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### Sensory cues
#### A01
Theme: Sensory cues
Intensity: 2
Primary text: Would you be up for choosing a scent that you want your partner to wear for a close evening?
Partner text: Would you be up for choosing a scent that you want your partner to wear for a close evening?
Theme: Sensory cues
Intensity: 2
Primary text: Would you be up for choosing a scent that you want your partner to wear for a close evening?
Partner text: Would you be up for choosing a scent that you want your partner to wear for a close evening?
Intended outcome: One partner selects a scent cue for the other to use on their next intentional date night.
#### A02
Theme: Sensory cues
Intensity: 3
Primary text: Would you like your partner to prepare a playlist that sets the mood for a more intimate evening with you?
Partner text: Would you like to prepare a playlist that sets the mood for a more intimate evening with your partner?
Theme: Sensory cues
Intensity: 3
Primary text: Would you like your partner to prepare a playlist that sets the mood for a more intimate evening with you?
Partner text: Would you like to prepare a playlist that sets the mood for a more intimate evening with your partner?
Intended outcome: The receiving partner gets a personally chosen mood playlist.
#### A03
Theme: Sensory cues
Intensity: 3
Primary text: Would you enjoy your partner guiding you through a slow eyes-closed guessing game with safe household textures?
Partner text: Would you enjoy guiding your partner through a slow eyes-closed guessing game with safe household textures?
Theme: Sensory cues
Intensity: 3
Primary text: Would you enjoy your partner guiding you through a slow eyes-closed guessing game with safe household textures?
Partner text: Would you enjoy guiding your partner through a slow eyes-closed guessing game with safe household textures?
Intended outcome: The proposer leads a private sensory game and the receiver agrees to participate.
#### A04
Theme: Sensory cues
Intensity: 3
Primary text: Would you like your partner to choose the lighting for a close evening together?
Partner text: Would you like to choose the lighting for a close evening together with your partner?
Theme: Sensory cues
Intensity: 3
Primary text: Would you like your partner to choose the lighting for a close evening together?
Partner text: Would you like to choose the lighting for a close evening together with your partner?
Intended outcome: One partner creates the visual atmosphere while the other agrees to experience it.
#### A05
Theme: Sensory cues
Intensity: 4
Primary text: Would you be open to your partner asking you to focus only on their voice for a few uninterrupted minutes?
Partner text: Would you be open to asking your partner to focus only on your voice for a few uninterrupted minutes?
Theme: Sensory cues
Intensity: 4
Primary text: Would you be open to your partner asking you to focus only on their voice for a few uninterrupted minutes?
Partner text: Would you be open to asking your partner to focus only on your voice for a few uninterrupted minutes?
Intended outcome: The proposer receives undivided, voice-led attention in private.
#### A06
Theme: Sensory cues
Intensity: 3
Primary text: Would you like your partner to pick a dessert or drink for you to share slowly after your date?
Partner text: Would you like to pick a dessert or drink for your partner to share slowly after your date?
Theme: Sensory cues
Intensity: 3
Primary text: Would you like your partner to pick a dessert or drink for you to share slowly after your date?
Partner text: Would you like to pick a dessert or drink for your partner to share slowly after your date?
Intended outcome: The proposer chooses a shared treat that extends a date into a close moment.
#### A07
Theme: Sensory cues
Intensity: 4
Primary text: Would you enjoy your partner choosing one song and asking you to stay close with them until it ends?
Partner text: Would you enjoy choosing one song and asking your partner to stay close with you until it ends?
Theme: Sensory cues
Intensity: 4
Primary text: Would you enjoy your partner choosing one song and asking you to stay close with them until it ends?
Partner text: Would you enjoy choosing one song and asking your partner to stay close with you until it ends?
Intended outcome: The couple agrees to a deliberate, uninterrupted closeness ritual around one song.
#### A08
Theme: Sensory cues
Intensity: 2
Primary text: Would you like your partner to leave a note telling you one small detail they find especially attractive about you?
Partner text: Would you like to leave your partner a note telling them one small detail you find especially attractive about them?
Theme: Sensory cues
Intensity: 2
Primary text: Would you like your partner to leave a note telling you one small detail they find especially attractive about you?
Partner text: Would you like to leave your partner a note telling them one small detail you find especially attractive about them?
Intended outcome: The proposer gives the receiver a specific, private compliment in writing.
### Private performance
#### A09
Theme: Private performance
Intensity: 2
Primary text: Would you like your partner to choose a song and perform a playful lip-sync just for you?
Partner text: Would you like to choose a song and perform a playful lip-sync just for your partner?
Theme: Private performance
Intensity: 2
Primary text: Would you like your partner to choose a song and perform a playful lip-sync just for you?
Partner text: Would you like to choose a song and perform a playful lip-sync just for your partner?
Intended outcome: One partner gives the other a private, playful performance.
#### A10
Theme: Private performance
Intensity: 3
Primary text: Would you enjoy your partner giving you a short, confident compliment speech before your next date night?
Partner text: Would you enjoy giving your partner a short, confident compliment speech before your next date night?
Theme: Private performance
Intensity: 3
Primary text: Would you enjoy your partner giving you a short, confident compliment speech before your next date night?
Partner text: Would you enjoy giving your partner a short, confident compliment speech before your next date night?
Intended outcome: The receiver gets a deliberate verbal build-up before the date.
#### A11
Theme: Private performance
Intensity: 3
Primary text: Would you be up for your partner choosing a song for you to slow-dance to together at home?
Partner text: Would you be up for choosing a song for you and your partner to slow-dance to together at home?
Theme: Private performance
Intensity: 3
Primary text: Would you be up for your partner choosing a song for you to slow-dance to together at home?
Partner text: Would you be up for choosing a song for you and your partner to slow-dance to together at home?
Intended outcome: The proposer picks the soundtrack for a private slow dance.
#### A12
Theme: Private performance
Intensity: 4
Primary text: Would you like your partner to tell you, face to face, the version of you they find hardest to resist?
Partner text: Would you like to tell your partner, face to face, the version of them you find hardest to resist?
Theme: Private performance
Intensity: 4
Primary text: Would you like your partner to tell you, face to face, the version of you they find hardest to resist?
Partner text: Would you like to tell your partner, face to face, the version of them you find hardest to resist?
Intended outcome: The couple shares a direct, personal desire statement.
#### A13
Theme: Private performance
Intensity: 2
Primary text: Would you enjoy your partner making you laugh with a deliberately over-the-top romantic introduction?
Partner text: Would you enjoy making your partner laugh with a deliberately over-the-top romantic introduction?
Theme: Private performance
Intensity: 2
Primary text: Would you enjoy your partner making you laugh with a deliberately over-the-top romantic introduction?
Partner text: Would you enjoy making your partner laugh with a deliberately over-the-top romantic introduction?
Intended outcome: One partner performs a comic, affectionate introduction for the other.
#### A14
Theme: Private performance
Intensity: 3
Primary text: Would you like your partner to write and read you a short invitation for a private evening together?
Partner text: Would you like to write and read your partner a short invitation for a private evening together?
Theme: Private performance
Intensity: 3
Primary text: Would you like your partner to write and read you a short invitation for a private evening together?
Partner text: Would you like to write and read your partner a short invitation for a private evening together?
Intended outcome: The proposer creates a spoken invitation that frames the evening.
#### A15
Theme: Private performance
Intensity: 4
Primary text: Would you be open to your partner asking you to sit back while they set the pace for the first part of your evening?
Partner text: Would you be open to asking your partner to sit back while you set the pace for the first part of your evening?
Theme: Private performance
Intensity: 4
Primary text: Would you be open to your partner asking you to sit back while they set the pace for the first part of your evening?
Partner text: Would you be open to asking your partner to sit back while you set the pace for the first part of your evening?
Intended outcome: The proposer leads the opening part of a mutually agreed private evening.
#### A16
Theme: Private performance
Intensity: 3
Primary text: Would you like your partner to reveal one new side of their confidence through a private dance for you?
Partner text: Would you like to reveal one new side of your confidence through a private dance for your partner?
Theme: Private performance
Intensity: 3
Primary text: Would you like your partner to reveal one new side of their confidence through a private dance for you?
Partner text: Would you like to reveal one new side of your confidence through a private dance for your partner?
Intended outcome: One partner shares a confidence-focused private dance.
### Clothes and confidence
#### A17
Theme: Clothes and confidence
Intensity: 2
Primary text: Would you like your partner to choose one outfit detail for your next date that makes them smile?
Partner text: Would you like to choose one outfit detail for your partner's next date that makes you smile?
Theme: Clothes and confidence
Intensity: 2
Primary text: Would you like your partner to choose one outfit detail for your next date that makes them smile?
Partner text: Would you like to choose one outfit detail for your partner's next date that makes you smile?
Intended outcome: The proposer chooses a small style detail for the receiver to wear.
#### A18
Theme: Clothes and confidence
Intensity: 3
Primary text: Would you enjoy your partner putting together a look for you that feels more daring than your usual style?
Partner text: Would you enjoy putting together a look for your partner that feels more daring than their usual style?
Theme: Clothes and confidence
Intensity: 3
Primary text: Would you enjoy your partner putting together a look for you that feels more daring than your usual style?
Partner text: Would you enjoy putting together a look for your partner that feels more daring than their usual style?
Intended outcome: One partner styles the other for a bolder but comfortable date-night look.
#### A19
Theme: Clothes and confidence
Intensity: 3
Primary text: Would you like your partner to ask you to wear the colour they most associate with you feeling confident?
Partner text: Would you like to ask your partner to wear the colour you most associate with them feeling confident?
Theme: Clothes and confidence
Intensity: 3
Primary text: Would you like your partner to ask you to wear the colour they most associate with you feeling confident?
Partner text: Would you like to ask your partner to wear the colour you most associate with them feeling confident?
Intended outcome: The receiver wears a colour chosen for its confidence association.
#### A20
Theme: Clothes and confidence
Intensity: 4
Primary text: Would you be open to your partner choosing the dress code for a private evening, within limits you both agree first?
Partner text: Would you be open to choosing the dress code for a private evening, within limits you both agree first?
Theme: Clothes and confidence
Intensity: 4
Primary text: Would you be open to your partner choosing the dress code for a private evening, within limits you both agree first?
Partner text: Would you be open to choosing the dress code for a private evening, within limits you both agree first?
Intended outcome: One partner leads the evening's agreed presentation and atmosphere.
#### A21
Theme: Clothes and confidence
Intensity: 2
Primary text: Would you like your partner to send you a message before your date saying exactly what they hope you will wear?
Partner text: Would you like to send your partner a message before your date saying exactly what you hope they will wear?
Theme: Clothes and confidence
Intensity: 2
Primary text: Would you like your partner to send you a message before your date saying exactly what they hope you will wear?
Partner text: Would you like to send your partner a message before your date saying exactly what you hope they will wear?
Intended outcome: The receiver gets a style preference message before a date.
#### A22
Theme: Clothes and confidence
Intensity: 3
Primary text: Would you enjoy your partner choosing an accessory for you to wear as a private signal between you?
Partner text: Would you enjoy choosing an accessory for your partner to wear as a private signal between you?
Theme: Clothes and confidence
Intensity: 3
Primary text: Would you enjoy your partner choosing an accessory for you to wear as a private signal between you?
Partner text: Would you enjoy choosing an accessory for your partner to wear as a private signal between you?
Intended outcome: The couple establishes a subtle shared signal using an accessory.
#### A23
Theme: Clothes and confidence
Intensity: 4
Primary text: Would you be up for your partner asking you to get ready slowly while they give you one sincere compliment at each step?
Partner text: Would you be up for asking your partner to get ready slowly while you give them one sincere compliment at each step?
Theme: Clothes and confidence
Intensity: 4
Primary text: Would you be up for your partner asking you to get ready slowly while they give you one sincere compliment at each step?
Partner text: Would you be up for asking your partner to get ready slowly while you give them one sincere compliment at each step?
Intended outcome: The proposer gives the receiver a paced confidence ritual before a night together.
#### A24
Theme: Clothes and confidence
Intensity: 3
Primary text: Would you like your partner to choose a 'stay in' outfit for you that feels intentionally different from everyday clothes?
Partner text: Would you like to choose a 'stay in' outfit for your partner that feels intentionally different from everyday clothes?
Theme: Clothes and confidence
Intensity: 3
Primary text: Would you like your partner to choose a 'stay in' outfit for you that feels intentionally different from everyday clothes?
Partner text: Would you like to choose a 'stay in' outfit for your partner that feels intentionally different from everyday clothes?
Intended outcome: The proposer selects a special at-home look for the receiver.
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#### A25
Theme: Fantasy exchange
Intensity: 2
Primary text: Would you like your partner to tell you about a fictional date they would plan for the two of you with no practical limits?
Partner text: Would you like to tell your partner about a fictional date you would plan for the two of you with no practical limits?
Theme: Fantasy exchange
Intensity: 2
Primary text: Would you like your partner to tell you about a fictional date they would plan for the two of you with no practical limits?
Partner text: Would you like to tell your partner about a fictional date you would plan for the two of you with no practical limits?
Intended outcome: The proposer shares an imaginative, romance-forward date scenario.
#### A26
Theme: Fantasy exchange
Intensity: 3
Primary text: Would you enjoy your partner writing a three-line scene about the two of you meeting as strangers in a glamorous place?
Partner text: Would you enjoy writing a three-line scene about you and your partner meeting as strangers in a glamorous place?
Theme: Fantasy exchange
Intensity: 3
Primary text: Would you enjoy your partner writing a three-line scene about the two of you meeting as strangers in a glamorous place?
Partner text: Would you enjoy writing a three-line scene about you and your partner meeting as strangers in a glamorous place?
Intended outcome: The couple gets a short shared fantasy prompt to discuss or play with.
#### A27
Theme: Fantasy exchange
Intensity: 3
Primary text: Would you be open to your partner asking what kind of attention makes you feel most wanted in an imagined scenario?
Partner text: Would you be open to asking your partner what kind of attention makes them feel most wanted in an imagined scenario?
Theme: Fantasy exchange
Intensity: 3
Primary text: Would you be open to your partner asking what kind of attention makes you feel most wanted in an imagined scenario?
Partner text: Would you be open to asking your partner what kind of attention makes them feel most wanted in an imagined scenario?
Intended outcome: The receiver names a preferred kind of romantic attention without needing to commit to it.
#### A28
Theme: Fantasy exchange
Intensity: 4
Primary text: Would you like your partner to propose a fictional version of tonight where they get to surprise you, and you choose the boundaries first?
Partner text: Would you like to propose a fictional version of tonight where you get to surprise your partner, and they choose the boundaries first?
Theme: Fantasy exchange
Intensity: 4
Primary text: Would you like your partner to propose a fictional version of tonight where they get to surprise you, and you choose the boundaries first?
Partner text: Would you like to propose a fictional version of tonight where you get to surprise your partner, and they choose the boundaries first?
Intended outcome: One partner proposes an agreed fantasy frame, with the receiver setting limits.
#### A29
Theme: Fantasy exchange
Intensity: 2
Primary text: Would you like your partner to invent a nickname for the more confident version of you?
Partner text: Would you like to invent a nickname for the more confident version of your partner?
Theme: Fantasy exchange
Intensity: 2
Primary text: Would you like your partner to invent a nickname for the more confident version of you?
Partner text: Would you like to invent a nickname for the more confident version of your partner?
Intended outcome: The couple creates a playful private identity cue.
#### A30
Theme: Fantasy exchange
Intensity: 3
Primary text: Would you enjoy your partner describing the setting of their ideal slow-burn evening with you?
Partner text: Would you enjoy describing the setting of your ideal slow-burn evening with your partner?
Theme: Fantasy exchange
Intensity: 3
Primary text: Would you enjoy your partner describing the setting of their ideal slow-burn evening with you?
Partner text: Would you enjoy describing the setting of your ideal slow-burn evening with your partner?
Intended outcome: The proposer shares a detailed atmosphere preference that can inform a future plan.
#### A31
Theme: Fantasy exchange
Intensity: 4
Primary text: Would you be open to your partner asking you what you would want them to take charge of in an imaginary evening?
Partner text: Would you be open to asking your partner what they would want you to take charge of in an imaginary evening?
Theme: Fantasy exchange
Intensity: 4
Primary text: Would you be open to your partner asking you what you would want them to take charge of in an imaginary evening?
Partner text: Would you be open to asking your partner what they would want you to take charge of in an imaginary evening?
Intended outcome: The receiver identifies one area of leadership they would welcome in fantasy.
#### A32
Theme: Fantasy exchange
Intensity: 3
Primary text: Would you like your partner to send you a private message that starts, 'If we had the whole evening to ourselves...' ?
Partner text: Would you like to send your partner a private message that starts, 'If we had the whole evening to ourselves...' ?
Theme: Fantasy exchange
Intensity: 3
Primary text: Would you like your partner to send you a private message that starts, 'If we had the whole evening to ourselves...' ?
Partner text: Would you like to send your partner a private message that starts, 'If we had the whole evening to ourselves...' ?
Intended outcome: The proposer sends an open-ended desire prompt for a private exchange.
#### A33
Theme: Roleplay
Intensity: 2
Primary text: Would you like your partner to pretend they are meeting you for the first time and ask you out again?
Partner text: Would you like to pretend you are meeting your partner for the first time and ask them out again?
Theme: Roleplay
Intensity: 2
Primary text: Would you like your partner to pretend they are meeting you for the first time and ask you out again?
Partner text: Would you like to pretend you are meeting your partner for the first time and ask them out again?
Intended outcome: The proposer recreates a first-meeting invitation in character.
#### A34
Theme: Roleplay
Intensity: 3
Primary text: Would you enjoy your partner taking the role of your personal host for an evening at home?
Partner text: Would you enjoy taking the role of your partner's personal host for an evening at home?
Theme: Roleplay
Intensity: 3
Primary text: Would you enjoy your partner taking the role of your personal host for an evening at home?
Partner text: Would you enjoy taking the role of your partner's personal host for an evening at home?
Intended outcome: One partner plans and hosts a dedicated private evening.
#### A35
Theme: Roleplay
Intensity: 3
Primary text: Would you be up for your partner acting as a confident stranger who has one hour to win you over?
Partner text: Would you be up for acting as a confident stranger who has one hour to win your partner over?
Theme: Roleplay
Intensity: 3
Primary text: Would you be up for your partner acting as a confident stranger who has one hour to win you over?
Partner text: Would you be up for acting as a confident stranger who has one hour to win your partner over?
Intended outcome: The proposer takes on a flirtatious stranger character during an agreed private scenario.
#### A36
Theme: Roleplay
Intensity: 4
Primary text: Would you like your partner to choose a role where they lead the conversation and you decide when to step out of character?
Partner text: Would you like to choose a role where you lead the conversation and your partner decides when to step out of character?
Theme: Roleplay
Intensity: 4
Primary text: Would you like your partner to choose a role where they lead the conversation and you decide when to step out of character?
Partner text: Would you like to choose a role where you lead the conversation and your partner decides when to step out of character?
Intended outcome: The proposer leads a consensual roleplay conversation with a clear exit controlled by the receiver.
#### A37
Theme: Roleplay
Intensity: 2
Primary text: Would you enjoy your partner writing you a pretend invitation to an exclusive event for two?
Partner text: Would you enjoy writing your partner a pretend invitation to an exclusive event for two?
Theme: Roleplay
Intensity: 2
Primary text: Would you enjoy your partner writing you a pretend invitation to an exclusive event for two?
Partner text: Would you enjoy writing your partner a pretend invitation to an exclusive event for two?
Intended outcome: The proposer creates a playful invitation that introduces a private date concept.
#### A38
Theme: Roleplay
Intensity: 3
Primary text: Would you like your partner to play the part of a stylist who gives you one confidence challenge for the evening?
Partner text: Would you like to play the part of a stylist who gives your partner one confidence challenge for the evening?
Theme: Roleplay
Intensity: 3
Primary text: Would you like your partner to play the part of a stylist who gives you one confidence challenge for the evening?
Partner text: Would you like to play the part of a stylist who gives your partner one confidence challenge for the evening?
Intended outcome: One partner sets a light, agreed confidence challenge in character.
#### A39
Theme: Roleplay
Intensity: 4
Primary text: Would you be open to your partner choosing a character who is bolder than they usually are, while you set the limits of the scene?
Partner text: Would you be open to choosing a character who is bolder than you usually are, while your partner sets the limits of the scene?
Theme: Roleplay
Intensity: 4
Primary text: Would you be open to your partner choosing a character who is bolder than they usually are, while you set the limits of the scene?
Partner text: Would you be open to choosing a character who is bolder than you usually are, while your partner sets the limits of the scene?
Intended outcome: The proposer explores a bolder role while the receiver sets the scene's boundaries.
#### A40
Theme: Settings and atmosphere
Intensity: 2
Primary text: Would you like your partner to turn one room into a date-night space before you arrive?
Partner text: Would you like to turn one room into a date-night space before your partner arrives?
Theme: Settings and atmosphere
Intensity: 2
Primary text: Would you like your partner to turn one room into a date-night space before you arrive?
Partner text: Would you like to turn one room into a date-night space before your partner arrives?
Intended outcome: The proposer prepares a distinct at-home setting for the receiver.
#### A41
Theme: Settings and atmosphere
Intensity: 3
Primary text: Would you enjoy your partner choosing a place in your home where you are not usually romantic and making it feel special?
Partner text: Would you enjoy choosing a place in your home where you and your partner are not usually romantic and making it feel special?
Theme: Settings and atmosphere
Intensity: 3
Primary text: Would you enjoy your partner choosing a place in your home where you are not usually romantic and making it feel special?
Partner text: Would you enjoy choosing a place in your home where you and your partner are not usually romantic and making it feel special?
Intended outcome: One partner transforms an ordinary indoor space into a deliberate romantic setting.
#### A42
Theme: Settings and atmosphere
Intensity: 3
Primary text: Would you like your partner to plan a candlelit late-night snack for the two of you after everything else is quiet?
Partner text: Would you like to plan a candlelit late-night snack for you and your partner after everything else is quiet?
Theme: Settings and atmosphere
Intensity: 3
Primary text: Would you like your partner to plan a candlelit late-night snack for the two of you after everything else is quiet?
Partner text: Would you like to plan a candlelit late-night snack for you and your partner after everything else is quiet?
Intended outcome: The proposer creates a calm, intimate-feeling post-evening ritual.
#### A43
Theme: Settings and atmosphere
Intensity: 4
Primary text: Would you be open to your partner arranging a private evening where your phones stay out of reach until you both agree to check them?
Partner text: Would you be open to arranging a private evening where your phones stay out of reach until you both agree to check them?
Theme: Settings and atmosphere
Intensity: 4
Primary text: Would you be open to your partner arranging a private evening where your phones stay out of reach until you both agree to check them?
Partner text: Would you be open to arranging a private evening where your phones stay out of reach until you both agree to check them?
Intended outcome: The couple agrees to protected, distraction-free private time.
#### A44
Theme: Settings and atmosphere
Intensity: 2
Primary text: Would you like your partner to choose the route for a slow evening walk that ends somewhere cosy?
Partner text: Would you like to choose the route for a slow evening walk that ends somewhere cosy with your partner?
Theme: Settings and atmosphere
Intensity: 2
Primary text: Would you like your partner to choose the route for a slow evening walk that ends somewhere cosy?
Partner text: Would you like to choose the route for a slow evening walk that ends somewhere cosy with your partner?
Intended outcome: The proposer directs a low-pressure shared walk toward a close setting.
#### A45
Theme: Settings and atmosphere
Intensity: 3
Primary text: Would you enjoy your partner planning a 'no agenda' hour where they only focus on making you feel looked after?
Partner text: Would you enjoy planning a 'no agenda' hour where you only focus on making your partner feel looked after?
Theme: Settings and atmosphere
Intensity: 3
Primary text: Would you enjoy your partner planning a 'no agenda' hour where they only focus on making you feel looked after?
Partner text: Would you enjoy planning a 'no agenda' hour where you only focus on making your partner feel looked after?
Intended outcome: One partner takes responsibility for a gentle, attentiveness-focused hour.
#### A46
Theme: Settings and atmosphere
Intensity: 4
Primary text: Would you like your partner to choose a private setting for a conversation about what would make tonight feel exciting to you?
Partner text: Would you like to choose a private setting for a conversation about what would make tonight feel exciting to your partner?
Theme: Settings and atmosphere
Intensity: 4
Primary text: Would you like your partner to choose a private setting for a conversation about what would make tonight feel exciting to you?
Partner text: Would you like to choose a private setting for a conversation about what would make tonight feel exciting to your partner?
Intended outcome: The proposer creates the conditions for a direct desire and boundaries conversation.
#### A47
Theme: Surprise and novelty
Intensity: 2
Primary text: Would you like your partner to leave you a sealed note with one romantic surprise inside?
Partner text: Would you like to leave your partner a sealed note with one romantic surprise inside?
Theme: Surprise and novelty
Intensity: 2
Primary text: Would you like your partner to leave you a sealed note with one romantic surprise inside?
Partner text: Would you like to leave your partner a sealed note with one romantic surprise inside?
Intended outcome: The proposer creates a small, consent-safe romantic surprise for the receiver.
#### A48
Theme: Surprise and novelty
Intensity: 3
Primary text: Would you enjoy your partner planning one part of your evening that they do not reveal until you have both agreed to begin?
Partner text: Would you enjoy planning one part of your evening that you do not reveal until you and your partner have both agreed to begin?
Theme: Surprise and novelty
Intensity: 3
Primary text: Would you enjoy your partner planning one part of your evening that they do not reveal until you have both agreed to begin?
Partner text: Would you enjoy planning one part of your evening that you do not reveal until you and your partner have both agreed to begin?
Intended outcome: One partner prepares a mutually agreed surprise element.
#### A49
Theme: Surprise and novelty
Intensity: 3
Primary text: Would you like your partner to give you a choice between two different kinds of close evening, without telling you which they hope you pick?
Partner text: Would you like to give your partner a choice between two different kinds of close evening, without telling them which you hope they pick?
Theme: Surprise and novelty
Intensity: 3
Primary text: Would you like your partner to give you a choice between two different kinds of close evening, without telling you which they hope you pick?
Partner text: Would you like to give your partner a choice between two different kinds of close evening, without telling them which you hope they pick?
Intended outcome: The couple uses a playful choice to reveal preferences and select a plan.
#### A50
Theme: Surprise and novelty
Intensity: 4
Primary text: Would you be open to your partner asking you to say yes to one surprise date-night detail, after they tell you the category but not the detail?
Partner text: Would you be open to asking your partner to say yes to one surprise date-night detail, after you tell them the category but not the detail?
Theme: Surprise and novelty
Intensity: 4
Primary text: Would you be open to your partner asking you to say yes to one surprise date-night detail, after they tell you the category but not the detail?
Partner text: Would you be open to asking your partner to say yes to one surprise date-night detail, after you tell them the category but not the detail?
Intended outcome: The receiver consents to a bounded surprise with enough information to choose safely.
#### A51
Theme: Surprise and novelty
Intensity: 2
Primary text: Would you like your partner to hide a clue somewhere at home that leads to a compliment from them?
Partner text: Would you like to hide a clue somewhere at home that leads your partner to a compliment from you?
Theme: Surprise and novelty
Intensity: 2
Primary text: Would you like your partner to hide a clue somewhere at home that leads to a compliment from them?
Partner text: Would you like to hide a clue somewhere at home that leads your partner to a compliment from you?
Intended outcome: The proposer creates a mini treasure hunt ending in affirmation.
#### A52
Theme: Surprise and novelty
Intensity: 3
Primary text: Would you enjoy your partner choosing a new shared ritual for the first ten minutes of date night?
Partner text: Would you enjoy choosing a new shared ritual for the first ten minutes of date night with your partner?
Theme: Surprise and novelty
Intensity: 3
Primary text: Would you enjoy your partner choosing a new shared ritual for the first ten minutes of date night?
Partner text: Would you enjoy choosing a new shared ritual for the first ten minutes of date night with your partner?
Intended outcome: The proposer introduces a repeatable opening ritual for intentional time together.
#### A53
Theme: Surprise and novelty
Intensity: 4
Primary text: Would you like your partner to surprise you with a confidence challenge that you can change or stop at any point?
Partner text: Would you like to surprise your partner with a confidence challenge that they can change or stop at any point?
Theme: Surprise and novelty
Intensity: 4
Primary text: Would you like your partner to surprise you with a confidence challenge that you can change or stop at any point?
Partner text: Would you like to surprise your partner with a confidence challenge that they can change or stop at any point?
Intended outcome: The proposer offers a novel confidence prompt with explicit receiver control.
#### A54
Theme: Long-distance desire
Intensity: 2
Primary text: Would you like your partner to send you a voice note describing the first thing they want to do when you next have time alone together?
Partner text: Would you like to send your partner a voice note describing the first thing you want to do when you next have time alone together?
Theme: Long-distance desire
Intensity: 2
Primary text: Would you like your partner to send you a voice note describing the first thing they want to do when you next have time alone together?
Partner text: Would you like to send your partner a voice note describing the first thing you want to do when you next have time alone together?
Intended outcome: The proposer shares an anticipation-building voice message for the next reunion.
#### A55
Theme: Long-distance desire
Intensity: 3
Primary text: Would you enjoy your partner planning a video-date mood for you to join from wherever you are?
Partner text: Would you enjoy planning a video-date mood for your partner to join from wherever they are?
Theme: Long-distance desire
Intensity: 3
Primary text: Would you enjoy your partner planning a video-date mood for you to join from wherever you are?
Partner text: Would you enjoy planning a video-date mood for your partner to join from wherever they are?
Intended outcome: One partner sets a shared remote date atmosphere.
#### A56
Theme: Long-distance desire
Intensity: 3
Primary text: Would you like your partner to send you a message telling you what they miss most about being close to you?
Partner text: Would you like to send your partner a message telling them what you miss most about being close to them?
Theme: Long-distance desire
Intensity: 3
Primary text: Would you like your partner to send you a message telling you what they miss most about being close to you?
Partner text: Would you like to send your partner a message telling them what you miss most about being close to them?
Intended outcome: The receiver gets a specific intimacy-adjacent expression of longing.
#### A57
Theme: Long-distance desire
Intensity: 4
Primary text: Would you be open to your partner arranging a private call where you both say one thing you hope to explore together when you reunite?
Partner text: Would you be open to arranging a private call where you both say one thing you hope to explore together when you reunite?
Theme: Long-distance desire
Intensity: 4
Primary text: Would you be open to your partner arranging a private call where you both say one thing you hope to explore together when you reunite?
Partner text: Would you be open to arranging a private call where you both say one thing you hope to explore together when you reunite?
Intended outcome: The couple holds a mutual, forward-looking conversation about agreed future intimacy.
#### A58
Theme: Long-distance desire
Intensity: 2
Primary text: Would you like your partner to send you a photo of something that reminds them of your chemistry?
Partner text: Would you like to send your partner a photo of something that reminds you of your chemistry?
Theme: Long-distance desire
Intensity: 2
Primary text: Would you like your partner to send you a photo of something that reminds them of your chemistry?
Partner text: Would you like to send your partner a photo of something that reminds you of your chemistry?
Intended outcome: The proposer shares a safe visual cue connected to their relationship.
#### A59
Theme: Long-distance desire
Intensity: 3
Primary text: Would you enjoy your partner choosing a song for you to listen to at the same time from different places?
Partner text: Would you enjoy choosing a song for you and your partner to listen to at the same time from different places?
Theme: Long-distance desire
Intensity: 3
Primary text: Would you enjoy your partner choosing a song for you to listen to at the same time from different places?
Partner text: Would you enjoy choosing a song for you and your partner to listen to at the same time from different places?
Intended outcome: The pair creates a synchronized remote closeness ritual.
#### A60
Theme: Long-distance desire
Intensity: 4
Primary text: Would you like your partner to ask you for one honest promise about how you will make time for each other when distance ends?
Partner text: Would you like to ask your partner for one honest promise about how you will make time for each other when distance ends?
Theme: Long-distance desire
Intensity: 4
Primary text: Would you like your partner to ask you for one honest promise about how you will make time for each other when distance ends?
Partner text: Would you like to ask your partner for one honest promise about how you will make time for each other when distance ends?
Intended outcome: The couple makes a concrete reunion-intent commitment.
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