meeting you would enjoy acting out together. **Intended outcome:** Your partner learns a shared scenario that gives both of you a clear starting point. -82. **Theme:** Roleplay | **Intensity:** 3 - **Prompt:** Write the setting where you would enjoy pretending you have just met your partner. +82. **Theme:** Roleplay | **Intensity:** 3 + **Prompt:** Write the setting where you would enjoy pretending you have just met your partner. **Intended outcome:** Your partner receives a scene to build around for a playful reset of familiar chemistry. -83. **Theme:** Roleplay | **Intensity:** 3 - **Prompt:** Describe the one rule that would help roleplay feel comfortable and fun for you. +83. **Theme:** Roleplay | **Intensity:** 3 + **Prompt:** Describe the one rule that would help roleplay feel comfortable and fun for you. **Intended outcome:** Your partner learns the agreement that keeps the game connected to your real trust. -84. **Theme:** Roleplay | **Intensity:** 4 - **Prompt:** Share a bolder character dynamic you are curious to discuss with your partner before trying it. +84. **Theme:** Roleplay | **Intensity:** 4 + **Prompt:** Share a bolder character dynamic you are curious to discuss with your partner before trying it. **Intended outcome:** Your partner learns what dynamic interests you and can talk through comfort, limits, and interest first. -85. **Theme:** Settings and atmosphere | **Intensity:** 2 - **Prompt:** Describe the room where you would most like to have an uninterrupted evening with your partner. +85. **Theme:** Settings and atmosphere | **Intensity:** 2 + **Prompt:** Describe the room where you would most like to have an uninterrupted evening with your partner. **Intended outcome:** Your partner learns which environment helps you feel most present together. -86. **Theme:** Settings and atmosphere | **Intensity:** 2 - **Prompt:** Write the first thing you would change at home to make a regular night feel more special. +86. **Theme:** Settings and atmosphere | **Intensity:** 2 + **Prompt:** Write the first thing you would change at home to make a regular night feel more special. **Intended outcome:** Your partner gets a realistic way to shift an ordinary evening into a date. -87. **Theme:** Settings and atmosphere | **Intensity:** 3 - **Prompt:** Tell your partner what makes a hotel-style evening feel exciting to you. +87. **Theme:** Settings and atmosphere | **Intensity:** 3 + **Prompt:** Tell your partner what makes a hotel-style evening feel exciting to you. **Intended outcome:** Your partner learns the elements of novelty or escape you would like recreated. -88. **Theme:** Settings and atmosphere | **Intensity:** 3 - **Prompt:** Describe the kind of privacy you need before you can fully switch off together. +88. **Theme:** Settings and atmosphere | **Intensity:** 3 + **Prompt:** Describe the kind of privacy you need before you can fully switch off together. **Intended outcome:** Your partner learns the practical conditions needed for you to feel unhurried. -89. **Theme:** Settings and atmosphere | **Intensity:** 3 - **Prompt:** Write about a place from a past date that you would love to recreate the feeling of at home. +89. **Theme:** Settings and atmosphere | **Intensity:** 3 + **Prompt:** Write about a place from a past date that you would love to recreate the feeling of at home. **Intended outcome:** Your partner receives an emotional reference point and ideas for bringing it back. -90. **Theme:** Settings and atmosphere | **Intensity:** 4 - **Prompt:** Share the most adventurous private setting you would enjoy planning together, while staying within your comfort zone. +90. **Theme:** Settings and atmosphere | **Intensity:** 4 + **Prompt:** Share the most adventurous private setting you would enjoy planning together, while staying within your comfort zone. **Intended outcome:** Your partner learns your appetite for novelty and the limits that make the plan feel right. -91. **Theme:** Surprise and novelty | **Intensity:** 2 - **Prompt:** Write one small unexpected gesture that would brighten a normal day with your partner. +91. **Theme:** Surprise and novelty | **Intensity:** 2 + **Prompt:** Write one small unexpected gesture that would brighten a normal day with your partner. **Intended outcome:** Your partner gets a specific surprise that signals private affection. -92. **Theme:** Surprise and novelty | **Intensity:** 2 - **Prompt:** Describe the kind of spontaneous invitation you would be happy to receive. +92. **Theme:** Surprise and novelty | **Intensity:** 2 + **Prompt:** Describe the kind of spontaneous invitation you would be happy to receive. **Intended outcome:** Your partner learns how to be impulsive in a way that still feels welcome. -93. **Theme:** Surprise and novelty | **Intensity:** 3 - **Prompt:** Tell your partner one familiar routine you would enjoy changing up together. +93. **Theme:** Surprise and novelty | **Intensity:** 3 + **Prompt:** Tell your partner one familiar routine you would enjoy changing up together. **Intended outcome:** Your partner learns where novelty would improve your shared rhythm. -94. **Theme:** Surprise and novelty | **Intensity:** 3 - **Prompt:** Write a sealed-note prompt you would enjoy your partner giving you to open later. +94. **Theme:** Surprise and novelty | **Intensity:** 3 + **Prompt:** Write a sealed-note prompt you would enjoy your partner giving you to open later. **Intended outcome:** Your partner receives a private prompt format that can create suspense across the day. -95. **Theme:** Surprise and novelty | **Intensity:** 3 - **Prompt:** Describe a new rule for one evening that would make it feel different from your usual time together. +95. **Theme:** Surprise and novelty | **Intensity:** 3 + **Prompt:** Describe a new rule for one evening that would make it feel different from your usual time together. **Intended outcome:** Your partner gets a simple novelty experiment that you have already signalled interest in. -96. **Theme:** Surprise and novelty | **Intensity:** 4 - **Prompt:** Share the bold surprise you would enjoy discovering after your partner has checked the broad limits with you. +96. **Theme:** Surprise and novelty | **Intensity:** 4 + **Prompt:** Share the bold surprise you would enjoy discovering after your partner has checked the broad limits with you. **Intended outcome:** Your partner learns both the surprise you want and the consent conversation needed before planning it. -97. **Theme:** Long-distance desire | **Intensity:** 2 - **Prompt:** Write the message that would make you feel closest to your partner when you are apart. +97. **Theme:** Long-distance desire | **Intensity:** 2 + **Prompt:** Write the message that would make you feel closest to your partner when you are apart. **Intended outcome:** Your partner learns the kind of connection that travels well between visits. -98. **Theme:** Long-distance desire | **Intensity:** 2 - **Prompt:** Describe a tiny ritual you would like to share on the evenings you cannot be together. +98. **Theme:** Long-distance desire | **Intensity:** 2 + **Prompt:** Describe a tiny ritual you would like to share on the evenings you cannot be together. **Intended outcome:** Your partner receives a repeatable way to maintain intimacy across distance. -99. **Theme:** Long-distance desire | **Intensity:** 3 - **Prompt:** Tell your partner what you would like to plan together before your next time in the same place. +99. **Theme:** Long-distance desire | **Intensity:** 3 + **Prompt:** Tell your partner what you would like to plan together before your next time in the same place. **Intended outcome:** Your partner learns which shared anticipation would make a reunion more meaningful. -100. **Theme:** Long-distance desire | **Intensity:** 4 - **Prompt:** Write the private promise you would like to exchange before a longer period apart. +100. **Theme:** Long-distance desire | **Intensity:** 4 + **Prompt:** Write the private promise you would like to exchange before a longer period apart. **Intended outcome:** Your partner receives a personal commitment that can sustain desire, reassurance, and connection until you reunite.