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"review_status": "draft", "policy_risk": "low", "intended_outcome": "The proposer shares an imaginative, romance-forward date scenario." }, { "id": "7fb5a3e0-7647-4e92-83f7-b5081f050e80", "pack_slug": "fantasy-exchange", "text": "Tell your partner about a fictional date you would plan for the two of you with no practical limits.", "partner_text": "Let your partner tell you about a fictional date they would plan for the two of you with no practical limits.", "intensity": 2, "question_type": "swipe", "config": {}, "allowed_couple_genders": null, "target_user_genders": null, "required_props": null, "inverse_of": "026abea8-51ac-43c1-8ef4-59f4b6bc03f2", "review_status": "draft", "policy_risk": "low", "intended_outcome": "The proposer shares an imaginative, romance-forward date scenario." }, { "id": "5e858d42-c5c8-4020-80c8-8f50de22f454", "pack_slug": "fantasy-exchange", "text": "Let your partner write a three-line scene about the two of you meeting as strangers in a glamorous place.", "partner_text": "Write a three-line scene about you and your partner meeting as strangers in a glamorous place.", "intensity": 3, "question_type": "swipe", "config": {}, "allowed_couple_genders": null, "target_user_genders": null, "required_props": null, "inverse_of": null, "review_status": "draft", "policy_risk": "low", "intended_outcome": "The couple gets a short shared fantasy prompt to discuss or play with." }, { "id": "0e7fe37c-0155-4321-87f1-e7ab41f743d3", "pack_slug": "fantasy-exchange", "text": "Write a three-line scene about you and your partner meeting as strangers in a glamorous place.", "partner_text": "Let your partner write a three-line scene about the two of you meeting as strangers in a glamorous place.", "intensity": 3, "question_type": "swipe", "config": {}, "allowed_couple_genders": null, "target_user_genders": null, "required_props": null, "inverse_of": "5e858d42-c5c8-4020-80c8-8f50de22f454", "review_status": "draft", "policy_risk": "low", "intended_outcome": "The 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"Send your partner a private message that starts, 'If we had the whole evening to ourselves...' .", "partner_text": "Let your partner send you a private message that starts, 'If we had the whole evening to ourselves...' .", "intensity": 3, "question_type": "swipe", "config": {}, "allowed_couple_genders": null, "target_user_genders": null, "required_props": null, "inverse_of": "acdfa262-df2f-4de1-8430-456d0f6d9b77", "review_status": "draft", "policy_risk": "low", "intended_outcome": "The proposer sends an open-ended desire prompt for a private exchange." }, { "id": "8c30fb8b-f87e-4809-8c7b-c4a45362fbdb", "pack_slug": "roleplay", "text": "Let your partner pretend they are meeting you for the first time and ask you out again.", "partner_text": "Pretend you are meeting your partner for the first time and ask them out again.", "intensity": 2, "question_type": "swipe", "config": {}, "allowed_couple_genders": null, "target_user_genders": null, "required_props": null, "inverse_of": null, 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"settings-atmosphere", "text": "Choose a place in your home where you and your partner are not usually romantic and make it feel special.", "partner_text": "Let your partner choose a place in your home where you are not usually romantic and make it feel special.", "intensity": 3, "question_type": "swipe", "config": {}, "allowed_couple_genders": null, "target_user_genders": null, "required_props": null, "inverse_of": "28fbf20b-b0a0-4003-8a21-ebe58ad55d3b", "review_status": "draft", "policy_risk": "low", "intended_outcome": "One partner transforms an ordinary indoor space into a deliberate romantic setting." }, { "id": "c345d9f0-83e9-45cd-8ef4-4d57b2f45f6e", "pack_slug": "settings-atmosphere", "text": "Let your partner plan a candlelit late-night snack for the two of you after everything else is quiet.", "partner_text": "Plan a candlelit late-night snack for you and your partner after everything else is quiet.", "intensity": 3, "question_type": "swipe", "config": {}, 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{ "id": "90c482ff-1ddc-4ad0-83de-9f7cc12988d0", "pack_slug": "boundaries-check-ins", "text": "Discuss one private boundary you want honoured before exploring a more intense idea.", "partner_text": null, "intensity": 4, "question_type": "swipe", "config": {}, "allowed_couple_genders": null, "target_user_genders": null, "required_props": null, "inverse_of": null, "review_status": "draft", "policy_risk": "edge", "intended_outcome": "Both partners agree to state a firm limit before escalating." }, { "id": "84108a1f-c1c4-4ff1-8bf1-8703b3d61753", "pack_slug": "aftercare-reconnection", "text": "Tell each other how you most like to reconnect after a private date.", "partner_text": null, "intensity": 2, "question_type": "swipe", "config": {}, "allowed_couple_genders": null, "target_user_genders": null, "required_props": null, "inverse_of": null, "review_status": "draft", "policy_risk": "low", "intended_outcome": "Both partners agree to share their preferred reconnection style." }, { "id": 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{ "id": "93113077-4b91-4dcb-8043-3f5ce016423d", "pack_slug": "giving-receiving-attention", "text": "Take turns asking for the kind of private attention you most want.", "partner_text": null, "intensity": 3, "question_type": "swipe", "config": {}, "allowed_couple_genders": null, "target_user_genders": null, "required_props": null, "inverse_of": null, "review_status": "draft", "policy_risk": "low", "intended_outcome": "Both partners agree to voice a specific desire and respond to it." }, { "id": "60885dd2-c40c-4aa3-8b47-c145340f34e8", "pack_slug": "giving-receiving-attention", "text": "Give each other a turn where one person only receives and the other only gives attention.", "partner_text": null, "intensity": 3, "question_type": "swipe", "config": {}, "allowed_couple_genders": null, "target_user_genders": null, "required_props": null, "inverse_of": null, "review_status": "draft", "policy_risk": "low", "intended_outcome": "Both partners want reciprocal focused giving and receiving." }, { "id": "d7cadbc0-7364-4460-8d34-f58c899f6d0f", "pack_slug": "giving-receiving-attention", "text": "Tell each other one way you want to feel desired, then make space for both requests.", "partner_text": null, "intensity": 4, "question_type": "swipe", "config": {}, "allowed_couple_genders": null, "target_user_genders": null, "required_props": null, "inverse_of": null, "review_status": "draft", "policy_risk": "edge", "intended_outcome": "Both partners agree to make each other feel desired in individually meaningful ways." }, { "id": "32ee31a5-1f30-4642-818f-23147085806a", "pack_slug": "giving-receiving-attention", "text": "Take turns creating a private experience centred entirely on the other person’s enjoyment.", "partner_text": null, "intensity": 4, "question_type": "swipe", "config": {}, "allowed_couple_genders": null, "target_user_genders": null, "required_props": null, "inverse_of": null, "review_status": "draft", "policy_risk": "edge", "intended_outcome": "Both partners want to 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scent cue for an upcoming date night." }, { "id": "81675895-acc1-4130-8416-95a81cde2d02", "pack_slug": "sensory-cues", "text": "Choose a song for your partner to hear with their eyes closed before a date.", "partner_text": "Listen with your eyes closed to a song your partner chose before a date.", "intensity": 3, "question_type": "swipe", "config": {}, "allowed_couple_genders": null, "target_user_genders": null, "required_props": null, "inverse_of": null, "review_status": "draft", "policy_risk": "low", "intended_outcome": "One partner chooses a focused listening cue and the other accepts the invitation to receive it." }, { "id": "4616a26b-c703-476b-837c-d0d0289e1eba", "pack_slug": "sensory-cues", "text": "Create a five-sound playlist designed to help your partner relax.", "partner_text": "Listen to the five-sound playlist your partner created to help you relax.", "intensity": 3, "question_type": "swipe", "config": {}, "allowed_couple_genders": null, "target_user_genders": null, "required_props": null, "inverse_of": null, "review_status": "draft", "policy_risk": "low", "intended_outcome": "One partner creates a calming sound cue and the other receives a personal atmosphere plan." }, { "id": "5ac75495-2d84-42d0-8117-f12219db00d5", "pack_slug": "sensory-cues", "text": "Lead ten quiet minutes together, then invite your partner to say how it felt.", "partner_text": "Let your partner lead ten quiet minutes together, then tell them how it felt.", "intensity": 4, "question_type": "swipe", "config": {}, "allowed_couple_genders": null, "target_user_genders": null, "required_props": null, "inverse_of": null, "review_status": "draft", "policy_risk": "edge", "intended_outcome": "One partner sets a quiet pace and the other agrees to reflect on the experience afterward." }, { "id": "99afc3b9-779a-43d5-87f1-dea81e9a4130", "pack_slug": "private-performance", "text": "Give your partner a dramatic, affectionate introduction.", "partner_text": "Receive a dramatic, affectionate 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"private-performance", "text": "Write a short note about what makes a date feel exciting and read it to your partner.", "partner_text": "Hear your partner read a short note about what makes a date feel exciting.", "intensity": 3, "question_type": "swipe", "config": {}, "allowed_couple_genders": null, "target_user_genders": null, "required_props": null, "inverse_of": null, "review_status": "draft", "policy_risk": "low", "intended_outcome": "One partner shares a personal source of anticipation and the other receives it directly." }, { "id": "ef004056-c670-4ccb-86eb-0504ab20a37b", "pack_slug": "private-performance", "text": "Lead a five-minute close moment while your partner can pause it.", "partner_text": "Let your partner lead a five-minute close moment while you can pause it.", "intensity": 4, "question_type": "swipe", "config": {}, "allowed_couple_genders": null, "target_user_genders": null, "required_props": null, "inverse_of": null, "review_status": "draft", "policy_risk": "edge", 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"target_user_genders": null, "required_props": null, "review_status": "draft", "pack_slug": "boundaries-check-ins", "text": "Who is more likely to turn a boundary into a better plan?", "partner_text": null, "intensity": 4, "question_type": "who_likely", "config": {}, "inverse_of": null, "policy_risk": "edge", "intended_outcome": "The couple gets a playful comparison about who is more likely to turn a boundary into a better plan." }, { "id": "a4d443de-bf1d-41e3-85a3-dac3da03c6ab", "allowed_couple_genders": null, "target_user_genders": null, "required_props": null, "review_status": "draft", "pack_slug": "flirty-communication", "text": "Who is more likely to suggest a private confidence boost?", "partner_text": null, "intensity": 4, "question_type": "who_likely", "config": {}, "inverse_of": null, "policy_risk": "edge", "intended_outcome": "The couple gets a playful comparison about who is more likely to suggest a private confidence boost." }, { "id": 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"intended_outcome": "One partner chooses a focused listening cue and the other accepts the invitation to receive it." }, { "id": "59d0c220-6464-485f-8a62-04560dad04e5", "pack_slug": "sensory-cues", "text": "Listen to the five-sound playlist your partner created to help you relax.", "partner_text": "Create a five-sound playlist designed to help your partner relax.", "intensity": 3, "question_type": "swipe", "config": {}, "allowed_couple_genders": null, "target_user_genders": null, "required_props": null, "inverse_of": "4616a26b-c703-476b-837c-d0d0289e1eba", "review_status": "draft", "policy_risk": "low", "intended_outcome": "One partner creates a calming sound cue and the other receives a personal atmosphere plan." }, { "id": "b24f30ff-5d34-4fc7-8734-9ffabd67dfe9", "pack_slug": "sensory-cues", "text": "Let your partner lead ten quiet minutes together, then tell them how it felt.", "partner_text": "Lead ten quiet minutes together, then invite your partner to say how it felt.", 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null, "inverse_of": "bd35ebb6-8b78-4b77-8bea-e782dc9dac15", "review_status": "draft", "policy_risk": "low", "intended_outcome": "One partner shares a personal source of anticipation and the other receives it directly." }, { "id": "18bb8a37-80b2-473b-8b60-44444762f7f2", "pack_slug": "private-performance", "text": "Let your partner lead a five-minute close moment while you can pause it.", "partner_text": "Lead a five-minute close moment while your partner can pause it.", "intensity": 4, "question_type": "swipe", "config": {}, "allowed_couple_genders": null, "target_user_genders": null, "required_props": null, "inverse_of": "ef004056-c670-4ccb-86eb-0504ab20a37b", "review_status": "draft", "policy_risk": "edge", "intended_outcome": "One partner takes a brief lead while the other retains a clear option to pause." }, { "id": "7bdb1217-55fa-4172-84d5-cc6fa5875bac", "pack_slug": "clothes-confidence", "text": "Wear the small style detail your partner chose for your next date-night look.", "partner_text": "Choose one small style detail for your partner’s next date-night look.", "intensity": 2, "question_type": "swipe", "config": {}, "allowed_couple_genders": null, "target_user_genders": null, "required_props": null, "inverse_of": "c1f81833-1668-4b34-8a46-1f0e04dce0bf", "review_status": "draft", "policy_risk": "low", "intended_outcome": "One partner suggests a playful style detail and the other chooses whether to wear it." } ] }