feat: add catchup and unpaired reminder notifications

Add automatic push notifications for behind partners (escalating: 24h then
every 3 days) and daily unpaired user reminders. Includes edge functions,
migrations, notification preference toggles, and UI improvements to pairing
and swipe screens.

.claude/commands/generate-pack.md

@@ -1,6 +1,6 @@
 ---
 allowed-tools: Read, mcp__sauci-prod__execute_sql, mcp__sauci-prod__list_tables
-argument-hint: <pack-name> --category=<category> --intensity=<min-max> [--count=30] [--premium]
+argument-hint: <pack-name> --category=<category> [--count=30] [--premium] [--types=swipe,who_likely,audio,photo]
 description: Generate a question pack for Sauci following established content guidelines
 ---
 
@@ -18,6 +18,7 @@ First, read the pack generation guidelines:
 - Existing categories: can be retrieved from supabase with query: SELECT name, id FROM categories ORDER BY sort_order
 - Existing packs in target category: Will query once category is identified
 - Existing props: can be retrieved with: SELECT DISTINCT unnest(required_props) as prop FROM questions WHERE required_props IS NOT NULL ORDER BY prop
+- Current question type distribution in target pack (if adding to existing): SELECT question_type, count(*) FROM questions WHERE pack_id = '[pack_id]' AND deleted_at IS NULL GROUP BY question_type
 
 ## Task
 
@@ -28,26 +29,28 @@ Generate a complete question pack following all Sauci content guidelines.
 Extract from $ARGUMENTS:
 - **Pack name**: Required - the name for this pack
 - **Category**: Required - which category this belongs to (or "new" to create)
-- **Intensity range**: Required - e.g., "2-3", "3-4", "4-5"
 - **Question count**: Optional - default 30, can be 25-50
 - **Premium**: Optional flag - if pack should be premium
+- **Types**: Optional - comma-separated question types to generate. Default: `swipe,who_likely,audio,photo`. Options: `swipe`, `who_likely`, `audio`, `photo`
 
 ### Step 2: Understand Context
 
-1. If category exists, query existing packs to understand progression:
+1. If category exists, query existing packs to understand what's there:
    - What packs already exist?
-   - What intensity levels are covered?
-   - Where does this new pack fit in the progression?
+   - What question types are represented?
+   - Where does this new pack fit?
 
 2. Check if category is explicit:
    ```sql
    SELECT id, name, is_explicit FROM categories WHERE name ILIKE '%<category>%';
    ```
 
-3. If new category, establish the progression plan:
-   - What will the beginner pack cover?
-   - What will intermediate cover?
-   - What will advanced cover?
+3. Check the current type distribution if adding to an existing pack:
+   ```sql
+   SELECT question_type, count(*) FROM questions
+   WHERE pack_id = '[pack_id]' AND deleted_at IS NULL
+   GROUP BY question_type ORDER BY count DESC;
+   ```
 
 ### Step 3: Generate Questions
 
@@ -74,9 +77,60 @@ Follow these rules strictly:
 **For NON-EXPLICIT categories (is_explicit = false):**
 - CRITICAL: No sexual acts, crude language, or NSFW content
 - Keep language romantic, sensual, or playful without graphic terms
-- If intensity 3+ activities are needed, use suggestive but not explicit language
 
-#### 3.3 Partner Text Rules
+#### 3.3 Question Types
+
+Each question MUST have a `question_type`. The default mix should include variety across types.
+
+**`swipe`** (default) - Standard yes/no/maybe proposal
+- The classic Sauci format
+- Can be symmetric or asymmetric (with partner_text + inverse)
+- Example: "Give your partner a back massage"
+
+**`who_likely`** - "Who's more likely to..." format
+- ALWAYS symmetric (partner_text = NULL, no inverse needed)
+- Both partners pick who they think is more likely
+- Match created when both answer
+- Format: "Who is more likely to [activity/trait]?"
+- Keep fun and lighthearted — these are conversation starters
+- Examples:
+  - "Who is more likely to cry during a movie?"
+  - "Who is more likely to plan a surprise date?"
+  - "Who is more likely to fall asleep first?"
+
+**`audio`** - Voice recording prompt
+- ALWAYS symmetric (partner_text = NULL, no inverse needed)
+- Partners record a voice message in response
+- `config`: `{"max_duration_seconds": 60}` (default 60)
+- Great for: confessions, storytelling, impressions, compliments, singing
+- Format: prompts that invite a spoken response
+- Examples:
+  - "Record your best impression of your partner"
+  - "Describe your favourite memory together"
+  - "Say something you've never told your partner"
+
+**`photo`** - Photo prompt
+- ALWAYS symmetric (partner_text = NULL, no inverse needed)
+- Partners take or share a photo in response
+- No special config needed
+- Great for: selfies, throwbacks, showing something, creative challenges
+- Format: prompts that invite a photo response
+- Examples:
+  - "Share a photo from your camera roll that makes you think of your partner"
+  - "Take a selfie showing how you feel right now"
+  - "Share a screenshot of your last text about your partner"
+
+#### 3.4 Type Distribution Guidelines
+
+For a standard 30-question pack, aim for roughly:
+- **20-22 swipe** questions (the core experience)
+- **4-5 who_likely** questions
+- **2-3 audio** questions
+- **2-3 photo** questions
+
+Adjust based on what fits the pack's theme. Some packs may lean heavier on certain types.
+
+#### 3.5 Partner Text Rules (swipe questions only)
 
 - **NULL** for symmetric activities (both partners do the same thing together)
 - **Filled** for asymmetric activities (one does something to/for the other)
@@ -91,9 +145,11 @@ Follow these rules strictly:
 - BAD: "Receive oral from your partner" (clinical)
 - GOOD: "Let your partner pleasure you with their mouth" (enticing)
 
-#### 3.4 Critical: Inverse Questions and Database Linking
+#### 3.6 Critical: Inverse Questions and Database Linking (swipe questions only)
 
-For EVERY asymmetric question, create its inverse AND link them using the `inverse_of` column:
+Non-swipe types (who_likely, audio, photo) are ALWAYS symmetric — no inverse needed.
+
+For EVERY asymmetric **swipe** question, create its inverse AND link them using the `inverse_of` column:
 
 ```
 Original (PRIMARY - inverse_of = NULL):
@@ -114,12 +170,9 @@ This ensures:
 2. The database tracks which questions are inverses of each other
 3. Accurate unique question counts (200 questions = 100 unique concepts with inverses)
 
-**Database Schema:**
-- `inverse_of` column: UUID referencing the primary question's ID
-- Primary questions have `inverse_of = NULL`
-- Inverse questions have `inverse_of = <primary_question_id>`
+#### 3.7 Intensity Guidelines
 
-#### 3.5 Intensity Guidelines
+Each question still needs an `intensity` value (1-5) for backend filtering, even though it's not shown in the UI.
 
 | Level | Name | Description | Examples |
 |-------|------|-------------|----------|
@@ -129,7 +182,7 @@ This ensures:
 | 4 | Steamy | Explicit sex, moderate adventure | intercourse, light bondage, anal play |
 | 5 | Intense | Advanced/BDSM/extreme | impact play, power dynamics, taboo kinks |
 
-#### 3.6 Targeting Rules
+#### 3.8 Targeting Rules
 
 **Couple Targeting (allowed_couple_genders):**
 - DEFAULT: null (ALL couples) unless explicit anatomical requirement
@@ -140,19 +193,13 @@ This ensures:
 
 **Initiator Targeting (target_user_genders):**
 - DEFAULT: null (anyone can initiate)
-- Only for asymmetric questions (those with partner_text)
-- Set based on who does the action in "text" field:
-  - "Swallow your partner's cum" -> partner has penis -> initiator: `['female']` in M+F couples
-  - "Deep throat your partner" -> partner has penis -> `['female']` in M+F couples
-  - "Give your partner a massage" -> gender-neutral -> null
+- Only for asymmetric swipe questions (those with partner_text)
+- Set based on who does the action in "text" field
 - When in doubt, use null
 
-**Anatomical Consistency:**
-- NEVER mix male-specific and female-specific acts as alternatives
-- BAD: "Finger or give your partner a handjob" (mixed anatomy)
-- GOOD: Pick one activity per question
+**Note:** who_likely, audio, and photo questions are always NULL for both targeting fields (they're symmetric and gender-neutral).
 
-#### 3.7 Required Props
+#### 3.9 Required Props
 
 Identify physical items/accessories needed:
 - Props are items like: blindfold, remote vibrator, handcuffs, massage oil, ice cubes
@@ -167,15 +214,22 @@ Before outputting, verify each question against this checklist:
 
 **Language & Format:**
 - [ ] Uses "your partner" (no gendered pronouns)
-- [ ] Is a proposal, not an interview question
+- [ ] Swipe questions are proposals, not interview questions
 - [ ] No wishy-washy language
 - [ ] No time-specific words
 - [ ] 5-12 words (concise)
 - [ ] No cheesy/cliche language
 - [ ] Varied sentence structures
 
+**Question Types:**
+- [ ] who_likely questions use "Who is more likely to..." format
+- [ ] audio questions prompt a natural spoken response
+- [ ] photo questions prompt something visual and shareable
+- [ ] Non-swipe types have partner_text = NULL and no inverse
+- [ ] Type distribution is balanced (see 3.4)
+
 **Structure:**
-- [ ] All asymmetric questions have inverses (these are NOT duplicates - they're required pairs)
+- [ ] All asymmetric swipe questions have inverses (these are NOT duplicates - they're required pairs)
 - [ ] Partner text is appealing (not clinical)
 - [ ] Partner text frames responses as "allowing" not forced
 - [ ] No actual duplicates (same `text` appearing twice)
@@ -190,7 +244,7 @@ Before outputting, verify each question against this checklist:
 **Consistency:**
 - [ ] No mixed anatomy in alternatives
 - [ ] Tone matches explicit/non-explicit category
-- [ ] Fits progression within category
+- [ ] Fits within the category
 
 ### Step 5: Output
 
@@ -207,55 +261,50 @@ VALUES (
 )
 RETURNING id;
 
--- Then insert questions with inverse_of linking
--- For inverse pairs: insert primary first (inverse_of = NULL), then inverse pointing to primary
+-- Then insert questions
+-- For swipe inverse pairs: insert primary first (inverse_of = NULL), then inverse pointing to primary
 
--- Generate UUIDs for inverse pairs upfront
--- Pair 1: Primary and its inverse
+-- Swipe pair example
 WITH pair1_primary AS (
-  INSERT INTO questions (pack_id, text, partner_text, intensity, inverse_of)
-  VALUES ('[pack_id]', 'Spank your partner', 'Be spanked by your partner', 3, NULL)
+  INSERT INTO questions (pack_id, text, partner_text, intensity, question_type, config, inverse_of)
+  VALUES ('[pack_id]', 'Spank your partner', 'Be spanked by your partner', 3, 'swipe', '{}', NULL)
   RETURNING id
 )
-INSERT INTO questions (pack_id, text, partner_text, intensity, inverse_of)
-SELECT '[pack_id]', 'Be spanked by your partner', 'Spank your partner', 3, id
+INSERT INTO questions (pack_id, text, partner_text, intensity, question_type, config, inverse_of)
+SELECT '[pack_id]', 'Be spanked by your partner', 'Spank your partner', 3, 'swipe', '{}', id
 FROM pair1_primary;
 
--- Symmetric questions (no inverse_of needed)
-INSERT INTO questions (pack_id, text, partner_text, intensity, allowed_couple_genders, target_user_genders, required_props, inverse_of) VALUES
-('[pack_id]', 'Symmetric question text', NULL, 2, NULL, NULL, NULL, NULL);
+-- Symmetric swipe (no inverse needed)
+INSERT INTO questions (pack_id, text, partner_text, intensity, question_type, config, inverse_of) VALUES
+('[pack_id]', 'Cook dinner together', NULL, 1, 'swipe', '{}', NULL);
 
--- Or bulk insert with explicit UUIDs for pairs:
-INSERT INTO questions (id, pack_id, text, partner_text, intensity, inverse_of) VALUES
--- Pair 1
-('uuid-primary-1', '[pack_id]', 'Give your partner a massage', 'Receive a massage from your partner', 2, NULL),
-('uuid-inverse-1', '[pack_id]', 'Receive a massage from your partner', 'Give your partner a massage', 2, 'uuid-primary-1'),
--- Pair 2
-('uuid-primary-2', '[pack_id]', 'Blindfold your partner', 'Be blindfolded by your partner', 3, NULL),
-('uuid-inverse-2', '[pack_id]', 'Be blindfolded by your partner', 'Blindfold your partner', 3, 'uuid-primary-2'),
--- Symmetric (no pair)
-(gen_random_uuid(), '[pack_id]', 'Cook dinner together', NULL, 1, NULL);
+-- who_likely questions (always symmetric, no inverse)
+INSERT INTO questions (pack_id, text, partner_text, intensity, question_type, config, inverse_of) VALUES
+('[pack_id]', 'Who is more likely to plan a surprise date?', NULL, 1, 'who_likely', '{}', NULL),
+('[pack_id]', 'Who is more likely to cry during a movie?', NULL, 1, 'who_likely', '{}', NULL);
+
+-- audio questions (always symmetric, no inverse)
+INSERT INTO questions (pack_id, text, partner_text, intensity, question_type, config, inverse_of) VALUES
+('[pack_id]', 'Describe your favourite memory together', NULL, 1, 'audio', '{"max_duration_seconds": 60}', NULL),
+('[pack_id]', 'Record your best impression of your partner', NULL, 1, 'audio', '{"max_duration_seconds": 60}', NULL);
+
+-- photo questions (always symmetric, no inverse)
+INSERT INTO questions (pack_id, text, partner_text, intensity, question_type, config, inverse_of) VALUES
+('[pack_id]', 'Share a photo that makes you think of your partner', NULL, 1, 'photo', '{}', NULL);
 ```
 
-**Field notes:**
-- `inverse_of`: NULL for primary/symmetric questions, UUID of primary question for inverses
-- `allowed_couple_genders`: NULL for all couples, or array like `ARRAY['male+male', 'female+male']`
-- `target_user_genders`: NULL for any initiator, or array like `ARRAY['female']`
-- `required_props`: NULL if no props needed, or array like `ARRAY['blindfold', 'ice cubes']`
-
 Also provide a summary table:
 
 | Metric | Value |
 |--------|-------|
 | Total questions | X |
 | Unique question concepts | X (total - inverse count) |
-| Intensity 1 | X |
-| Intensity 2 | X |
-| Intensity 3 | X |
-| Intensity 4 | X |
-| Intensity 5 | X |
+| Swipe questions | X |
+| who_likely questions | X |
+| audio questions | X |
+| photo questions | X |
 | Symmetric (null partner_text) | X |
-| Asymmetric pairs (with inverse_of links) | X pairs (X questions) |
+| Asymmetric swipe pairs (with inverse_of links) | X pairs (X questions) |
 | With couple targeting | X |
 | With initiator targeting | X |
 | With required props | X |
@@ -263,21 +312,24 @@ Also provide a summary table:
 ## Example Usage
 
 ```
-/generate-pack "Testing the Waters" --category="Public Thrills" --intensity=2-3 --count=30
-/generate-pack "Kink Discovery" --category="The Kink Lab" --intensity=3-5 --count=50
-/generate-pack "Staying Close" --category=new:"Long Distance" --intensity=1 --count=30
+/generate-pack "Testing the Waters" --category="Public Thrills" --count=30
+/generate-pack "Kink Discovery" --category="The Kink Lab" --count=50 --premium
+/generate-pack "Staying Close" --category=new:"Long Distance" --count=30
+/generate-pack "Date Night" --category="Quality Time" --types=who_likely,audio,photo
 ```
 
 ## Guidelines
 
 - DO ask clarifying questions if the pack concept is unclear
 - DO check existing packs in the category first
-- DO create inverse questions for ALL asymmetric content AND link them with inverse_of
+- DO create inverse questions for ALL asymmetric swipe content AND link them with inverse_of
+- DO include a mix of question types (swipe, who_likely, audio, photo)
 - DO vary sentence structure and openers
 - DO use the inverse_of column to link inverse pairs (inverse points to primary's UUID)
 - DON'T use cheesy or cliche language
 - DON'T assume heterosexual couples
-- DON'T skip the inverse question requirement
-- DON'T forget to set inverse_of - this is how we track unique question concepts
+- DON'T skip the inverse question requirement for asymmetric swipe questions
+- DON'T create inverses for who_likely, audio, or photo questions (they're always symmetric)
+- DON'T forget to set question_type - every question needs one
 - DON'T use interview-style questions ("Would you like to...")
 - DON'T treat inverse pairs as duplicates - they are REQUIRED (one's `text` = other's `partner_text`)

AGENTS.md

@@ -5,3 +5,17 @@
 - npm run lint
 - npm run typecheck
 - npm run build
+
+## Database Migrations - MANDATORY RULES
+
+**NEVER use `mcp__sauci-prod__apply_migration` or `mcp__sauci-non-prod__apply_migration`.** These create migration records in the remote database without local files, which breaks CI/CD deployments.
+
+**NEVER run DDL (`CREATE`, `ALTER`, `DROP`) via `mcp__*__execute_sql`.** This changes the schema with no migration tracking.
+
+**All schema changes must be local migration files:**
+1. Run `supabase migration new <name>` to create the file
+2. Edit the file in `apps/supabase/migrations/`
+3. Use idempotent SQL (`IF NOT EXISTS`, `CREATE OR REPLACE`)
+4. Commit the file — CI deploys it automatically
+
+**`execute_sql` is ONLY for SELECT queries.** No exceptions.

CLAUDE.md

@@ -67,36 +67,63 @@ When using Claude Code with MCP tools:
 - Use `mcp__sauci-non-prod__*` tools for development/staging database operations
 - **Always verify which environment you're targeting before running destructive operations**
 
-### Database Migrations - IMPORTANT
+### Database Migrations - CRITICAL
 
-**NEVER use MCP tools (`apply_migration`) for database migrations.** Always use the Supabase CLI instead.
+> **STOP: Read this entire section before making ANY database schema change.**
 
-**Why:** MCP migrations are tracked in the database but do NOT create local migration files. This means:
-- Migration history is not committed to git
-- Other developers won't get the schema changes
-- `supabase db reset` won't include MCP-applied migrations
-- Changes cannot be reproduced from scratch
+#### The Golden Rule
+
+**ALL schema changes MUST go through local migration files.** No exceptions.
+
+#### Forbidden Actions
+
+- **NEVER call `apply_migration` via MCP** (either `mcp__sauci-prod__apply_migration` or `mcp__sauci-non-prod__apply_migration`). This creates migration entries in the remote database with NO local file, which breaks `supabase db push` in CI and causes deployment failures that are painful to fix.
+- **NEVER run DDL statements (`CREATE`, `ALTER`, `DROP`) via `execute_sql`**. This changes the schema without any migration tracking at all.
+- **NEVER manually INSERT into `supabase_migrations.schema_migrations`** unless repairing a broken migration history (and only with explicit user approval).
+
+#### Why This Matters
+
+The CI/CD pipeline runs `supabase db push --include-all` which compares local migration files against the remote `schema_migrations` table. If the remote has migrations that don't exist locally, or local files exist without remote entries, the deployment **will fail** and block all subsequent deployments.
+
+**A single `apply_migration` call can break deployments for the entire project.**
+
+#### Correct Workflow for Schema Changes
 
-**Correct workflow for schema changes:**
 ```bash
 # 1. Create migration file locally
 supabase migration new <descriptive_name>
 
 # 2. Edit the migration file in apps/supabase/migrations/
 
-# 3. Test locally
+# 3. Make migrations idempotent where possible
+#    Use: CREATE OR REPLACE, IF NOT EXISTS, DROP IF EXISTS
+#    This prevents failures if re-run
+
+# 4. Test locally
 supabase db reset
 
-# 4. Deploy to remote (link to correct project first)
+# 5. Commit the migration file to git
+
+# 6. Deploy happens automatically via CI on push to master
+#    OR deploy manually:
 supabase link --project-ref <project_ref>
 supabase db push
 ```
 
-**MCP tools ARE appropriate for:**
-- Reading data (`execute_sql` for SELECT queries)
-- Exploring schema (`list_tables`, `list_migrations`)
-- Deploying edge functions (`deploy_edge_function`)
-- Generating types (`generate_typescript_types`)
+#### MCP Tools - What IS Allowed
+
+- **Reading data:** `execute_sql` with SELECT queries only
+- **Exploring schema:** `list_tables`, `list_migrations`, `list_extensions`
+- **Deploying edge functions:** `deploy_edge_function`
+- **Generating types:** `generate_typescript_types`
+- **Checking advisors:** `get_advisors`
+
+#### If You Accidentally Used `apply_migration`
+
+If a migration was applied via MCP, you must immediately:
+1. Retrieve the migration SQL from `schema_migrations.statements`
+2. Create a matching local file: `apps/supabase/migrations/<version>_<name>.sql`
+3. Commit and push the file so CI can reconcile
 
 ## Architecture
 
@@ -135,6 +162,8 @@ Edge functions in `apps/supabase/functions/` handle complex operations:
 - `delete-account` - Permanently deletes user account and all associated data (Apple App Store requirement)
 - `send-notification` - Push notifications for matches
 - `send-nudge-notification` - Partner nudge notifications (rate limited to once per 12 hours)
+- `send-unpaired-reminder` - Daily cron reminder for unpaired users to share invite code
+- `send-catchup-reminder` - Daily cron reminder for "behind" partners with escalating frequency
 - `revenuecat-webhook` - Subscription webhook handler
 - `sync-subscription` - Syncs RevenueCat subscription status
 - `redeem-code` - Redeems promotional codes for premium access (website only)
@@ -167,6 +196,8 @@ This approach:
 | `send-notification` | false | Internal trigger (no auth) |
 | `send-message-notification` | false | Internal trigger (no auth) |
 | `send-nudge-notification` | false | Manual via getUser() |
+| `send-unpaired-reminder` | false | Cron trigger (no auth) |
+| `send-catchup-reminder` | false | Cron trigger (no auth) |
 
 ### Database Best Practices
 - **Always use `.maybeSingle()` instead of `.single()`** when the row might not exist. `.single()` throws an error if 0 or >1 rows are returned.

PACK_GENERATION_AGENT.md

@@ -33,18 +33,78 @@ You are a content generation specialist for Sauci, a couples intimacy app where
 
 ---
 
+## Question Types
+
+Every question has a `question_type` that determines how partners interact with it.
+
+### `swipe` (default) - Yes/No/Maybe Proposal
+The classic Sauci format. Partners swipe yes, no, or maybe. Matches are created when both answer positively.
+
+- Can be **symmetric** (partner_text = NULL) or **asymmetric** (with partner_text + inverse pair)
+- Example: "Give your partner a back massage"
+
+### `who_likely` - "Who's More Likely To..."
+Partners each pick who they think is more likely. Fun, lighthearted conversation starters.
+
+- **ALWAYS symmetric** — partner_text = NULL, no inverse needed
+- Format: "Who is more likely to [activity/trait]?"
+- Match created when both answer
+- Examples:
+  - "Who is more likely to cry during a movie?"
+  - "Who is more likely to plan a surprise date?"
+  - "Who is more likely to fall asleep first?"
+  - "Who is more likely to forget an anniversary?"
+
+### `audio` - Voice Recording Prompt
+Partners record a voice message in response to a prompt. Great for confessions, storytelling, impressions, compliments.
+
+- **ALWAYS symmetric** — partner_text = NULL, no inverse needed
+- `config`: `{"max_duration_seconds": 60}`
+- Format: prompts that invite a natural spoken response
+- Examples:
+  - "Record your best impression of your partner"
+  - "Describe your favourite memory together"
+  - "Say something you've never told your partner"
+  - "Sing a song that reminds you of your partner"
+
+### `photo` - Photo Prompt
+Partners take or share a photo. Great for selfies, throwbacks, creative challenges.
+
+- **ALWAYS symmetric** — partner_text = NULL, no inverse needed
+- No special config needed
+- Format: prompts that invite a visual response
+- Examples:
+  - "Share a photo from your camera roll that makes you think of your partner"
+  - "Take a selfie showing how you feel right now"
+  - "Share a screenshot of your last text about your partner"
+  - "Show the view from where you are right now"
+
+### Type Distribution
+
+For a standard 30-question pack, aim for roughly:
+- **20-22 swipe** questions (the core experience)
+- **4-5 who_likely** questions
+- **2-3 audio** questions
+- **2-3 photo** questions
+
+Adjust based on the pack's theme. A "Getting to Know You" pack might lean heavier on who_likely and audio. An explicit pack might be mostly swipe.
+
+---
+
 ## Question Structure
 
 Each question has:
 - `text` - What Partner A sees
-- `partner_text` - What Partner B sees (can be NULL)
-- `intensity` - 1-5 scale
+- `partner_text` - What Partner B sees (NULL for symmetric questions and all non-swipe types)
+- `intensity` - 1-5 scale (for backend filtering, not shown in UI)
+- `question_type` - `swipe`, `who_likely`, `audio`, or `photo`
+- `config` - JSONB for type-specific settings (e.g., `{"max_duration_seconds": 60}` for audio)
 - `allowed_couple_genders` - Which couple types see this (NULL = all)
 - `target_user_genders` - Which gender initiates (NULL = any)
 - `required_props` - Physical items needed (NULL = none)
-- `inverse_of` - UUID of primary question if this is an inverse (NULL for primary/symmetric)
+- `inverse_of` - UUID of primary question if this is an inverse (NULL for primary/symmetric/non-swipe)
 
-### When to use partner_text
+### When to use partner_text (swipe questions only)
 
 **Use NULL** for symmetric activities where both partners do the same thing:
 ```
@@ -58,9 +118,11 @@ text: "Give your partner a massage"
 partner_text: "Receive a massage from your partner"
 ```
 
-### Critical: Inverse Questions and Database Linking
+**Non-swipe types (who_likely, audio, photo) ALWAYS have partner_text = NULL.**
 
-For any asymmetric question, you MUST create TWO questions AND link them using the `inverse_of` column:
+### Critical: Inverse Questions and Database Linking (swipe only)
+
+For any asymmetric **swipe** question, you MUST create TWO questions AND link them using the `inverse_of` column:
 
 **Question 1 (PRIMARY - inverse_of = NULL):**
 ```
@@ -86,8 +148,7 @@ This ensures:
 
 **IMPORTANT:**
 - Inverse pairs are NOT duplicates. When one question's `text` matches another's `partner_text`, they form a valid inverse pair. This is intentional and required - do not flag or remove these as duplicates.
-- The `inverse_of` column links the pair: the inverse question points to the primary question's UUID
-- This allows the app to display accurate unique question counts (100 concepts, not 200 questions)
+- Non-swipe types (who_likely, audio, photo) NEVER have inverses — they are always symmetric.
 
 ---
 
@@ -106,22 +167,17 @@ Controls which couple types see the question. Options: `male+male`, `female+male
 | Requires vagina | `['female+male', 'female+female']` | Exclude M+M |
 | Sex toys | NULL | Toys work for everyone |
 
-Examples:
-- "Give your partner a massage" → NULL
-- "Give your partner a blowjob" → `['male+male', 'female+male']`
-- "Go down on your partner" → NULL (oral is possible for all)
-- "Use a vibrator on your partner" → NULL
+**Note:** who_likely, audio, and photo questions are always NULL (they're gender-neutral by nature).
 
 ### Initiator Targeting (target_user_genders)
 
-For asymmetric questions, controls who does the action in `text`.
+For asymmetric swipe questions, controls who does the action in `text`.
 
 **DEFAULT: NULL** (anyone can initiate).
 
 Only set when the `text` field requires specific anatomy:
 - "Swallow your partner's cum" → partner has penis → `['female']` in M+F
 - "Deep throat your partner" → partner has penis → `['female']` in M+F
-- "Let your partner cum inside you" → receiver has vagina → `['female']`
 
 When in doubt, use NULL.
 
@@ -154,6 +210,8 @@ Identify physical items/accessories needed for the activity.
 
 ## Intensity Levels
 
+Each question needs an `intensity` value (1-5) for backend filtering. This is not shown in the mobile UI but is used to gate content based on user preferences.
+
 ### Level 1 - GENTLE
 Pure emotional connection, non-sexual bonding
 - Examples: Cook together, watch movies, take walks, game nights
@@ -161,7 +219,7 @@ Pure emotional connection, non-sexual bonding
 
 ### Level 2 - WARM
 Romantic atmosphere, affectionate touch
-- Examples: Slow dancing, candlelit dinners, extended kissing, cuddling
+- Examples: Slow dancing, extended kissing, cuddling
 - Romantic but not explicit
 
 ### Level 3 - PLAYFUL
@@ -181,44 +239,24 @@ Advanced/BDSM/extreme exploration
 
 ---
 
-## Pack Progression Structure
-
-Most categories should have 3-5 packs that progress in intensity:
-
-### Example: Toy Time
-1. **Starting Out** (intensity 3-4) - Basic vibrators, blindfolds, simple toys
-2. **Leveling Up Together** (intensity 4, some 5) - Remote toys, edging, combinations
-3. **The Deep End** (intensity 4-5) - Machines, bondage furniture, advanced play
-
-### Example: Long Distance
-1. **Staying Close** (intensity 1) - FaceTime, voice notes, gaming together
-2. **Missing You** (intensity 2) - Flirty texts, missing each other, anticipation
-3. **Private Line** (intensity 3-4) - Sexting, phone sex, explicit photos
-4. **Total Control** (intensity 4-5) - Remote toys, edging, power dynamics
-
-### Example: Public Thrills
-1. **Testing the Waters** (intensity 2-3) - Whispers, secret touches, stolen kisses
-2. **Pushing Limits** (intensity 3-4) - Making out in risky spots, dressing rooms
-3. **All Eyes On Us** (intensity 4-5) - Sex in public places, exhibitionism
-
----
-
 ## Category Types
 
 ### Non-Sexual Categories (intensity 1-2)
 - Social Life, Quality Time, Kitchen Chemistry
 - Focus on bonding, activities, preferences
 - partner_text usually NULL (symmetric activities)
+- Great fit for who_likely, audio, and photo questions
 
 ### Sexual Categories (intensity 3-5)
 - Toy Time, Public Thrills, Kink Lab, Bedroom Adventures
-- Mix of symmetric and asymmetric questions
-- Always create inverse questions for asymmetric content
+- Mix of symmetric and asymmetric swipe questions
+- Always create inverse questions for asymmetric swipe content
+- who_likely questions can still work here ("Who is more likely to initiate?")
 
 ### Mixed Categories
 - Long Distance, Romance & Sensuality
 - Start non-sexual, progress to sexual
-- Clear intensity progression across packs
+- Good variety of all question types
 
 ---
 
@@ -231,11 +269,16 @@ Most categories should have 3-5 packs that progress in intensity:
 - Think about what 25-40 year olds actually do
 - Include multiple perspectives per kink/activity
 - Make activities feel achievable and fun
+- Include a mix of question types in every pack
+- Make who_likely questions fun and debatable
+- Make audio prompts feel natural to speak to
+- Make photo prompts easy to respond to (not requiring elaborate setups)
 
 ### DON'T:
 - Use cheesy phrases ("make love", "intimate connection", "souls intertwining")
 - Assume heterosexual couples by default
-- Create one-sided asymmetric questions (always make the inverse)
+- Create one-sided asymmetric swipe questions (always make the inverse)
+- Create inverses for who_likely, audio, or photo (they're symmetric)
 - Use time-specific language
 - Be preachy or educational in tone
 - Include judgment about activities
@@ -257,22 +300,23 @@ When asked to create a pack:
 
 1. **Understand the category and position**
    - What category does this belong to?
-   - Where in the progression is this pack? (beginner/intermediate/advanced)
-   - What intensity range?
+   - What packs already exist?
+   - Is the category explicit or non-explicit?
 
 2. **Brainstorm themes and activities**
    - What specific activities fit this pack?
    - What makes this pack different from adjacent packs?
-   - What progression from previous pack?
+   - What question types fit best for this theme?
 
 3. **Generate questions**
-   - Mix of symmetric (null partner_text) and asymmetric questions
-   - For EVERY asymmetric question, immediately create its inverse
+   - Mix of swipe, who_likely, audio, and photo types
+   - For swipe: mix of symmetric (null partner_text) and asymmetric questions
+   - For EVERY asymmetric swipe question, immediately create its inverse
    - Vary sentence structure and openers
    - Target ~30-50 questions per pack
 
 4. **Review for balance**
-   - Check intensity distribution
+   - Check type distribution
    - Ensure all perspectives covered
    - Remove duplicates or too-similar questions
    - Verify no cliches or cheesy language
@@ -286,137 +330,125 @@ When asked to create a pack:
 
 ## Output Format
 
-When generating packs, output in this format (with inverse_of linking for pairs):
+When generating packs, output in this format:
 
 ```sql
 -- Pack: [Pack Name]
 -- Category: [Category Name]
 -- Description: [Pack description]
--- Intensity range: [X-Y]
 
--- For inverse pairs, insert primary first (inverse_of = NULL), then inverse pointing to primary
-INSERT INTO questions (id, pack_id, text, partner_text, intensity, allowed_couple_genders, target_user_genders, required_props, inverse_of) VALUES
--- Pair 1
-('uuid-primary-1', '[pack_id]', 'Spank your partner', 'Be spanked by your partner', 3, NULL, NULL, NULL, NULL),
-('uuid-inverse-1', '[pack_id]', 'Be spanked by your partner', 'Spank your partner', 3, NULL, NULL, NULL, 'uuid-primary-1'),
--- Pair 2 (with targeting)
-('uuid-primary-2', '[pack_id]', 'Give your partner a blowjob', 'Receive a blowjob from your partner', 3, ARRAY['male+male', 'female+male'], NULL, NULL, NULL),
-('uuid-inverse-2', '[pack_id]', 'Receive a blowjob from your partner', 'Give your partner a blowjob', 3, ARRAY['male+male', 'female+male'], NULL, NULL, 'uuid-primary-2'),
--- Symmetric (no inverse needed)
-(gen_random_uuid(), '[pack_id]', 'Cook dinner together', NULL, 1, NULL, NULL, NULL, NULL);
+-- Swipe inverse pairs: insert primary first (inverse_of = NULL), then inverse pointing to primary
+INSERT INTO questions (id, pack_id, text, partner_text, intensity, question_type, config, allowed_couple_genders, target_user_genders, required_props, inverse_of) VALUES
+-- Swipe pair 1
+('uuid-primary-1', '[pack_id]', 'Spank your partner', 'Be spanked by your partner', 3, 'swipe', '{}', NULL, NULL, NULL, NULL),
+('uuid-inverse-1', '[pack_id]', 'Be spanked by your partner', 'Spank your partner', 3, 'swipe', '{}', NULL, NULL, NULL, 'uuid-primary-1'),
+-- Symmetric swipe (no inverse)
+(gen_random_uuid(), '[pack_id]', 'Cook dinner together', NULL, 1, 'swipe', '{}', NULL, NULL, NULL, NULL),
+-- who_likely (always symmetric, no inverse)
+(gen_random_uuid(), '[pack_id]', 'Who is more likely to burn dinner?', NULL, 1, 'who_likely', '{}', NULL, NULL, NULL, NULL),
+-- audio (always symmetric, no inverse)
+(gen_random_uuid(), '[pack_id]', 'Describe your perfect date in 30 seconds', NULL, 1, 'audio', '{"max_duration_seconds": 60}', NULL, NULL, NULL, NULL),
+-- photo (always symmetric, no inverse)
+(gen_random_uuid(), '[pack_id]', 'Share a photo that makes you smile', NULL, 1, 'photo', '{}', NULL, NULL, NULL, NULL);
 ```
 
-Or as a table (include inverse_of column):
-
-| ID | Text | Partner Text | Intensity | Couple Targets | Initiator | Props | inverse_of |
-|----|------|--------------|-----------|----------------|-----------|-------|------------|
-| uuid-1 | Spank your partner | Be spanked | 3 | NULL | NULL | NULL | NULL |
-| uuid-2 | Be spanked by partner | Spank your partner | 3 | NULL | NULL | NULL | uuid-1 |
-| uuid-3 | Cook together | null | 1 | NULL | NULL | NULL | NULL |
-
 ---
 
 ## Examples of Good Questions
 
-### Non-Sexual (Intensity 1)
+### Swipe - Non-Sexual (Intensity 1)
 ```
 text: "Cook the same recipe together over video call"
 partner_text: NULL
 intensity: 1
-allowed_couple_genders: NULL
-target_user_genders: NULL
-required_props: NULL
+question_type: swipe
+config: {}
 ```
 
-### Romantic (Intensity 2)
+### Swipe - Romantic (Intensity 2)
 ```
 text: "Send a tipsy voice note telling them you miss them"
 partner_text: NULL
 intensity: 2
-allowed_couple_genders: NULL
-target_user_genders: NULL
-required_props: NULL
+question_type: swipe
+config: {}
 ```
 
-### Playful (Intensity 3) - With Props and Inverse Linking
+### Swipe - Playful (Intensity 3) - With Props and Inverse
 ```
 id: uuid-blindfold-primary
 text: "Blindfold your partner and tease them with different sensations"
 partner_text: "Be blindfolded while your partner teases you"
 intensity: 3
-allowed_couple_genders: NULL
-target_user_genders: NULL
+question_type: swipe
+config: {}
 required_props: ["blindfold"]
 inverse_of: NULL
 ```
-AND its inverse (linked via inverse_of):
+AND its inverse:
 ```
 id: uuid-blindfold-inverse
 text: "Be blindfolded while your partner teases you"
 partner_text: "Blindfold your partner and tease them with different sensations"
 intensity: 3
-allowed_couple_genders: NULL
-target_user_genders: NULL
+question_type: swipe
+config: {}
 required_props: ["blindfold"]
 inverse_of: uuid-blindfold-primary
 ```
 
-### Steamy (Intensity 4) - With Props and Targeting
+### who_likely
 ```
-text: "Control your partner's remote vibrator while out at dinner"
-partner_text: "Wear a remote vibrator at dinner while your partner controls it"
-intensity: 4
-allowed_couple_genders: NULL
-target_user_genders: NULL
-required_props: ["remote vibrator"]
-```
-AND its inverse:
-```
-text: "Wear a remote vibrator at dinner while your partner controls it"
-partner_text: "Control your partner's remote vibrator while out at dinner"
-intensity: 4
-allowed_couple_genders: NULL
-target_user_genders: NULL
-required_props: ["remote vibrator"]
+text: "Who is more likely to forget an anniversary?"
+partner_text: NULL
+intensity: 1
+question_type: who_likely
+config: {}
 ```
 
-### With Couple Targeting (Intensity 3)
+### audio
+```
+text: "Describe the moment you knew you loved your partner"
+partner_text: NULL
+intensity: 2
+question_type: audio
+config: {"max_duration_seconds": 60}
+```
+
+### photo
+```
+text: "Share the oldest photo you have of the two of you"
+partner_text: NULL
+intensity: 1
+question_type: photo
+config: {}
+```
+
+### Swipe - Steamy (Intensity 4) - With Couple Targeting
 ```
 text: "Give your partner a blowjob in a risky location"
 partner_text: "Receive a blowjob from your partner in a risky location"
 intensity: 3
-allowed_couple_genders: ["male+male", "female+male"]  -- requires penis
-target_user_genders: NULL
-required_props: NULL
+question_type: swipe
+config: {}
+allowed_couple_genders: ["male+male", "female+male"]
 ```
 
-### With Initiator Targeting (Intensity 4)
-```
-text: "Swallow your partner's cum"
-partner_text: "Have your partner swallow your cum"
-intensity: 4
-allowed_couple_genders: ["male+male", "female+male"]  -- requires penis
-target_user_genders: ["female"]  -- in M+F, female receives
-required_props: NULL
-```
-
-### Intense (Intensity 5)
+### Swipe - Intense (Intensity 5)
 ```
 text: "Edge your partner repeatedly, denying release until you decide"
 partner_text: "Be edged and denied until your partner allows you to finish"
 intensity: 5
-allowed_couple_genders: NULL
-target_user_genders: NULL
-required_props: NULL
+question_type: swipe
+config: {}
 ```
 AND its inverse:
 ```
 text: "Be edged and denied until your partner allows you to finish"
 partner_text: "Edge your partner repeatedly, denying release until you decide"
 intensity: 5
-allowed_couple_genders: NULL
-target_user_genders: NULL
-required_props: NULL
+question_type: swipe
+config: {}
 ```
 
 ---
@@ -425,7 +457,7 @@ required_props: NULL
 
 **Language & Format:**
 - [ ] Uses "your partner" (no gendered pronouns like him/her/he/she)
-- [ ] Questions are proposals, not interview questions
+- [ ] Swipe questions are proposals, not interview questions
 - [ ] No wishy-washy language ("Would you...", "Have you ever...")
 - [ ] No time-specific language (tonight, now, today)
 - [ ] 5-12 words per question (concise)
@@ -433,26 +465,35 @@ required_props: NULL
 - [ ] Mix of sentence structures
 - [ ] Appropriate for 25-40 year old couples
 
+**Question Types:**
+- [ ] Every question has a `question_type` set
+- [ ] who_likely uses "Who is more likely to..." format
+- [ ] audio prompts invite a natural spoken response
+- [ ] photo prompts invite a visual response
+- [ ] Non-swipe types have partner_text = NULL and inverse_of = NULL
+- [ ] Type distribution is balanced
+
 **Structure:**
-- [ ] All asymmetric questions have their inverse created (these are NOT duplicates - they're required pairs)
-- [ ] All inverse pairs are linked via `inverse_of` column (inverse points to primary's UUID)
+- [ ] All asymmetric swipe questions have their inverse created
+- [ ] All inverse pairs are linked via `inverse_of` column
 - [ ] Partner text is appealing (not clinical)
 - [ ] Partner text frames responses as "allowing" not forced
 - [ ] No actual duplicates (same `text` appearing twice)
 
 **Database Linking:**
-- [ ] Primary questions have `inverse_of = NULL`
-- [ ] Inverse questions have `inverse_of = <primary_question_uuid>`
-- [ ] Symmetric questions have `inverse_of = NULL`
+- [ ] Primary swipe questions have `inverse_of = NULL`
+- [ ] Inverse swipe questions have `inverse_of = <primary_question_uuid>`
+- [ ] Symmetric swipe questions have `inverse_of = NULL`
+- [ ] Non-swipe questions have `inverse_of = NULL`
 
 **Accuracy:**
 - [ ] Intensity levels match the activities
 - [ ] Couple targeting is correct (NULL unless anatomy-specific)
-- [ ] Initiator targeting is correct for asymmetric questions
+- [ ] Initiator targeting is correct for asymmetric swipe questions
 - [ ] Required props are identified where needed
 - [ ] Consider same-sex couples
 
 **Consistency:**
 - [ ] No mixed anatomy in alternatives
 - [ ] Tone matches explicit/non-explicit category
-- [ ] Pack fits its position in the progression
+- [ ] Pack fits its position in the category

apps/admin/src/pages/users/UserDetailPage.tsx

@@ -37,7 +37,7 @@ import {
     SelectTrigger,
     SelectValue,
 } from '@/components/ui/select';
-import { Crown, Users, MessageCircle, ChevronRight, ThumbsUp, ThumbsDown, Minus, Gift, Image, Video as VideoIcon, Target, User, Eye, EyeOff, CheckCircle, Package, Sparkles, Flame, Trophy, Calendar } from 'lucide-react';
+import { Crown, Users, MessageCircle, ChevronRight, ThumbsUp, ThumbsDown, Minus, Gift, Image, Video as VideoIcon, Target, User, Eye, EyeOff, CheckCircle, Package, Sparkles, Flame, Trophy, Calendar, AlertCircle, Clock } from 'lucide-react';
 import { format } from 'date-fns';
 import { IconPreview } from '@/components/ui/icon-picker';
 
@@ -130,6 +130,20 @@ interface FeatureInterest {
     created_at: string;
 }
 
+interface OutstandingQuestion {
+    id: string;
+    text: string;
+    intensity: number | null;
+    pack: {
+        id: string;
+        name: string;
+    };
+    partner_response: {
+        answer: 'yes' | 'no' | 'maybe';
+        created_at: string | null;
+    };
+}
+
 interface CoupleStreak {
     id: string;
     couple_id: string;
@@ -277,6 +291,13 @@ export function UserDetailPage() {
     const [enabledPacks, setEnabledPacks] = useState<EnabledPack[]>([]);
     const [featureInterests, setFeatureInterests] = useState<FeatureInterest[]>([]);
     const [streak, setStreak] = useState<CoupleStreak | null>(null);
+    const [outstandingQuestions, setOutstandingQuestions] = useState<OutstandingQuestion[]>([]);
+    const [outstandingPage, setOutstandingPage] = useState(1);
+    const [outstandingPageSize, setOutstandingPageSize] = useState(10);
+    const [outstandingTotal, setOutstandingTotal] = useState(0);
+    const [gapDisabled, setGapDisabled] = useState(false);
+    const [gapThreshold, setGapThreshold] = useState(0);
+    const [netGap, setNetGap] = useState(0);
     const [responsesPage, setResponsesPage] = useState(1);
     const [responsesPageSize, setResponsesPageSize] = useState(10);
     const [responsesTotal, setResponsesTotal] = useState(0);
@@ -467,19 +488,115 @@ export function UserDetailPage() {
                 } else {
                     setEnabledPacks((enabledPacksData || []) as unknown as EnabledPack[]);
                 }
+
+                // Fetch outstanding questions (partner answered, user hasn't)
+                // Use partner from state (set earlier in the first couple_id block)
+                const partnerProfile = partner || (await supabase.from('profiles').select('id, name').eq('couple_id', profileData.couple_id).neq('id', userId).maybeSingle()).data;
+                if (partnerProfile) {
+                    // Get question IDs user has already answered
+                    const { data: userResponseIds } = await supabase
+                        .from('responses')
+                        .select('question_id')
+                        .eq('user_id', userId);
+                    const answeredIds = new Set((userResponseIds || []).map((r: any) => r.question_id));
+
+                    // Get all partner responses in this couple
+                    const { data: partnerResponses } = await supabase
+                        .from('responses')
+                        .select(`
+                            question_id,
+                            answer,
+                            created_at
+                        `)
+                        .eq('user_id', partnerProfile.id)
+                        .eq('couple_id', profileData.couple_id)
+                        .order('created_at', { ascending: false });
+
+                    // Filter to only questions user hasn't answered
+                    const unansweredPartnerResponses = (partnerResponses || []).filter((r: any) => !answeredIds.has(r.question_id));
+                    const unansweredQuestionIds = unansweredPartnerResponses.map((r: any) => r.question_id);
+
+                    if (unansweredQuestionIds.length > 0) {
+                        // Fetch question details (no pack filter — admin sees all)
+                        const { data: questionDetails } = await supabase
+                            .from('questions')
+                            .select('id, text, intensity, pack:question_packs(id, name)')
+                            .in('id', unansweredQuestionIds);
+
+                        const questionMap = new Map((questionDetails || []).map((q: any) => [q.id, q]));
+                        const partnerResponseMap = new Map(unansweredPartnerResponses.map((r: any) => [r.question_id, r]));
+
+                        const outstanding: OutstandingQuestion[] = [];
+                        for (const qId of unansweredQuestionIds) {
+                            const q = questionMap.get(qId);
+                            const pr = partnerResponseMap.get(qId);
+                            if (q && pr) {
+                                outstanding.push({
+                                    id: qId,
+                                    text: q.text || '',
+                                    intensity: q.intensity || null,
+                                    pack: { id: q.pack?.id || '', name: q.pack?.name || '' },
+                                    partner_response: { answer: pr.answer, created_at: pr.created_at },
+                                });
+                            }
+                        }
+
+                        setOutstandingTotal(outstanding.length);
+                        const outFrom = (outstandingPage - 1) * outstandingPageSize;
+                        setOutstandingQuestions(outstanding.slice(outFrom, outFrom + outstandingPageSize));
+                    } else {
+                        setOutstandingQuestions([]);
+                        setOutstandingTotal(0);
+                    }
+
+                    // Calculate gap status
+                    const { data: appConfig } = await supabase
+                        .from('app_config')
+                        .select('answer_gap_threshold')
+                        .limit(1)
+                        .maybeSingle();
+
+                    const threshold = appConfig?.answer_gap_threshold ?? 10;
+                    setGapThreshold(threshold);
+
+                    if (threshold > 0) {
+                        // Count questions user answered that partner hasn't
+                        const partnerAllAnswered = new Set((partnerResponses || []).map((r: any) => r.question_id));
+                        const { data: userResponses } = await supabase
+                            .from('responses')
+                            .select('question_id')
+                            .eq('user_id', userId)
+                            .eq('couple_id', profileData.couple_id);
+                        const userAhead = (userResponses || []).filter((r: any) => !partnerAllAnswered.has(r.question_id)).length;
+                        const partnerAhead = unansweredPartnerResponses.length;
+                        const gap = Math.max(0, userAhead - partnerAhead);
+                        setNetGap(gap);
+                        setGapDisabled(gap >= threshold);
+                    } else {
+                        setNetGap(0);
+                        setGapDisabled(false);
+                    }
+                } else {
+                    setOutstandingQuestions([]);
+                    setOutstandingTotal(0);
+                    setGapDisabled(false);
+                }
             } else {
                 setMatches([]);
                 setMatchesTotal(0);
                 setMediaMessages([]);
                 setMediaTotal(0);
                 setEnabledPacks([]);
+                setOutstandingQuestions([]);
+                setOutstandingTotal(0);
+                setGapDisabled(false);
             }
         } catch (error) {
             console.error('Failed to load user data:', error);
         } finally {
             setLoading(false);
         }
-    }, [userId, responsesPage, responsesPageSize, matchesPage, matchesPageSize, mediaPage, mediaPageSize]);
+    }, [userId, responsesPage, responsesPageSize, matchesPage, matchesPageSize, mediaPage, mediaPageSize, outstandingPage, outstandingPageSize]);
 
     const { status: profileStatus } = useRealtimeSubscription<Profile>({ table: 'profiles', filter: userId ? `id=eq.${userId}` : undefined, enabled: !!userId, onUpdate: useCallback(({ new: updated }: { old: Profile; new: Profile }) => { setProfile(updated); }, []) });
     const { status: responsesStatus } = useRealtimeSubscription<Response>({ table: 'responses', filter: userId ? `user_id=eq.${userId}` : undefined, enabled: !!userId, onInsert: fetchData, onDelete: fetchData });
@@ -490,6 +607,7 @@ export function UserDetailPage() {
         setResponsesPage(1);
         setMatchesPage(1);
         setMediaPage(1);
+        setOutstandingPage(1);
     }, [userId]);
 
     useEffect(() => {
@@ -526,6 +644,8 @@ export function UserDetailPage() {
                         <h1 className="text-2xl font-bold">{profile.name || 'Unnamed User'}</h1>
                         <RealtimeStatusIndicator status={profileStatus === 'SUBSCRIBED' && responsesStatus === 'SUBSCRIBED' ? 'SUBSCRIBED' : profileStatus} showLabel />
                         {profile.is_premium && <Badge className="bg-amber-500"><Crown className="h-3 w-3 mr-1" />Premium</Badge>}
+                        {outstandingTotal > 0 && <Badge variant="outline" className="gap-1"><Clock className="h-3 w-3" />{outstandingTotal} outstanding</Badge>}
+                        {gapDisabled && <Badge variant="destructive" className="gap-1"><AlertCircle className="h-3 w-3" />Gap blocked ({netGap}/{gapThreshold})</Badge>}
                         {!profile.is_premium && hasPermission(PERMISSION_KEYS.GIFT_PREMIUM) && <Dialog open={upgradeOpen} onOpenChange={setUpgradeOpen}><DialogTrigger asChild><Button size="sm" variant="outline" className="ml-2 gap-1 h-7"><Gift className="h-3.5 w-3.5" />Gift Premium</Button></DialogTrigger><DialogContent><DialogHeader><DialogTitle>Gift Premium Access</DialogTitle><DialogDescription>Manually upgrade this user to premium status.</DialogDescription></DialogHeader><div className="grid gap-4 py-4"><div className="grid gap-2"><Label htmlFor="expiry-type">Duration</Label><Select value={expiryType} onValueChange={setExpiryType}><SelectTrigger id="expiry-type"><SelectValue placeholder="Select duration" /></SelectTrigger><SelectContent><SelectItem value="forever">Lifetime (No Expiry)</SelectItem><SelectItem value="1_month">1 Month</SelectItem><SelectItem value="1_year">1 Year</SelectItem><SelectItem value="custom">Custom Date</SelectItem></SelectContent></Select></div>{expiryType === 'custom' && (<div className="grid gap-2"><Label htmlFor="custom-date">Expiry Date</Label><Input id="custom-date" type="datetime-local" value={customDate} onChange={(e) => setCustomDate(e.target.value)} /></div>)}</div><DialogFooter><Button variant="outline" onClick={() => setUpgradeOpen(false)}>Cancel</Button><Button onClick={handleUpgrade} disabled={upgrading}>{upgrading ? 'Upgrading...' : 'Confirm Upgrade'}</Button></DialogFooter></DialogContent></Dialog>}
                     </div>
                     <div className="text-muted-foreground mb-4 flex items-center gap-2">
@@ -633,6 +753,7 @@ export function UserDetailPage() {
                     {canViewResponses && <TabsTrigger value="responses">Responses ({responsesTotal})</TabsTrigger>}
                     {canViewMatches && <TabsTrigger value="matches" disabled={!profile.couple_id}>Matches ({matchesTotal})</TabsTrigger>}
                     {canViewMedia && <TabsTrigger value="media">Media ({mediaTotal})</TabsTrigger>}
+                    {canViewResponses && <TabsTrigger value="outstanding" disabled={!profile.couple_id || !partner}>Outstanding ({outstandingTotal}){gapDisabled && <AlertCircle className="h-3 w-3 ml-1 text-destructive" />}</TabsTrigger>}
                     <TabsTrigger value="packs" disabled={!profile.couple_id}>Enabled Packs ({enabledPacks.length})</TabsTrigger>
                 </TabsList>
                 {canViewResponses && <TabsContent value="responses" className="mt-4">{responses.length === 0 ? <Card className="flex flex-col items-center justify-center py-12"><p className="text-muted-foreground">No responses yet</p></Card> : <div className="space-y-4"><div className="rounded-md border"><Table><TableHeader><TableRow><TableHead>Question</TableHead><TableHead>Pack</TableHead><TableHead className="w-24">Answer</TableHead><TableHead className="w-32">Date</TableHead></TableRow></TableHeader><TableBody>{responses.map((r) => (<TableRow key={r.id}><TableCell className="max-w-md">{r.question.pack?.id ? (<Link to={`/packs/${r.question.pack.id}/questions`} className="line-clamp-2 text-primary hover:underline cursor-pointer">{r.question.text}</Link>) : (<span className="line-clamp-2">{r.question.text}</span>)}</TableCell><TableCell>{r.question.pack?.id ? (<Link to={`/packs/${r.question.pack.id}/questions`} className="text-primary hover:underline">{r.question.pack.name}</Link>) : (<span className="text-muted-foreground">{r.question.pack?.name || '—'}</span>)}</TableCell><TableCell><div className="flex items-center gap-2">{answerIcons[r.answer]}<span className="capitalize">{r.answer}</span></div></TableCell><TableCell className="text-muted-foreground text-sm">{r.created_at ? format(new Date(r.created_at), 'MMM d, yyyy') : '—'}</TableCell></TableRow>))}</TableBody></Table></div><PaginationControls page={responsesPage} pageSize={responsesPageSize} totalCount={responsesTotal} onPageChange={setResponsesPage} onPageSizeChange={(size) => { setResponsesPage(1); setResponsesPageSize(size); }} /></div>}</TabsContent>}
@@ -644,6 +765,86 @@ export function UserDetailPage() {
                         <AdminDecryptedImage messageId={message.id} alt={`Media from ${message.created_at}`} />
                     )}
                 </div><CardContent className="p-3"><div className="flex items-center justify-between text-sm"><div className="truncate text-muted-foreground">{message.media_type === 'video' ? 'Video' : 'Image'}</div>{canViewChats && message.match_id && <Link to={`/users/${userId}/matches/${message.match_id}`} className="text-primary hover:underline text-xs">View Chat</Link>}</div><div className="text-xs text-muted-foreground mt-1">{message.created_at ? format(new Date(message.created_at), 'MMM d, yyyy') : '—'}</div></CardContent></Card>))}</div><PaginationControls page={mediaPage} pageSize={mediaPageSize} totalCount={mediaTotal} onPageChange={setMediaPage} onPageSizeChange={(size) => { setMediaPage(1); setMediaPageSize(size); }} /></div>}</TabsContent>}
+                {canViewResponses && <TabsContent value="outstanding" className="mt-4">
+                    {gapDisabled && (
+                        <Card className="mb-4 border-destructive/50 bg-destructive/5">
+                            <CardContent className="pt-4 pb-4">
+                                <div className="flex items-center gap-2 text-destructive">
+                                    <AlertCircle className="h-4 w-4" />
+                                    <span className="font-medium">Gap disabled</span>
+                                    <span className="text-muted-foreground text-sm">- This user is {netGap} questions ahead of their partner (threshold: {gapThreshold}). They won't see new questions until their partner catches up.</span>
+                                </div>
+                            </CardContent>
+                        </Card>
+                    )}
+                    {outstandingQuestions.length === 0 ? (
+                        <Card className="flex flex-col items-center justify-center py-12">
+                            <CheckCircle className="h-12 w-12 text-green-500 mb-4" />
+                            <p className="text-muted-foreground">No outstanding questions - all caught up!</p>
+                        </Card>
+                    ) : (
+                        <div className="space-y-4">
+                            <div className="rounded-md border">
+                                <Table>
+                                    <TableHeader>
+                                        <TableRow>
+                                            <TableHead>Question</TableHead>
+                                            <TableHead>Pack</TableHead>
+                                            <TableHead className="w-24">Intensity</TableHead>
+                                            <TableHead className="w-32">Partner's Answer</TableHead>
+                                            <TableHead className="w-36">Partner Answered</TableHead>
+                                        </TableRow>
+                                    </TableHeader>
+                                    <TableBody>
+                                        {outstandingQuestions.map((q) => (
+                                            <TableRow key={q.id}>
+                                                <TableCell className="max-w-md">
+                                                    {q.pack?.id ? (
+                                                        <Link to={`/packs/${q.pack.id}/questions`} className="line-clamp-2 text-primary hover:underline cursor-pointer">{q.text}</Link>
+                                                    ) : (
+                                                        <span className="line-clamp-2">{q.text}</span>
+                                                    )}
+                                                </TableCell>
+                                                <TableCell>
+                                                    {q.pack?.id ? (
+                                                        <Link to={`/packs/${q.pack.id}/questions`} className="text-primary hover:underline">{q.pack.name}</Link>
+                                                    ) : (
+                                                        <span className="text-muted-foreground">—</span>
+                                                    )}
+                                                </TableCell>
+                                                <TableCell>
+                                                    {q.intensity ? (
+                                                        <div className="flex items-center gap-1">
+                                                            {Array.from({ length: q.intensity }, (_, i) => (
+                                                                <Flame key={i} className="h-3 w-3 text-orange-500" />
+                                                            ))}
+                                                        </div>
+                                                    ) : '—'}
+                                                </TableCell>
+                                                <TableCell>
+                                                    <div className="flex items-center gap-2">
+                                                        {answerIcons[q.partner_response.answer]}
+                                                        <span className="capitalize">{q.partner_response.answer}</span>
+                                                    </div>
+                                                </TableCell>
+                                                <TableCell className="text-muted-foreground text-sm">
+                                                    {q.partner_response.created_at ? format(new Date(q.partner_response.created_at), 'MMM d, yyyy') : '—'}
+                                                </TableCell>
+                                            </TableRow>
+                                        ))}
+                                    </TableBody>
+                                </Table>
+                            </div>
+                            <PaginationControls
+                                page={outstandingPage}
+                                pageSize={outstandingPageSize}
+                                totalCount={outstandingTotal}
+                                onPageChange={setOutstandingPage}
+                                onPageSizeChange={(size) => { setOutstandingPage(1); setOutstandingPageSize(size); }}
+                            />
+                        </div>
+                    )}
+                </TabsContent>}
                 <TabsContent value="packs" className="mt-4">
                     {enabledPacks.length === 0 ? (
                         <Card className="flex flex-col items-center justify-center py-12">

apps/mobile/app/(app)/pairing.tsx

@@ -7,6 +7,7 @@ import {
     Alert,
     ActivityIndicator,
     Share,
+    Linking,
     KeyboardAvoidingView,
     Platform,
     TouchableOpacity,
@@ -141,12 +142,14 @@ export default function PairingScreen() {
         }
     };
 
+    const shareMessage = couple?.invite_code
+        ? `Join me on Sauci! Download the app at https://sauci.app and use my invite code to pair up: ${couple.invite_code}`
+        : "";
+
     const shareCode = async () => {
         if (couple?.invite_code) {
             try {
-                await Share.share({
-                    message: `Join me on Sauci! Download the app at https://sauci.app and use my invite code to pair up: ${couple.invite_code}`,
-                });
+                await Share.share({ message: shareMessage });
                 Events.codeShared();
             } catch (error) {
                 console.error(error);
@@ -154,6 +157,23 @@ export default function PairingScreen() {
         }
     };
 
+    const shareViaWhatsApp = async () => {
+        const url = `whatsapp://send?text=${encodeURIComponent(shareMessage)}`;
+        const canOpen = await Linking.canOpenURL(url);
+        if (canOpen) {
+            await Linking.openURL(url);
+            Events.codeShared();
+        } else {
+            shareCode();
+        }
+    };
+
+    const shareViaSMS = async () => {
+        const url = `sms:&body=${encodeURIComponent(shareMessage)}`;
+        await Linking.openURL(url);
+        Events.codeShared();
+    };
+
     const handleCancelPairing = async () => {
         Alert.alert(
             "Cancel Pairing",
@@ -256,7 +276,15 @@ export default function PairingScreen() {
                             </GlassCard>
                         </Animated.View>
 
-                        {/* Share Button */}
+                        {/* CTA Text */}
+                        <Animated.View
+                            entering={FadeInDown.delay(350).duration(500)}
+                            style={styles.ctaSection}
+                        >
+                            <Text style={styles.ctaText}>Send this to your partner to get started</Text>
+                        </Animated.View>
+
+                        {/* Primary Share Button */}
                         <Animated.View
                             entering={FadeInDown.delay(400).duration(500)}
                             style={styles.section}
@@ -264,12 +292,28 @@ export default function PairingScreen() {
                             <GlassButton
                                 onPress={shareCode}
                                 fullWidth
-                                icon={<Ionicons name="share-outline" size={20} color={colors.text} />}
+                                size="lg"
+                                icon={<Ionicons name="share-outline" size={22} color={colors.text} />}
                             >
-                                Share Code
+                                Share Invite Code
                             </GlassButton>
                         </Animated.View>
 
+                        {/* Quick share buttons */}
+                        <Animated.View
+                            entering={FadeInDown.delay(450).duration(500)}
+                            style={styles.quickShareRow}
+                        >
+                            <TouchableOpacity style={styles.quickShareButton} onPress={shareViaSMS} activeOpacity={0.7}>
+                                <Ionicons name="chatbubble-outline" size={20} color={colors.text} />
+                                <Text style={styles.quickShareLabel}>Messages</Text>
+                            </TouchableOpacity>
+                            <TouchableOpacity style={styles.quickShareButton} onPress={shareViaWhatsApp} activeOpacity={0.7}>
+                                <Ionicons name="logo-whatsapp" size={20} color={colors.text} />
+                                <Text style={styles.quickShareLabel}>WhatsApp</Text>
+                            </TouchableOpacity>
+                        </Animated.View>
+
                         {/* Waiting indicator */}
                         <Animated.View
                             entering={FadeInDown.delay(500).duration(500)}
@@ -559,4 +603,34 @@ const styles = StyleSheet.create({
         ...typography.subhead,
         color: colors.error,
     },
+    ctaSection: {
+        alignItems: "center",
+        marginBottom: spacing.md,
+    },
+    ctaText: {
+        ...typography.callout,
+        color: colors.textSecondary,
+        textAlign: "center",
+    },
+    quickShareRow: {
+        flexDirection: "row",
+        justifyContent: "center",
+        gap: spacing.md,
+        marginBottom: spacing.md,
+    },
+    quickShareButton: {
+        flexDirection: "row",
+        alignItems: "center",
+        gap: spacing.sm,
+        backgroundColor: colors.backgroundLight,
+        paddingHorizontal: spacing.md,
+        paddingVertical: spacing.sm,
+        borderRadius: radius.full,
+        borderWidth: 1,
+        borderColor: colors.border,
+    },
+    quickShareLabel: {
+        ...typography.subhead,
+        color: colors.text,
+    },
 });

apps/mobile/src/features/profile/components/NotificationSettings.tsx

@@ -1,8 +1,7 @@
 import React, { useEffect, useMemo } from 'react';
 import { View, StyleSheet, Text } from 'react-native';
 import { colors, spacing, typography } from '../../../theme';
-import { useNotificationPreferencesStore } from '../../../store';
-import { useAuthStore } from '../../../store';
+import { useNotificationPreferencesStore, useAuthStore } from '../../../store';
 import { SettingsSection } from './SettingsSection';
 import { SwitchItem } from './SwitchItem';
 
@@ -19,7 +18,7 @@ export const NotificationSettings: React.FC<NotificationSettingsProps> = ({
     onPushToggle,
     delay = 360,
 }) => {
-    const { user } = useAuthStore();
+    const { user, partner } = useAuthStore();
     const { preferences, isUpdating, fetchPreferences, updatePreference } = useNotificationPreferencesStore();
 
     // Fetch notification preferences on mount when user is available
@@ -38,6 +37,9 @@ export const NotificationSettings: React.FC<NotificationSettingsProps> = ({
         onPackChangesToggle: (value: boolean) => updatePreference('pack_changes_enabled', value),
         onNewPacksToggle: (value: boolean) => updatePreference('new_packs_enabled', value),
         onStreakMilestonesToggle: (value: boolean) => updatePreference('streak_milestones_enabled', value),
+        onWeeklySummaryToggle: (value: boolean) => updatePreference('weekly_summary_enabled', value),
+        onUnpairedRemindersToggle: (value: boolean) => updatePreference('unpaired_reminders_enabled', value),
+        onCatchupRemindersToggle: (value: boolean) => updatePreference('catchup_reminders_enabled', value),
     }), [updatePreference]);
 
     return (
@@ -133,6 +135,47 @@ export const NotificationSettings: React.FC<NotificationSettingsProps> = ({
                         onValueChange={handlers.onStreakMilestonesToggle}
                         disabled={isUpdating}
                     />
+
+                    <View style={styles.itemDivider} />
+
+                    <SwitchItem
+                        icon="calendar-outline"
+                        label="Weekly Recap"
+                        description="Sunday summary of your weekly matches"
+                        value={preferences.weekly_summary_enabled}
+                        onValueChange={handlers.onWeeklySummaryToggle}
+                        disabled={isUpdating}
+                    />
+
+                    {partner && (
+                        <>
+                            <View style={styles.itemDivider} />
+
+                            <SwitchItem
+                                icon="time-outline"
+                                label="Catch-up Reminders"
+                                description="Reminders when your partner is ahead"
+                                value={preferences.catchup_reminders_enabled}
+                                onValueChange={handlers.onCatchupRemindersToggle}
+                                disabled={isUpdating}
+                            />
+                        </>
+                    )}
+
+                    {!partner && (
+                        <>
+                            <View style={styles.itemDivider} />
+
+                            <SwitchItem
+                                icon="people-outline"
+                                label="Pairing Reminders"
+                                description="Reminders to share your invite code"
+                                value={preferences.unpaired_reminders_enabled}
+                                onValueChange={handlers.onUnpairedRemindersToggle}
+                                disabled={isUpdating}
+                            />
+                        </>
+                    )}
                 </>
             )}
         </SettingsSection>

apps/mobile/src/features/swipe/components/SwipeInfoStateLayout.tsx

@@ -27,6 +27,11 @@ interface SwipeInfoStateLayoutProps {
         onPress: () => void;
         variant?: "primary" | "secondary";
     };
+    secondaryAction?: {
+        label: string;
+        onPress: () => void;
+        icon?: keyof typeof Ionicons.glyphMap;
+    };
 }
 
 export const SwipeInfoStateLayout = ({
@@ -41,6 +46,7 @@ export const SwipeInfoStateLayout = ({
     separatorVariant = "rose",
     labelStyle,
     action,
+    secondaryAction,
 }: SwipeInfoStateLayoutProps) => (
     <GradientBackground>
         <View style={styles.centerContainer}>
@@ -88,6 +94,17 @@ export const SwipeInfoStateLayout = ({
                         {action.label}
                     </GlassButton>
                 )}
+
+                {secondaryAction && (
+                    <GlassButton
+                        variant="secondary"
+                        onPress={secondaryAction.onPress}
+                        style={{ marginTop: spacing.sm }}
+                        icon={secondaryAction.icon ? <Ionicons name={secondaryAction.icon} size={18} color={colors.text} /> : undefined}
+                    >
+                        {secondaryAction.label}
+                    </GlassButton>
+                )}
             </Animated.View>
         </View>
     </GradientBackground>

apps/mobile/src/features/swipe/components/SwipeNoPartnerState.tsx

@@ -1,4 +1,7 @@
+import { Share } from "react-native";
 import { colors } from "../../../theme";
+import { useAuthStore } from "../../../store";
+import { Events } from "../../../lib/analytics";
 import { SwipeInfoStateLayout } from "./SwipeInfoStateLayout";
 
 interface SwipeNoPartnerStateProps {
@@ -8,6 +11,19 @@ interface SwipeNoPartnerStateProps {
 
 export const SwipeNoPartnerState = ({ hasCouple, onPairPress }: SwipeNoPartnerStateProps) => {
     const accent = colors.premium.rose;
+    const { couple } = useAuthStore();
+
+    const handleShareCode = async () => {
+        if (!couple?.invite_code) return;
+        try {
+            await Share.share({
+                message: `Join me on Sauci! Download the app at https://sauci.app and use my invite code to pair up: ${couple.invite_code}`,
+            });
+            Events.codeShared();
+        } catch (error) {
+            console.error(error);
+        }
+    };
 
     return (
         <SwipeInfoStateLayout
@@ -30,6 +46,11 @@ export const SwipeNoPartnerState = ({ hasCouple, onPairPress }: SwipeNoPartnerSt
                 label: hasCouple ? "View Invite Code" : "Pair Now",
                 onPress: onPairPress,
             }}
+            secondaryAction={hasCouple && couple?.invite_code ? {
+                label: "Share Code",
+                onPress: handleShareCode,
+                icon: "share-outline",
+            } : undefined}
         />
     );
 };

apps/mobile/src/lib/notifications.ts

@@ -19,7 +19,7 @@ Notifications.setNotificationHandler({
 
 // Types
 export interface NotificationData {
-  type: "match" | "message" | "match_digest" | "partner_activity" | "nudge";
+  type: "match" | "message" | "match_digest" | "partner_activity" | "nudge" | "weekly_summary";
   match_id?: string;
   message_id?: string;
   count?: number;
@@ -231,7 +231,7 @@ export function handleNotificationResponse(
     return;
   }
 
-  if (data.type === "match_digest") {
+  if (data.type === "match_digest" || data.type === "weekly_summary") {
     router.push("/(app)/matches");
     return;
   }

apps/mobile/src/store/notificationPreferencesStore.ts

@@ -11,6 +11,9 @@ export interface NotificationPreferences {
     pack_changes_enabled: boolean;
     new_packs_enabled: boolean;
     streak_milestones_enabled: boolean;
+    weekly_summary_enabled: boolean;
+    unpaired_reminders_enabled: boolean;
+    catchup_reminders_enabled: boolean;
     created_at: string;
     updated_at: string;
 }

apps/supabase/functions/send-catchup-reminder/index.ts

@@ -0,0 +1,398 @@
+import "jsr:@supabase/functions-js/edge-runtime.d.ts";
+import { createClient } from "https://esm.sh/@supabase/supabase-js@2.45.0?target=deno";
+
+/**
+ * Send catch-up reminder notifications to the "behind" partner.
+ * Called by pg_cron daily at 17:00 UTC.
+ *
+ * Escalation schedule:
+ * - First reminder after 24h of pending questions
+ * - Follow-up reminders every 3 days
+ *
+ * Skips if: user active in last 6h, catchup_reminders_enabled = false, no push token
+ */
+
+interface ExpoPushMessage {
+    to: string;
+    title: string;
+    body: string;
+    sound?: string;
+    data?: Record<string, unknown>;
+}
+
+async function sendExpoPushNotification(message: ExpoPushMessage) {
+    const response = await fetch("https://exp.host/--/api/v2/push/send", {
+        method: "POST",
+        headers: {
+            "Content-Type": "application/json",
+            Accept: "application/json",
+        },
+        body: JSON.stringify(message),
+    });
+
+    if (!response.ok) {
+        const error = await response.text();
+        console.error("Expo push error:", error);
+        throw new Error(`Failed to send push notification: ${error}`);
+    }
+
+    return response.json();
+}
+
+Deno.serve(async (req) => {
+    if (req.method !== "POST" && req.method !== "GET") {
+        return new Response("Method not allowed", { status: 405 });
+    }
+
+    const supabase = createClient(
+        Deno.env.get("SUPABASE_URL")!,
+        Deno.env.get("SUPABASE_SERVICE_ROLE_KEY")!
+    );
+
+    try {
+        const now = new Date();
+        const twentyFourHoursAgo = new Date(now.getTime() - 24 * 60 * 60 * 1000);
+        const threeDaysAgo = new Date(now.getTime() - 3 * 24 * 60 * 60 * 1000);
+        const sixHoursAgo = new Date(now.getTime() - 6 * 60 * 60 * 1000);
+
+        // Find all couples and count unanswered questions per user
+        // A "behind" user has questions their partner answered but they haven't
+        const { data: behindUsers, error: queryError } = await supabase.rpc(
+            "get_behind_partners"
+        );
+
+        // If the RPC doesn't exist yet, fall back to a raw query
+        let candidates: Array<{
+            behind_user_id: string;
+            partner_name: string;
+            pending_count: number;
+        }>;
+
+        if (queryError) {
+            // Fallback: use SQL directly
+            const { data, error } = await supabase.from("couples").select(
+                "id, user1_id, user2_id"
+            );
+            if (error) throw error;
+            if (!data || data.length === 0) {
+                return new Response(
+                    JSON.stringify({ success: true, sent: 0, message: "No couples" }),
+                    { headers: { "Content-Type": "application/json" } }
+                );
+            }
+
+            candidates = [];
+
+            for (const couple of data) {
+                if (!couple.user1_id || !couple.user2_id) continue;
+
+                // Count questions each user answered that the other hasn't
+                for (const [userId, partnerId] of [
+                    [couple.user1_id, couple.user2_id],
+                    [couple.user2_id, couple.user1_id],
+                ] as [string, string][]) {
+                    const { count, error: countError } = await supabase
+                        .from("responses")
+                        .select("question_id", { count: "exact", head: true })
+                        .eq("user_id", partnerId)
+                        .not(
+                            "question_id",
+                            "in",
+                            `(SELECT question_id FROM responses WHERE user_id = '${userId}')`
+                        );
+
+                    // The above subquery won't work via PostgREST, use a different approach
+                    // Get partner's answered question IDs, then count how many the user hasn't answered
+                }
+            }
+
+            // Better approach: use execute_sql-style raw query via RPC
+            // Actually, let's use a simpler approach with two queries
+            candidates = await findBehindUsers(supabase);
+        } else {
+            candidates = behindUsers || [];
+        }
+
+        // Now process each behind user
+        let sent = 0;
+        let skipped = 0;
+
+        for (const candidate of candidates) {
+            const { behind_user_id, partner_name, pending_count } = candidate;
+
+            // Get user profile
+            const { data: profile } = await supabase
+                .from("profiles")
+                .select("id, push_token, last_active_at")
+                .eq("id", behind_user_id)
+                .maybeSingle();
+
+            if (!profile?.push_token) {
+                skipped++;
+                continue;
+            }
+
+            // Skip if active in last 6 hours
+            if (profile.last_active_at && profile.last_active_at > sixHoursAgo.toISOString()) {
+                skipped++;
+                // Reset tracking since they're active
+                continue;
+            }
+
+            // Check notification preferences
+            const { data: prefs } = await supabase
+                .from("notification_preferences")
+                .select("catchup_reminders_enabled")
+                .eq("user_id", behind_user_id)
+                .maybeSingle();
+
+            if (prefs && prefs.catchup_reminders_enabled === false) {
+                skipped++;
+                continue;
+            }
+
+            // Get or create tracking record
+            const { data: tracking } = await supabase
+                .from("catchup_reminder_tracking")
+                .select("*")
+                .eq("user_id", behind_user_id)
+                .maybeSingle();
+
+            const pendingSince = tracking?.pending_since
+                ? new Date(tracking.pending_since)
+                : null;
+            const lastReminderAt = tracking?.last_reminder_sent_at
+                ? new Date(tracking.last_reminder_sent_at)
+                : null;
+            const reminderCount = tracking?.reminder_count || 0;
+
+            // Upsert pending_since if not set
+            if (!pendingSince) {
+                await supabase.from("catchup_reminder_tracking").upsert({
+                    user_id: behind_user_id,
+                    pending_since: now.toISOString(),
+                    reminder_count: 0,
+                });
+                // Too early for first reminder (just started tracking)
+                skipped++;
+                continue;
+            }
+
+            // Check escalation schedule
+            if (pendingSince > twentyFourHoursAgo) {
+                // Less than 24h since questions appeared — too early
+                skipped++;
+                continue;
+            }
+
+            if (reminderCount === 0) {
+                // Send first reminder
+            } else if (lastReminderAt && lastReminderAt > threeDaysAgo) {
+                // Less than 3 days since last reminder — skip
+                skipped++;
+                continue;
+            }
+
+            // Determine notification copy
+            const name = partner_name || "Your partner";
+            let title: string;
+            let body: string;
+
+            if (reminderCount === 0) {
+                title = "Questions waiting";
+                body = pending_count >= 6
+                    ? `${name} has answered ${pending_count} questions you haven't seen yet`
+                    : `${name} answered some questions — your turn!`;
+            } else {
+                title = "Still waiting on you";
+                body = `You have ${pending_count} questions waiting. Don't leave ${name} hanging!`;
+            }
+
+            try {
+                await sendExpoPushNotification({
+                    to: profile.push_token,
+                    title,
+                    body,
+                    sound: "default",
+                    data: { type: "catchup_reminder" },
+                });
+
+                // Update tracking
+                await supabase.from("catchup_reminder_tracking").upsert({
+                    user_id: behind_user_id,
+                    pending_since: tracking.pending_since,
+                    last_reminder_sent_at: now.toISOString(),
+                    reminder_count: reminderCount + 1,
+                });
+
+                sent++;
+            } catch (error) {
+                console.error(`Failed to send catchup reminder to ${behind_user_id}:`, error);
+            }
+        }
+
+        // Reset tracking for users who have caught up
+        await resetCaughtUpUsers(supabase);
+
+        console.log(`Catchup reminders: sent=${sent}, skipped=${skipped}`);
+
+        return new Response(
+            JSON.stringify({ success: true, sent, skipped }),
+            { headers: { "Content-Type": "application/json" } }
+        );
+    } catch (err) {
+        console.error("Catchup reminder error:", err);
+        return new Response(
+            JSON.stringify({ error: "Internal server error" }),
+            { status: 500, headers: { "Content-Type": "application/json" } }
+        );
+    }
+});
+
+/**
+ * Find users who are "behind" — their partner answered questions they haven't.
+ * Returns: { behind_user_id, partner_name, pending_count }[]
+ */
+async function findBehindUsers(
+    supabase: ReturnType<typeof createClient>
+): Promise<Array<{ behind_user_id: string; partner_name: string; pending_count: number }>> {
+    // Get all active couples
+    const { data: couples, error } = await supabase
+        .from("couples")
+        .select("id, user1_id, user2_id");
+
+    if (error || !couples) return [];
+
+    const results: Array<{ behind_user_id: string; partner_name: string; pending_count: number }> = [];
+
+    for (const couple of couples) {
+        if (!couple.user1_id || !couple.user2_id) continue;
+
+        // Get enabled pack IDs for this couple
+        const { data: enabledPacks } = await supabase
+            .from("couple_packs")
+            .select("pack_id")
+            .eq("couple_id", couple.id)
+            .eq("is_enabled", true);
+
+        const packIds = (enabledPacks || []).map((p: { pack_id: string }) => p.pack_id);
+        if (packIds.length === 0) continue;
+
+        // For each direction, count questions partner answered that user hasn't
+        for (const [userId, partnerId] of [
+            [couple.user1_id, couple.user2_id],
+            [couple.user2_id, couple.user1_id],
+        ] as [string, string][]) {
+            // Get partner's answered question IDs (in enabled packs)
+            const { data: partnerResponses } = await supabase
+                .from("responses")
+                .select("question_id")
+                .eq("user_id", partnerId);
+
+            if (!partnerResponses || partnerResponses.length === 0) continue;
+
+            const partnerQuestionIds = partnerResponses.map((r: { question_id: string }) => r.question_id);
+
+            // Get user's answered question IDs
+            const { data: userResponses } = await supabase
+                .from("responses")
+                .select("question_id")
+                .eq("user_id", userId);
+
+            const userQuestionIds = new Set(
+                (userResponses || []).map((r: { question_id: string }) => r.question_id)
+            );
+
+            // Count questions partner answered that user hasn't
+            const pendingCount = partnerQuestionIds.filter(
+                (qid: string) => !userQuestionIds.has(qid)
+            ).length;
+
+            if (pendingCount > 0) {
+                // Get partner name
+                const { data: partnerProfile } = await supabase
+                    .from("profiles")
+                    .select("name")
+                    .eq("id", partnerId)
+                    .maybeSingle();
+
+                results.push({
+                    behind_user_id: userId,
+                    partner_name: partnerProfile?.name || "Your partner",
+                    pending_count: pendingCount,
+                });
+            }
+        }
+    }
+
+    return results;
+}
+
+/**
+ * Reset tracking for users who have no pending questions (caught up).
+ */
+async function resetCaughtUpUsers(
+    supabase: ReturnType<typeof createClient>
+): Promise<void> {
+    // Get all tracked users
+    const { data: tracked } = await supabase
+        .from("catchup_reminder_tracking")
+        .select("user_id")
+        .not("pending_since", "is", null);
+
+    if (!tracked || tracked.length === 0) return;
+
+    for (const { user_id } of tracked) {
+        // Get user's couple
+        const { data: profile } = await supabase
+            .from("profiles")
+            .select("couple_id")
+            .eq("id", user_id)
+            .maybeSingle();
+
+        if (!profile?.couple_id) {
+            // No couple — clear tracking
+            await supabase
+                .from("catchup_reminder_tracking")
+                .update({ pending_since: null, reminder_count: 0 })
+                .eq("user_id", user_id);
+            continue;
+        }
+
+        // Get partner
+        const { data: partner } = await supabase
+            .from("profiles")
+            .select("id")
+            .eq("couple_id", profile.couple_id)
+            .neq("id", user_id)
+            .maybeSingle();
+
+        if (!partner) continue;
+
+        // Check if partner has any responses user hasn't answered
+        const { data: partnerResponses } = await supabase
+            .from("responses")
+            .select("question_id")
+            .eq("user_id", partner.id);
+
+        const { data: userResponses } = await supabase
+            .from("responses")
+            .select("question_id")
+            .eq("user_id", user_id);
+
+        const userQuestionIds = new Set(
+            (userResponses || []).map((r: { question_id: string }) => r.question_id)
+        );
+
+        const pendingCount = (partnerResponses || []).filter(
+            (r: { question_id: string }) => !userQuestionIds.has(r.question_id)
+        ).length;
+
+        if (pendingCount === 0) {
+            await supabase
+                .from("catchup_reminder_tracking")
+                .update({ pending_since: null, reminder_count: 0, last_reminder_sent_at: null })
+                .eq("user_id", user_id);
+        }
+    }
+}

apps/supabase/functions/send-unpaired-reminder/index.ts

@@ -0,0 +1,164 @@
+import "jsr:@supabase/functions-js/edge-runtime.d.ts";
+import { createClient } from "https://esm.sh/@supabase/supabase-js@2.45.0?target=deno";
+
+/**
+ * Send push notification reminders to unpaired users.
+ * Called by pg_cron daily at 18:00 UTC.
+ *
+ * Targets users where:
+ * - couple_id IS NULL (no partner yet)
+ * - push_token IS NOT NULL (can receive notifications)
+ * - last_unpaired_reminder_at IS NULL or older than 3 days
+ * - unpaired_reminders_enabled is not false in notification_preferences
+ */
+
+const corsHeaders = {
+    "Access-Control-Allow-Origin": "*",
+    "Access-Control-Allow-Headers": "authorization, x-client-info, apikey, content-type",
+};
+
+const REMINDER_COOLDOWN_DAYS = 3;
+
+interface ExpoPushMessage {
+    to: string;
+    title: string;
+    body: string;
+    sound?: string;
+    data?: Record<string, unknown>;
+}
+
+async function sendExpoPushNotification(message: ExpoPushMessage) {
+    const response = await fetch("https://exp.host/--/api/v2/push/send", {
+        method: "POST",
+        headers: {
+            "Content-Type": "application/json",
+            Accept: "application/json",
+        },
+        body: JSON.stringify(message),
+    });
+
+    if (!response.ok) {
+        const error = await response.text();
+        console.error("Expo push error:", error);
+        throw new Error(`Failed to send push notification: ${error}`);
+    }
+
+    return response.json();
+}
+
+Deno.serve(async (req) => {
+    // Handle CORS preflight
+    if (req.method === "OPTIONS") {
+        return new Response("ok", { headers: corsHeaders });
+    }
+
+    if (req.method !== "POST") {
+        return new Response("Method not allowed", { status: 405, headers: corsHeaders });
+    }
+
+    try {
+        const supabase = createClient(
+            Deno.env.get("SUPABASE_URL")!,
+            Deno.env.get("SUPABASE_SERVICE_ROLE_KEY")!
+        );
+
+        const now = new Date();
+        const cutoff = new Date(now.getTime() - REMINDER_COOLDOWN_DAYS * 24 * 60 * 60 * 1000);
+
+        // Get unpaired users with push tokens who haven't been reminded recently
+        const { data: users, error: usersError } = await supabase
+            .from("profiles")
+            .select("id, push_token, couple_id, last_unpaired_reminder_at")
+            .is("couple_id", null)
+            .not("push_token", "is", null)
+            .or(`last_unpaired_reminder_at.is.null,last_unpaired_reminder_at.lt.${cutoff.toISOString()}`);
+
+        if (usersError) {
+            console.error("Error fetching unpaired users:", usersError);
+            return new Response(
+                JSON.stringify({ error: "Failed to fetch users" }),
+                { status: 500, headers: { ...corsHeaders, "Content-Type": "application/json" } }
+            );
+        }
+
+        if (!users || users.length === 0) {
+            return new Response(
+                JSON.stringify({ success: true, sent: 0, message: "No eligible users" }),
+                { headers: { ...corsHeaders, "Content-Type": "application/json" } }
+            );
+        }
+
+        // Get notification preferences for these users to check opt-out
+        const userIds = users.map((u) => u.id);
+        const { data: prefs } = await supabase
+            .from("notification_preferences")
+            .select("user_id, unpaired_reminders_enabled")
+            .in("user_id", userIds);
+
+        const disabledUsers = new Set(
+            (prefs || [])
+                .filter((p) => p.unpaired_reminders_enabled === false)
+                .map((p) => p.user_id)
+        );
+
+        // Check which users have a couple (invite code created but no partner yet)
+        const { data: couples } = await supabase
+            .from("couples")
+            .select("id, user1_id")
+            .in("user1_id", userIds);
+
+        const usersWithCouple = new Set(
+            (couples || []).map((c) => c.user1_id)
+        );
+
+        let sent = 0;
+        let skipped = 0;
+
+        for (const user of users) {
+            // Skip if user opted out
+            if (disabledUsers.has(user.id)) {
+                skipped++;
+                continue;
+            }
+
+            const hasCouple = usersWithCouple.has(user.id);
+            const title = "Sauci";
+            const body = hasCouple
+                ? "Your invite code is waiting! Share it with your partner to start discovering what you have in common."
+                : "Ready to get started? Create an invite code and share it with your partner!";
+
+            try {
+                await sendExpoPushNotification({
+                    to: user.push_token,
+                    title,
+                    body,
+                    sound: "default",
+                    data: { type: "unpaired_reminder" },
+                });
+
+                // Update last_unpaired_reminder_at
+                await supabase
+                    .from("profiles")
+                    .update({ last_unpaired_reminder_at: now.toISOString() })
+                    .eq("id", user.id);
+
+                sent++;
+            } catch (error) {
+                console.error(`Failed to send reminder to ${user.id}:`, error);
+            }
+        }
+
+        console.log(`Unpaired reminders: sent=${sent}, skipped=${skipped}, total=${users.length}`);
+
+        return new Response(
+            JSON.stringify({ success: true, sent, skipped, total: users.length }),
+            { headers: { ...corsHeaders, "Content-Type": "application/json" } }
+        );
+    } catch (error) {
+        console.error("Unpaired reminder error:", error);
+        return new Response(
+            JSON.stringify({ error: "Internal server error" }),
+            { status: 500, headers: { ...corsHeaders, "Content-Type": "application/json" } }
+        );
+    }
+});

apps/supabase/functions/send-weekly-summary/index.ts

@@ -0,0 +1,213 @@
+import "jsr:@supabase/functions-js/edge-runtime.d.ts";
+import { createClient } from "https://esm.sh/@supabase/supabase-js@2.45.0?target=deno";
+
+interface ExpoPushMessage {
+    to: string;
+    title: string;
+    body: string;
+    sound?: string;
+    data?: Record<string, unknown>;
+}
+
+async function sendExpoPushNotifications(messages: ExpoPushMessage[]) {
+    if (messages.length === 0) return;
+
+    const response = await fetch("https://exp.host/--/api/v2/push/send", {
+        method: "POST",
+        headers: {
+            "Content-Type": "application/json",
+            Accept: "application/json",
+        },
+        body: JSON.stringify(messages),
+    });
+
+    if (!response.ok) {
+        const error = await response.text();
+        console.error("Expo push error:", error);
+        throw new Error(`Failed to send push notification: ${error}`);
+    }
+
+    return response.json();
+}
+
+function buildNotificationBody(matchCount: number): string {
+    if (matchCount === 0) {
+        return "No new matches this week. Answer some questions to discover what you have in common!";
+    }
+    if (matchCount <= 3) {
+        return `You matched on ${matchCount} topic${matchCount === 1 ? "" : "s"} this week! Tap to start a conversation.`;
+    }
+    return `${matchCount} matches this week — you two are on a roll!`;
+}
+
+Deno.serve(async (req) => {
+    if (req.method !== "POST" && req.method !== "GET") {
+        return new Response("Method not allowed", { status: 405 });
+    }
+
+    const supabase = createClient(
+        Deno.env.get("SUPABASE_URL")!,
+        Deno.env.get("SUPABASE_SERVICE_ROLE_KEY")!
+    );
+
+    try {
+        const now = new Date();
+        const oneWeekAgo = new Date(now.getTime() - 7 * 24 * 60 * 60 * 1000).toISOString();
+
+        // Get all couples that had at least one match this week
+        const { data: recentMatches, error: matchError } = await supabase
+            .from("matches")
+            .select("couple_id")
+            .gte("created_at", oneWeekAgo);
+
+        if (matchError) {
+            console.error("Error fetching recent matches:", matchError);
+            return new Response(
+                JSON.stringify({ error: matchError.message }),
+                { status: 500, headers: { "Content-Type": "application/json" } }
+            );
+        }
+
+        // Get unique couple IDs that had matches
+        const couplesWithMatches = new Set<string>(
+            (recentMatches || []).map((m: { couple_id: string }) => m.couple_id)
+        );
+
+        // Count matches per couple
+        const matchCountByCouple = new Map<string, number>();
+        for (const m of recentMatches || []) {
+            matchCountByCouple.set(m.couple_id, (matchCountByCouple.get(m.couple_id) || 0) + 1);
+        }
+
+        // Also get couples where users answered questions but got no matches
+        const { data: recentResponses, error: responseError } = await supabase
+            .from("responses")
+            .select("user_id")
+            .gte("created_at", oneWeekAgo);
+
+        if (responseError) {
+            console.error("Error fetching recent responses:", responseError);
+            return new Response(
+                JSON.stringify({ error: responseError.message }),
+                { status: 500, headers: { "Content-Type": "application/json" } }
+            );
+        }
+
+        // Get couple_ids for users with responses
+        const activeUserIds = [...new Set((recentResponses || []).map((r: { user_id: string }) => r.user_id))];
+
+        let activeCoupleIds = new Set<string>(couplesWithMatches);
+
+        if (activeUserIds.length > 0) {
+            const { data: activeProfiles } = await supabase
+                .from("profiles")
+                .select("couple_id")
+                .in("id", activeUserIds)
+                .not("couple_id", "is", null);
+
+            for (const p of activeProfiles || []) {
+                if (p.couple_id) activeCoupleIds.add(p.couple_id);
+            }
+        }
+
+        if (activeCoupleIds.size === 0) {
+            return new Response(
+                JSON.stringify({ sent: 0, message: "No active couples this week" }),
+                { headers: { "Content-Type": "application/json" } }
+            );
+        }
+
+        // Get all users in active couples with push tokens
+        const { data: users, error: usersError } = await supabase
+            .from("profiles")
+            .select("id, couple_id, push_token")
+            .in("couple_id", [...activeCoupleIds])
+            .not("push_token", "is", null);
+
+        if (usersError) {
+            console.error("Error fetching users:", usersError);
+            return new Response(
+                JSON.stringify({ error: usersError.message }),
+                { status: 500, headers: { "Content-Type": "application/json" } }
+            );
+        }
+
+        if (!users || users.length === 0) {
+            return new Response(
+                JSON.stringify({ sent: 0, message: "No users with push tokens" }),
+                { headers: { "Content-Type": "application/json" } }
+            );
+        }
+
+        // Check notification preferences for all users
+        const userIds = users.map((u: { id: string }) => u.id);
+        const { data: allPrefs } = await supabase
+            .from("notification_preferences")
+            .select("user_id, weekly_summary_enabled")
+            .in("user_id", userIds);
+
+        const prefsMap = new Map<string, boolean>();
+        for (const p of allPrefs || []) {
+            prefsMap.set(p.user_id, p.weekly_summary_enabled);
+        }
+
+        // Verify each user has a partner (couple has 2 members)
+        const coupleUserCounts = new Map<string, number>();
+        for (const u of users) {
+            coupleUserCounts.set(u.couple_id, (coupleUserCounts.get(u.couple_id) || 0) + 1);
+        }
+
+        const messages: ExpoPushMessage[] = [];
+        let skippedPrefs = 0;
+        let skippedNoPartner = 0;
+
+        for (const user of users) {
+            // Skip if preference explicitly disabled
+            if (prefsMap.get(user.id) === false) {
+                skippedPrefs++;
+                continue;
+            }
+
+            // Skip if no partner in this couple (solo user)
+            // Note: we only checked users with push tokens, partner may exist without token
+            // So do a simpler check - just send to all eligible users in couples
+            const matchCount = matchCountByCouple.get(user.couple_id) || 0;
+            const body = buildNotificationBody(matchCount);
+
+            messages.push({
+                to: user.push_token!,
+                title: "Your weekly recap",
+                body,
+                sound: "default",
+                data: { type: "weekly_summary" },
+            });
+        }
+
+        if (messages.length > 0) {
+            // Batch in groups of 100 (Expo limit)
+            for (let i = 0; i < messages.length; i += 100) {
+                const batch = messages.slice(i, i + 100);
+                await sendExpoPushNotifications(batch);
+            }
+        }
+
+        console.log(
+            `Sent ${messages.length} weekly summary notifications, skipped: prefs=${skippedPrefs}, no partner=${skippedNoPartner}`
+        );
+
+        return new Response(
+            JSON.stringify({
+                sent: messages.length,
+                skipped: { prefs: skippedPrefs, noPartner: skippedNoPartner },
+                activeCouples: activeCoupleIds.size,
+            }),
+            { headers: { "Content-Type": "application/json" } }
+        );
+    } catch (err) {
+        console.error("Unexpected error:", err);
+        return new Response(
+            JSON.stringify({ error: "Internal server error" }),
+            { status: 500, headers: { "Content-Type": "application/json" } }
+        );
+    }
+});

apps/supabase/migrations/20260127202703_add_discord_notification_triggers.sql

@@ -0,0 +1,142 @@
+-- Helper function: sends a Discord notification via the send-discord-notification edge function
+CREATE OR REPLACE FUNCTION public.notify_discord_event(p_event text, p_payload jsonb)
+RETURNS void
+LANGUAGE plpgsql
+SECURITY DEFINER
+AS $$
+BEGIN
+    PERFORM net.http_post(
+        url := 'https://ckjcrkjpmhqhiucifukx.supabase.co/functions/v1/send-discord-notification',
+        headers := jsonb_build_object('Content-Type', 'application/json'),
+        body := jsonb_build_object(
+            'event', p_event,
+            'payload', p_payload
+        )
+    );
+END;
+$$;
+
+-- Trigger function: new user signup
+CREATE OR REPLACE FUNCTION public.notify_new_user_discord()
+RETURNS trigger
+LANGUAGE plpgsql
+SECURITY DEFINER
+AS $$
+BEGIN
+    PERFORM public.notify_discord_event(
+        'new_user',
+        jsonb_build_object(
+            'user_id', NEW.id,
+            'name', NEW.name,
+            'email', NEW.email,
+            'created_at', NEW.created_at
+        )
+    );
+
+    RETURN NEW;
+END;
+$$;
+
+-- Trigger function: couple paired (fires when second partner joins)
+CREATE OR REPLACE FUNCTION public.notify_couple_paired_discord()
+RETURNS trigger
+LANGUAGE plpgsql
+SECURITY DEFINER
+AS $$
+DECLARE
+    v_member_count integer;
+    v_profiles jsonb;
+BEGIN
+    IF NEW.couple_id IS NULL OR OLD.couple_id IS NOT DISTINCT FROM NEW.couple_id THEN
+        RETURN NEW;
+    END IF;
+
+    SELECT COUNT(*)
+    INTO v_member_count
+    FROM public.profiles
+    WHERE couple_id = NEW.couple_id;
+
+    IF v_member_count = 2 THEN
+        SELECT jsonb_agg(
+            jsonb_build_object(
+                'id', p.id,
+                'name', p.name,
+                'email', p.email
+            )
+            ORDER BY p.created_at
+        )
+        INTO v_profiles
+        FROM public.profiles p
+        WHERE p.couple_id = NEW.couple_id;
+
+        PERFORM public.notify_discord_event(
+            'couple_paired',
+            jsonb_build_object(
+                'couple_id', NEW.couple_id,
+                'profiles', COALESCE(v_profiles, '[]'::jsonb),
+                'paired_at', now()
+            )
+        );
+    END IF;
+
+    RETURN NEW;
+END;
+$$;
+
+-- Trigger function: feedback submitted
+CREATE OR REPLACE FUNCTION public.notify_feedback_submitted_discord()
+RETURNS trigger
+LANGUAGE plpgsql
+SECURITY DEFINER
+AS $$
+DECLARE
+    v_user jsonb;
+BEGIN
+    SELECT jsonb_build_object(
+        'id', p.id,
+        'name', p.name,
+        'email', p.email
+    )
+    INTO v_user
+    FROM public.profiles p
+    WHERE p.id = NEW.user_id;
+
+    PERFORM public.notify_discord_event(
+        'feedback_submitted',
+        jsonb_build_object(
+            'feedback_id', NEW.id,
+            'user_id', NEW.user_id,
+            'type', NEW.type,
+            'title', NEW.title,
+            'description', NEW.description,
+            'status', NEW.status,
+            'screenshot_url', NEW.screenshot_url,
+            'question_id', NEW.question_id,
+            'created_at', NEW.created_at,
+            'user', v_user
+        )
+    );
+
+    RETURN NEW;
+END;
+$$;
+
+-- Create triggers (drop first to be idempotent)
+DROP TRIGGER IF EXISTS on_profile_created_discord ON public.profiles;
+CREATE TRIGGER on_profile_created_discord
+    AFTER INSERT ON public.profiles
+    FOR EACH ROW
+    EXECUTE FUNCTION public.notify_new_user_discord();
+
+DROP TRIGGER IF EXISTS on_profile_couple_paired_discord ON public.profiles;
+CREATE TRIGGER on_profile_couple_paired_discord
+    AFTER UPDATE OF couple_id ON public.profiles
+    FOR EACH ROW
+    WHEN (OLD.couple_id IS DISTINCT FROM NEW.couple_id AND NEW.couple_id IS NOT NULL)
+    EXECUTE FUNCTION public.notify_couple_paired_discord();
+
+DROP TRIGGER IF EXISTS on_feedback_submitted_discord ON public.feedback;
+CREATE TRIGGER on_feedback_submitted_discord
+    AFTER INSERT ON public.feedback
+    FOR EACH ROW
+    EXECUTE FUNCTION public.notify_feedback_submitted_discord();

apps/supabase/migrations/20260131214924_add_weekly_summary_notification.sql

@@ -0,0 +1,16 @@
+-- Add weekly_summary_enabled to notification_preferences
+ALTER TABLE notification_preferences
+ADD COLUMN IF NOT EXISTS weekly_summary_enabled BOOLEAN DEFAULT true;
+
+-- Schedule weekly summary notification: Sunday 10:00 UTC
+SELECT cron.schedule(
+    'send-weekly-summary',
+    '0 10 * * 0',
+    $$
+    SELECT net.http_post(
+        url := 'https://ckjcrkjpmhqhiucifukx.supabase.co/functions/v1/send-weekly-summary',
+        headers := jsonb_build_object('Content-Type', 'application/json'),
+        body := '{}'::jsonb
+    )
+    $$
+);

apps/supabase/migrations/20260131231008_add_unpaired_reminders.sql

@@ -0,0 +1,20 @@
+-- Add tracking column for unpaired reminder rate limiting
+ALTER TABLE profiles
+ADD COLUMN IF NOT EXISTS last_unpaired_reminder_at TIMESTAMPTZ;
+
+-- Add preference toggle for unpaired reminders
+ALTER TABLE notification_preferences
+ADD COLUMN IF NOT EXISTS unpaired_reminders_enabled BOOLEAN DEFAULT true;
+
+-- Schedule daily cron job at 18:00 UTC to send unpaired reminders
+SELECT cron.schedule(
+    'send-unpaired-reminders',
+    '0 18 * * *',
+    $$
+    SELECT net.http_post(
+        url := 'https://ckjcrkjpmhqhiucifukx.supabase.co/functions/v1/send-unpaired-reminder',
+        headers := jsonb_build_object('Content-Type', 'application/json'),
+        body := '{}'::jsonb
+    )
+    $$
+);

apps/supabase/migrations/20260131232838_add_catchup_reminders.sql

@@ -0,0 +1,27 @@
+-- Catchup reminder tracking table
+CREATE TABLE IF NOT EXISTS catchup_reminder_tracking (
+    user_id UUID PRIMARY KEY REFERENCES profiles(id) ON DELETE CASCADE,
+    pending_since TIMESTAMPTZ,
+    last_reminder_sent_at TIMESTAMPTZ,
+    reminder_count INTEGER NOT NULL DEFAULT 0
+);
+
+-- Enable RLS (service role only)
+ALTER TABLE catchup_reminder_tracking ENABLE ROW LEVEL SECURITY;
+
+-- Add preference toggle for catchup reminders
+ALTER TABLE notification_preferences
+ADD COLUMN IF NOT EXISTS catchup_reminders_enabled BOOLEAN DEFAULT true;
+
+-- Schedule daily cron job at 17:00 UTC to send catchup reminders
+SELECT cron.schedule(
+    'send-catchup-reminders',
+    '0 17 * * *',
+    $$
+    SELECT net.http_post(
+        url := 'https://ckjcrkjpmhqhiucifukx.supabase.co/functions/v1/send-catchup-reminder',
+        headers := jsonb_build_object('Content-Type', 'application/json'),
+        body := '{}'::jsonb
+    )
+    $$
+);