fix(acquisition): use recognized privacy markers

apps/api/src/domains/couples/repository.ts

@@ -33,6 +33,7 @@ export interface CoupleRepository {
   getState(userId: string): Promise<CoupleStateResponse>;
   create(userId: string, coupleId: string, inviteCode: string): Promise<Couple>;
   join(userId: string, inviteCode: string): Promise<Couple>;
+  cancelInvite(userId: string): Promise<void>;
   cancel(userId: string): Promise<void>;
   close(): Promise<void>;
 }
@@ -268,6 +269,43 @@ export class PostgresCoupleRepository implements CoupleRepository {
     });
   }
 
+  async cancelInvite(userId: string): Promise<void> {
+    await transaction(this.pool, async (client) => {
+      // Lock in the same order as join(): the caller's profile first, then the
+      // couple. A concurrent join therefore either completes first and makes
+      // this a safe no-op error, or observes that the invite no longer exists.
+      const profile = await profileForUpdate(client, userId);
+      if (!profile.couple_id) {
+        throw new CoupleError('not_paired', 'You do not have an invite to cancel', 400);
+      }
+
+      const coupleResult = await client.query<{ id: string }>(
+        'select id from couples where id = $1 for update',
+        [profile.couple_id],
+      );
+      if (!coupleResult.rows[0]) {
+        throw new CoupleError('not_paired', 'You do not have an invite to cancel', 400);
+      }
+
+      const members = await client.query<{ id: string }>(
+        'select id from profiles where couple_id = $1',
+        [profile.couple_id],
+      );
+      if (members.rows.length > 1) {
+        throw new CoupleError('invite_already_joined', 'This invite has already been joined', 409);
+      }
+      if (members.rows.length !== 1 || members.rows[0]?.id !== userId) {
+        throw new CoupleError('not_paired', 'You do not have an invite to cancel', 400);
+      }
+
+      // At this point the couple has precisely the authenticated creator as a
+      // member. Removing it cannot delete paired data. Answers made before
+      // invite creation stay sealed; answers made while waiting are coupled
+      // and are deleted with the cancelled invite.
+      await client.query('delete from couples where id = $1', [profile.couple_id]);
+    });
+  }
+
   async close(): Promise<void> {
     await closeResolvedPool(this.pool, this.ownsPool);
   }

apps/api/src/domains/couples/routes.ts

@@ -50,4 +50,9 @@ export function registerCoupleRoutes(app: AuthenticatedApp, service: CoupleServi
     const result = await route(() => service.cancel(c.get('identity').id));
     return result.ok ? c.json(result.value) : c.json(result.body, result.status);
   });
+
+  app.delete('/v1/couple/invite', async (c) => {
+    const result = await route(() => service.cancelInvite(c.get('identity').id));
+    return result.ok ? c.json(result.value) : c.json(result.body, result.status);
+  });
 }

apps/api/src/domains/couples/service.ts

@@ -41,4 +41,9 @@ export class CoupleService {
     await this.repository.cancel(userId);
     return { success: true, couple_id: null };
   }
+
+  async cancelInvite(userId: string): Promise<CoupleMutationResponse> {
+    await this.repository.cancelInvite(userId);
+    return { success: true, couple_id: null };
+  }
 }

apps/api/src/domains/couples/types.ts

@@ -19,6 +19,7 @@ export type CoupleErrorCode =
   | 'invalid_invite_code'
   | 'couple_full'
   | 'not_paired'
+  | 'invite_already_joined'
   | 'invite_code_collision';
 
 export class CoupleError extends Error {

apps/api/test/couples.repository.integration.test.ts

@@ -68,6 +68,56 @@ describe.skipIf(!databaseUrl || !localDatabase)('PostgresCoupleRepository', () =
     expect((await pool.query('select count(*)::int as count from couples')).rows[0].count).toBe(0);
   });
 
+  it('cancels a waiting invite only for its creator', async () => {
+    const coupleId = 'bbbbbbbb-bbbb-4bbb-8bbb-bbbbbbbbbbbb';
+    const pack = 'abababab-abab-4bab-8bab-abababababab';
+    const sealedQuestion = 'acacacac-acac-4cac-8cac-acacacacacac';
+    const waitingQuestion = 'adadadad-adad-4dad-8dad-adadadadadad';
+    await pool.query('insert into question_packs(id, name) values ($1, $2)', [pack, 'Invite cancellation']);
+    await pool.query(
+      'insert into questions(id, pack_id, text) values ($1, $3, $2), ($4, $3, $5)',
+      [sealedQuestion, 'Sealed before invite', pack, waitingQuestion, 'Answered while waiting'],
+    );
+    await pool.query(
+      "insert into responses(id, user_id, question_id, couple_id, answer) values ($1, $2, $3, null, 'yes')",
+      [randomUUID(), charlie, sealedQuestion],
+    );
+    await repository.create(charlie, coupleId, 'WAIT2345');
+    await pool.query(
+      "insert into responses(id, user_id, question_id, couple_id, answer) values ($1, $2, $3, $4, 'no')",
+      [randomUUID(), charlie, waitingQuestion, coupleId],
+    );
+
+    await repository.cancelInvite(charlie);
+
+    await expect(repository.getState(charlie)).resolves.toEqual({ couple: null, partner: null, sealed_count: 1 });
+    expect((await pool.query('select count(*)::int as count from couples where id = $1', [coupleId])).rows[0].count).toBe(0);
+    expect((await pool.query('select count(*)::int as count from responses where question_id = $1', [sealedQuestion])).rows[0].count).toBe(1);
+    expect((await pool.query('select count(*)::int as count from responses where question_id = $1', [waitingQuestion])).rows[0].count).toBe(0);
+  });
+
+  it('never deletes a joined couple through the invite cancellation path', async () => {
+    const coupleId = 'cccccccc-cccc-4ccc-8ccc-cccccccccccc';
+    await repository.create(alice, coupleId, 'SAFE2345');
+    await repository.join(bob, 'SAFE2345');
+
+    const before = await pool.query<{ id: string; couple_id: string | null }>(
+      'select id, couple_id from profiles where id in ($1, $2) order by id',
+      [alice, bob],
+    );
+    await expect(repository.cancelInvite(alice)).rejects.toMatchObject({
+      code: 'invite_already_joined',
+      status: 409,
+    });
+
+    const after = await pool.query<{ id: string; couple_id: string | null }>(
+      'select id, couple_id from profiles where id in ($1, $2) order by id',
+      [alice, bob],
+    );
+    expect(after.rows).toEqual(before.rows);
+    expect((await pool.query('select count(*)::int as count from couples where id = $1', [coupleId])).rows[0].count).toBe(1);
+  });
+
   it('reports a solo answerer\'s sealed count before any couple exists', async () => {
     const pack = 'cccccccc-cccc-4ccc-8ccc-cccccccccccc';
     const solo = 'dddddddd-dddd-4ddd-8ddd-dddddddddddd';

apps/api/test/couples.routes.test.ts

@@ -4,6 +4,7 @@ import type { AuthIdentity } from '../src/auth.js';
 import type { CoupleRepository } from '../src/domains/couples/repository.js';
 import { registerCoupleRoutes } from '../src/domains/couples/routes.js';
 import { CoupleService } from '../src/domains/couples/service.js';
+import { CoupleError } from '../src/domains/couples/types.js';
 
 const identity: AuthIdentity = {
   id: '11111111-1111-4111-8111-111111111111',
@@ -25,6 +26,7 @@ function setup() {
       invite_code: inviteCode,
       created_at: '2026-08-27T00:00:00.000Z',
     })),
+    cancelInvite: vi.fn(async () => undefined),
     cancel: vi.fn(async () => undefined),
     close: vi.fn(async () => undefined),
   };
@@ -80,4 +82,28 @@ describe('couple routes', () => {
     expect(await response.json()).toEqual({ success: true, couple_id: null });
     expect(repository.cancel).toHaveBeenCalledWith(identity.id);
   });
+
+  it('cancels only the authenticated user\'s waiting invite on the dedicated route', async () => {
+    const { app, repository } = setup();
+    const response = await app.request('/v1/couple/invite', { method: 'DELETE' });
+    expect(response.status).toBe(200);
+    expect(await response.json()).toEqual({ success: true, couple_id: null });
+    expect(repository.cancelInvite).toHaveBeenCalledWith(identity.id);
+    expect(repository.cancel).not.toHaveBeenCalled();
+  });
+
+  it('does not turn a joined invite into relationship deletion', async () => {
+    const { app, repository } = setup();
+    vi.mocked(repository.cancelInvite).mockRejectedValueOnce(
+      new CoupleError('invite_already_joined', 'This invite has already been joined', 409),
+    );
+
+    const response = await app.request('/v1/couple/invite', { method: 'DELETE' });
+
+    expect(response.status).toBe(409);
+    expect(await response.json()).toEqual({
+      error: { code: 'invite_already_joined', message: 'This invite has already been joined' },
+    });
+    expect(repository.cancel).not.toHaveBeenCalled();
+  });
 });

apps/api/test/couples.service.test.ts

@@ -15,6 +15,7 @@ function repository(overrides: Partial<CoupleRepository> = {}): CoupleRepository
     getState: vi.fn(async () => ({ couple: null, partner: null, sealed_count: 0 })),
     create: vi.fn(async () => couple),
     join: vi.fn(async () => couple),
+    cancelInvite: vi.fn(async () => undefined),
     cancel: vi.fn(async () => undefined),
     close: vi.fn(async () => undefined),
     ...overrides,
@@ -61,4 +62,13 @@ describe('CoupleService', () => {
     expect(create).toHaveBeenCalledTimes(2);
     expect(create.mock.calls.every(([userId]) => userId === 'user-one')).toBe(true);
   });
+
+  it('uses the invite-only cancellation operation for a waiting creator', async () => {
+    const repo = repository();
+    const service = new CoupleService(repo);
+
+    await expect(service.cancelInvite('user-one')).resolves.toEqual({ success: true, couple_id: null });
+    expect(repo.cancelInvite).toHaveBeenCalledWith('user-one');
+    expect(repo.cancel).not.toHaveBeenCalled();
+  });
 });

apps/mobile/app/(app)/_layout.tsx

@@ -76,10 +76,11 @@ export default function AppLayout() {
     const segmentStrings = segments as string[];
     const isOnOnboarding = segmentStrings.includes("onboarding");
     const isOnPairing = segmentStrings.includes("pairing");
+    const isOnPaired = segmentStrings.includes("paired");
     const isOnChat = segmentStrings.includes("chat");
     const isOnLiveDraw = segmentStrings.includes("live-draw");
     const isOnSettingsSubscreen = segmentStrings.includes("settings") && segmentStrings.length > 2;
-    const shouldHideTabBar = isOnOnboarding || isOnPairing || isOnChat || isOnLiveDraw || isOnSettingsSubscreen;
+    const shouldHideTabBar = isOnOnboarding || isOnPairing || isOnPaired || isOnChat || isOnLiveDraw || isOnSettingsSubscreen;
 
     // Redirect to login when not authenticated, or to onboarding if not completed/outdated
     useEffect(() => {
@@ -367,6 +368,7 @@ export default function AppLayout() {
                         href: null, // Hide from tab bar
                     }}
                 />
+                <Tabs.Screen name="paired" options={{ href: null }} />
                 <Tabs.Screen
                     name="chat/[id]"
                     options={{

apps/mobile/app/(app)/paired.tsx

@@ -0,0 +1,60 @@
+import { useEffect, useRef, useState } from "react";
+import { AccessibilityInfo, ActivityIndicator, StyleSheet, Text, TouchableOpacity, View } from "react-native";
+import { Ionicons } from "@expo/vector-icons";
+import { LinearGradient } from "expo-linear-gradient";
+import { router, useLocalSearchParams } from "expo-router";
+import { GradientBackground, GlassButton } from "../../src/components/ui";
+import { colors, gradients, spacing, typography } from "../../src/theme";
+import { useAuthStore, useMatchStore } from "../../src/store";
+import { markPairedUnlockSeen } from "../../src/lib/pairedUnlockSeen";
+import { Events } from "../../src/lib/analytics";
+
+export const POST_PAIR_ENTRY = "/(app)/swipe" as const;
+const bucket = (n: number) => n === 0 ? "0" : n <= 2 ? "1-2" : n <= 5 ? "3-5" : n <= 10 ? "6-10" : n <= 25 ? "11-25" : "26+";
+
+export default function PairedScreen() {
+    const { user, couple, partner } = useAuthStore();
+    const { newMatchesCount, fetchMatches } = useMatchStore();
+    const [ready, setReady] = useState(false);
+    const [loadedSuccessfully, setLoadedSuccessfully] = useState(false);
+    const { role: rawRole } = useLocalSearchParams<{ role?: "inviter" | "joiner" }>();
+    const heading = useRef<Text>(null);
+    const role = rawRole === "inviter" ? "inviter" : "joiner";
+
+    useEffect(() => {
+        let cancelled = false;
+        void fetchMatches(true).then((success) => {
+            if (cancelled) return;
+            setLoadedSuccessfully(success);
+            setReady(true);
+        });
+        return () => { cancelled = true; };
+    }, [fetchMatches]);
+    useEffect(() => {
+        if (!ready || !loadedSuccessfully || !user || !couple) return;
+        void markPairedUnlockSeen(user.id, couple.id);
+        Events.pairingUnlockViewed(role, bucket(newMatchesCount));
+        const timer = setTimeout(() => {
+            if (heading.current) AccessibilityInfo.setAccessibilityFocus(heading.current as never);
+        }, 250);
+        return () => clearTimeout(timer);
+    }, [ready, loadedSuccessfully, user, couple, newMatchesCount]);
+
+    const partnerName = partner?.name?.split(" ")[0] || "your partner";
+    const viewMatches = () => { Events.pairingUnlockCtaTapped(role, "view_matches"); router.replace("/(app)/matches"); };
+    const start = () => { Events.pairingUnlockCtaTapped(role, "start_session"); router.replace(POST_PAIR_ENTRY); };
+    const dismiss = () => { Events.pairingUnlockCtaTapped(role, "dismiss"); router.replace("/(app)"); };
+    if (!ready) {
+        return <GradientBackground><View style={styles.container}><ActivityIndicator size="large" color={colors.primary} /></View></GradientBackground>;
+    }
+    if (!loadedSuccessfully) {
+        return <GradientBackground><View style={styles.container}><Text style={styles.title}>We couldn't load your shared discoveries</Text><Text style={styles.body}>Check your connection and try again.</Text><GlassButton fullWidth onPress={() => { setReady(false); void fetchMatches(true).then((success) => { setLoadedSuccessfully(success); setReady(true); }); }} testID="paired-retry">Try again</GlassButton></View></GradientBackground>;
+    }
+    return <GradientBackground><View style={styles.container}>
+        <LinearGradient colors={gradients.primary as [string, string]} style={styles.icon}><Ionicons name="heart" size={42} color={colors.text} /></LinearGradient>
+        <Text ref={heading} accessibilityRole="header" style={styles.title}>You're paired with {partnerName}</Text>
+        {newMatchesCount > 0 ? <><Text style={styles.count}>{newMatchesCount} shared discover{newMatchesCount === 1 ? "y" : "ies"} ready to explore</Text><Text style={styles.body}>From answers you both gave before now.</Text><GlassButton fullWidth onPress={viewMatches} testID="paired-view-matches">See shared discoveries</GlassButton><GlassButton variant="secondary" fullWidth onPress={start} testID="paired-start-session">Start a session</GlassButton></> : <><Text style={styles.body}>Nothing is ready to compare yet. Answer a few questions and shared discoveries will appear here.</Text><GlassButton fullWidth onPress={start} testID="paired-start-session">Answer your first questions</GlassButton></>}
+        <TouchableOpacity onPress={dismiss} testID="paired-not-now" style={styles.dismiss}><Text style={styles.dismissText}>Not now</Text></TouchableOpacity>
+    </View></GradientBackground>;
+}
+const styles = StyleSheet.create({ container:{flex:1,justifyContent:"center",padding:spacing.xl,gap:spacing.lg,alignItems:"center"}, icon:{width:88,height:88,borderRadius:44,alignItems:"center",justifyContent:"center"}, title:{...typography.largeTitle,color:colors.text,textAlign:"center"}, count:{...typography.title2,color:colors.premium.rose,textAlign:"center"}, body:{...typography.callout,color:colors.textSecondary,textAlign:"center"}, dismiss:{minHeight:44,justifyContent:"center",paddingHorizontal:spacing.lg}, dismissText:{...typography.subhead,color:colors.textSecondary} });

apps/mobile/app/(app)/pairing.tsx

@@ -11,6 +11,7 @@ import {
     KeyboardAvoidingView,
     Platform,
     TouchableOpacity,
+    AccessibilityInfo,
 } from "react-native";
 import { Ionicons } from "@expo/vector-icons";
 import { LinearGradient } from "expo-linear-gradient";
@@ -27,26 +28,44 @@ import { colors, gradients, spacing, radius, typography, shadows } from "../../s
 import { isValidInviteCode, normalizeInviteCode } from "../../src/lib/inviteLink";
 import { getPendingInviteCode, clearPendingInviteCode } from "../../src/lib/pendingInviteCode";
 import { checkClipboardForInviteCode } from "../../src/lib/clipboardInviteOffer";
+import { ApiError } from "../../src/lib/apiClient";
+import { hasSeenPairedUnlock } from "../../src/lib/pairedUnlockSeen";
+import { PAIRING_PRIVACY_SUMMARY } from "../../src/lib/pairingPrivacyCopy";
 
 export default function PairingScreen() {
-    const { fetchCouple, fetchUser, couple, partner, sealedCount, isLoading: isAuthLoading } = useAuthStore();
-    const params = useLocalSearchParams<{ code?: string }>();
+    const { fetchCouple, fetchUser, couple, partner, sealedCount, user, isLoading: isAuthLoading } = useAuthStore();
+    const params = useLocalSearchParams<{ code?: string; incomingCode?: string }>();
     const [inviteCode, setInviteCode] = useState("");
     const [isSubmitting, setIsSubmitting] = useState(false);
     const [wasPrefilled, setWasPrefilled] = useState(false);
     const [clipboardOfferCode, setClipboardOfferCode] = useState<string | null>(null);
     const [prefillAttempted, setPrefillAttempted] = useState(false);
+    const [joinError, setJoinError] = useState<string | null>(null);
+    const [isPollOffline, setIsPollOffline] = useState(false);
+    const [isIncomingConflictDismissed, setIsIncomingConflictDismissed] = useState(false);
 
     // Redirect if already paired. Pairing claims both members' sealed answers and
     // computes matches server-side, so the matches store must refetch here too:
     // whichever partner lands on this redirect first would otherwise show stale,
     // pre-pairing matches until some unrelated screen happened to refresh it.
     useEffect(() => {
-        if (couple && partner) {
-            void useMatchStore.getState().fetchMatches(true);
-            router.replace("/(app)");
-        }
-    }, [couple, partner]);
+        if (!couple || !partner || !user) return;
+        let cancelled = false;
+        void (async () => {
+            if (typeof params.incomingCode === "string") {
+                await clearPendingInviteCode(user.id);
+                if (!cancelled) {
+                    Alert.alert("You're already paired", "That invite is for a different account. You're already paired with your partner.", [{ text: "OK", onPress: () => router.replace("/(app)") }]);
+                }
+                return;
+            }
+            const seen = await hasSeenPairedUnlock(user.id, couple.id);
+            if (!cancelled) {
+                router.replace(seen ? "/(app)" : "/(app)/paired" as any);
+            }
+        })();
+        return () => { cancelled = true; };
+    }, [couple, partner, user, params.incomingCode]);
 
     // One-time prefill: apply a code carried by a join link (route param), then
     // a stashed code from before sign-in, and only otherwise offer a clipboard
@@ -68,15 +87,15 @@ export default function PairingScreen() {
             const routeCode = typeof params.code === "string" ? normalizeInviteCode(params.code) : "";
             if (isValidInviteCode(routeCode)) {
                 await applyPrefill(routeCode);
-                await clearPendingInviteCode();
+                await clearPendingInviteCode(user?.id);
                 if (!cancelled) setPrefillAttempted(true);
                 return;
             }
 
-            const stashedCode = await getPendingInviteCode();
+            const stashedCode = user?.id ? await getPendingInviteCode(user.id) : null;
             if (stashedCode) {
                 await applyPrefill(stashedCode);
-                await clearPendingInviteCode();
+                await clearPendingInviteCode(user?.id);
                 if (!cancelled) setPrefillAttempted(true);
                 return;
             }
@@ -91,7 +110,7 @@ export default function PairingScreen() {
         return () => {
             cancelled = true;
         };
-    }, [couple, params.code, prefillAttempted]);
+    }, [couple, params.code, prefillAttempted, user?.id]);
 
     const acceptClipboardOffer = () => {
         if (!clipboardOfferCode) return;
@@ -113,7 +132,7 @@ export default function PairingScreen() {
 
         // Poll every 5 seconds as fallback
         const pollInterval = setInterval(() => {
-            fetchCouple();
+            void fetchCouple().then(() => setIsPollOffline(false)).catch(() => setIsPollOffline(true));
         }, 5000);
 
         return () => {
@@ -140,11 +159,12 @@ export default function PairingScreen() {
         // Validate invite code format (8 alphanumeric characters)
         const sanitizedCode = inviteCode.trim().toUpperCase();
         if (!/^[A-Z0-9]{8}$/.test(sanitizedCode)) {
-            Alert.alert("Invalid Code", "Please enter a valid 8-character invite code.");
+            setJoinError("That code isn't the right shape. Codes are 8 letters and numbers.");
             return;
         }
 
         setIsSubmitting(true);
+        setJoinError(null);
         try {
             await coupleApi.join(sanitizedCode);
 
@@ -152,14 +172,26 @@ export default function PairingScreen() {
             await fetchCouple(); // Fetch couple data
             // Joining claims both members' sealed answers and computes matches
             // server-side, so the joiner needs a fresh matches list too.
-            void useMatchStore.getState().fetchMatches(true);
+            await useMatchStore.getState().fetchMatches(true);
             Events.coupleJoined();
 
-            Alert.alert("Success", "You are now paired!", [
-                { text: "Let's Go", onPress: () => router.replace("/(app)") }
-            ]);
+            router.replace("/(app)/paired" as any);
         } catch (error: any) {
-            Alert.alert("Error", getPairingError(error));
+            const details = error instanceof ApiError ? error.details as { error?: { code?: string } } : undefined;
+            const code = details?.error?.code;
+            const message = code === "couple_full"
+                ? "That code is already in use by two people."
+                : code === "already_paired"
+                    ? "You're already paired."
+                    : code === "invalid_invite_code" && error.status === 404
+                        ? "We can't find that code. It may have been cancelled. Ask them to send a new invite."
+                        : code === "invalid_invite_code"
+                            ? "That code isn't the right shape. Codes are 8 letters and numbers."
+                            : /network|fetch|timeout/i.test(error?.message ?? "")
+                                ? "Can't reach Sauci. Check your connection and try again."
+                                : getPairingError(error);
+            setJoinError(message);
+            AccessibilityInfo.announceForAccessibility(message);
         } finally {
             setIsSubmitting(false);
         }
@@ -176,6 +208,7 @@ export default function PairingScreen() {
     const handleInviteCodeChange = (value: string) => {
         setWasPrefilled(false);
         setInviteCode(value);
+        setJoinError(null);
     };
 
     const shareMessage = couple?.invite_code
@@ -210,25 +243,57 @@ export default function PairingScreen() {
         Events.codeShared();
     };
 
+    const completeJoinedInvite = async () => {
+        await fetchUser();
+        await fetchCouple();
+        await useMatchStore.getState().fetchMatches(true);
+        router.replace("/(app)/paired" as any);
+    };
+
+    const cancelInvite = async (afterCancel?: () => Promise<void>) => {
+        try {
+            await coupleApi.cancelInvite();
+            await fetchUser();
+            await fetchCouple();
+            if (afterCancel) await afterCancel();
+            Events.pairingCancelled();
+            return true;
+        } catch (error: any) {
+            const apiCode = error instanceof ApiError
+                ? (error.details as { error?: { code?: string } } | undefined)?.error?.code
+                : undefined;
+            if (apiCode === "invite_already_joined") {
+                await completeJoinedInvite();
+                return false;
+            }
+            Alert.alert(
+                "Couldn't cancel invite",
+                "Your invite may still be active. Check your connection and try again.",
+                [{ text: "Not now", style: "cancel" }, { text: "Try again", onPress: () => { void cancelInvite(afterCancel); } }],
+            );
+            return false;
+        }
+    };
+
+    const copyInviteLink = async () => {
+        if (couple?.invite_code) {
+            await Clipboard.setStringAsync(`https://sauci.app/join/${couple.invite_code}`);
+        }
+    };
+
     const handleCancelPairing = async () => {
         Alert.alert(
-            "Cancel Pairing",
-            "Are you sure you want to cancel? Your invite code will be deleted.",
+            "Cancel this invite?",
+            "Your code will stop working, and the answers you've given since you created it will be deleted. Answers you gave before you created the code are kept.",
             [
-                { text: "Keep Waiting", style: "cancel" },
+                { text: "Keep invite", style: "cancel" },
                 {
-                    text: "Cancel Pairing",
+                    text: "Cancel invite",
                     style: "destructive",
                     onPress: async () => {
                         setIsSubmitting(true);
                         try {
-                            await coupleApi.cancel();
-
-                            await fetchUser();
-                            await fetchCouple();
-                            Events.pairingCancelled();
-                        } catch (error: any) {
-                            Alert.alert("Error", getPairingError(error));
+                            await cancelInvite();
                         } finally {
                             setIsSubmitting(false);
                         }
@@ -238,6 +303,35 @@ export default function PairingScreen() {
         );
     };
 
+    const incomingCode = typeof params.incomingCode === "string" && isValidInviteCode(normalizeInviteCode(params.incomingCode))
+        ? normalizeInviteCode(params.incomingCode)
+        : null;
+
+    const handleCancelOwnAndPrefill = () => {
+        if (!incomingCode) return;
+        Alert.alert(
+            "Cancel this invite?",
+            "Your code will stop working, and the answers you've given since you created it will be deleted. Answers you gave before you created the code are kept.",
+            [
+                { text: "Keep my invite", style: "cancel", onPress: () => void clearPendingInviteCode(user?.id) },
+                {
+                    text: "Cancel mine and join", style: "destructive", onPress: async () => {
+                        setIsSubmitting(true);
+                        try {
+                            await cancelInvite(async () => {
+                                setInviteCode(incomingCode);
+                                setWasPrefilled(true);
+                                await clearPendingInviteCode(user?.id);
+                            });
+                        } finally {
+                            setIsSubmitting(false);
+                        }
+                    },
+                },
+            ],
+        );
+    };
+
     if (isAuthLoading) {
         return (
             <GradientBackground>
@@ -265,10 +359,22 @@ export default function PairingScreen() {
                         >
                             <Ionicons name="arrow-back" size={24} color={colors.text} />
                         </TouchableOpacity>
-                        <Text style={styles.title}>Partner Code</Text>
+                        <Text style={styles.title}>Your invite</Text>
                     </Animated.View>
 
                     <View style={styles.content}>
+                        {incomingCode && !isIncomingConflictDismissed && (
+                            <GlassCard variant="elevated">
+                                <Text style={styles.conflictTitle}>Use this code instead?</Text>
+                                <Text style={styles.conflictBody}>You have your own invite out. To join theirs, cancel yours first. Your code will stop working, and answers you've given since you created it will be deleted.</Text>
+                                <GlassButton onPress={handleCancelOwnAndPrefill} variant="danger" fullWidth disabled={isSubmitting} testID="pairing-conflict-cancel-and-join">
+                                    Cancel mine and join
+                                </GlassButton>
+                                <TouchableOpacity onPress={() => { setIsIncomingConflictDismissed(true); void clearPendingInviteCode(user?.id); }} style={styles.cancelButton} testID="pairing-conflict-keep-own">
+                                    <Text style={styles.cancelButtonText}>Keep my invite</Text>
+                                </TouchableOpacity>
+                            </GlassCard>
+                        )}
                         {/* Icon */}
                         <Animated.View
                             entering={FadeInDown.delay(200).duration(500)}
@@ -283,7 +389,7 @@ export default function PairingScreen() {
                                 <Ionicons name="heart" size={40} color={colors.text} />
                             </LinearGradient>
                             <Text style={styles.subtitle}>
-                                Share this code with your partner to link your accounts
+                                Your answers are ready to compare when you both answer
                             </Text>
                         </Animated.View>
 
@@ -295,8 +401,7 @@ export default function PairingScreen() {
                             >
                                 <GlassCard variant="elevated">
                                     <Text style={styles.sealedCountText} testID="pairing-sealed-count">
-                                        You have already answered {sealedCount} question{sealedCount === 1 ? "" : "s"} about us.
-                                        They will unlock the moment your partner joins.
+                                        You have saved at least {sealedCount} private question{sealedCount === 1 ? "" : "s"}. Vote-style questions show shared outcomes; open text, audio, photo, and who-likely responses can be visible to you both after you each answer.
                                     </Text>
                                 </GlassCard>
                             </Animated.View>
@@ -313,12 +418,12 @@ export default function PairingScreen() {
                                     onPress={copyToClipboard}
                                     activeOpacity={0.7}
                                 >
-                                    <Text style={styles.code}>{couple.invite_code.toUpperCase()}</Text>
+                                    <Text style={styles.code} accessibilityLabel={`Invite code ${couple.invite_code.toUpperCase().split("").join(" ")}`}>{couple.invite_code.toUpperCase()}</Text>
                                     <View style={styles.copyIcon}>
                                         <Ionicons name="copy-outline" size={20} color={colors.textSecondary} />
                                     </View>
                                 </TouchableOpacity>
-                                <Text style={styles.tapToCopy}>Tap to copy</Text>
+                                <Text style={styles.tapToCopy}>Tap to copy your code</Text>
                             </GlassCard>
                         </Animated.View>
 
@@ -341,7 +446,7 @@ export default function PairingScreen() {
                                 size="lg"
                                 icon={<Ionicons name="share-outline" size={22} color={colors.text} />}
                             >
-                                Share Invite Code
+                                Share invite
                             </GlassButton>
                         </Animated.View>
 
@@ -358,6 +463,10 @@ export default function PairingScreen() {
                                 <Ionicons name="logo-whatsapp" size={20} color={colors.text} />
                                 <Text style={styles.quickShareLabel}>WhatsApp</Text>
                             </TouchableOpacity>
+                            <TouchableOpacity style={styles.quickShareButton} onPress={copyInviteLink} activeOpacity={0.7} testID="pairing-copy-link" accessibilityLabel="Copy invite link">
+                                <Ionicons name="link-outline" size={20} color={colors.text} />
+                                <Text style={styles.quickShareLabel}>Copy link</Text>
+                            </TouchableOpacity>
                         </Animated.View>
 
                         {/* Waiting indicator */}
@@ -367,8 +476,9 @@ export default function PairingScreen() {
                         >
                             <View style={styles.waitingBadge}>
                                 <ActivityIndicator size="small" color={colors.primary} />
-                                <Text style={styles.waitingText}>Waiting for your partner to join...</Text>
+                                <Text style={styles.waitingText}>Waiting for them to join</Text>
                             </View>
+                            {isPollOffline && <Text style={styles.warningText} accessibilityLiveRegion="polite">Can't reach Sauci right now. Your code still works.</Text>}
                         </Animated.View>
 
                         {/* Cancel Button */}
@@ -382,7 +492,7 @@ export default function PairingScreen() {
                                 style={styles.cancelButton}
                                 activeOpacity={0.7}
                             >
-                                <Text style={styles.cancelButtonText}>Cancel Pairing</Text>
+                                <Text style={styles.cancelButtonText}>Cancel invite</Text>
                             </TouchableOpacity>
                         </Animated.View>
                     </View>
@@ -427,7 +537,7 @@ export default function PairingScreen() {
                             <Ionicons name="link" size={40} color={colors.text} />
                         </LinearGradient>
                         <Text style={styles.subtitle}>
-                            Link with your partner to start matching
+                            {PAIRING_PRIVACY_SUMMARY}
                         </Text>
                     </Animated.View>
 
@@ -481,7 +591,12 @@ export default function PairingScreen() {
                             />
                             {wasPrefilled && (
                                 <Text style={styles.prefilledCaption}>
-                                    Code applied from your invite link
+                                    Code from your invite link
+                                </Text>
+                            )}
+                            {joinError && (
+                                <Text style={styles.joinError} accessibilityLiveRegion="polite" testID="pairing-join-error">
+                                    {joinError}
                                 </Text>
                             )}
                             <GlassButton
@@ -490,7 +605,7 @@ export default function PairingScreen() {
                                 loading={isSubmitting}
                                 fullWidth
                             >
-                                Join Partner
+                                Join your partner
                             </GlassButton>
                         </GlassCard>
                     </Animated.View>
@@ -516,7 +631,7 @@ export default function PairingScreen() {
                             disabled={isSubmitting}
                             fullWidth
                         >
-                            Create New Code
+                            Create invite code
                         </GlassButton>
                     </Animated.View>
                 </View>
@@ -723,6 +838,28 @@ const styles = StyleSheet.create({
         ...typography.subhead,
         color: colors.textTertiary,
     },
+    conflictTitle: {
+        ...typography.title3,
+        color: colors.text,
+        marginBottom: spacing.sm,
+    },
+    conflictBody: {
+        ...typography.callout,
+        color: colors.textSecondary,
+        marginBottom: spacing.md,
+    },
+    warningText: {
+        ...typography.caption1,
+        color: colors.warning,
+        textAlign: "center",
+        marginTop: spacing.sm,
+    },
+    joinError: {
+        ...typography.callout,
+        color: colors.error,
+        marginBottom: spacing.md,
+        textAlign: "center",
+    },
     cancelSection: {
         alignItems: "center",
         marginTop: spacing.xl,

apps/mobile/app/_layout.tsx

@@ -38,6 +38,7 @@ if (Platform.OS === "web" && typeof globalThis.window === "undefined") {
 }
 
 import { Stack, router, usePathname } from "expo-router";
+import { ReduceMotion, ReducedMotionConfig } from "react-native-reanimated";
 import { StatusBar } from "expo-status-bar";
 import { Ionicons } from "@expo/vector-icons";
 // GestureHandlerRootView is only needed on native platforms
@@ -130,12 +131,18 @@ export default function RootLayout() {
             const inviteLink = parseInviteLinkCode(url);
             if (inviteLink) {
                 Events.inviteLinkOpened(inviteLink.source);
-                await stashPendingInviteCode(inviteLink.code);
-
                 const { isAuthenticated, user } = useAuthStore.getState();
                 const onboardingPending = needsOnboarding(user?.onboarding_completed, user?.onboarding_version);
-                if (isAuthenticated && !onboardingPending && !user?.couple_id) {
-                    router.push({ pathname: "/(app)/pairing", params: { code: inviteLink.code } });
+                if (user?.couple_id) {
+                    await import("../src/lib/pendingInviteCode").then(({ clearPendingInviteCode }) => clearPendingInviteCode(user.id));
+                    if (user.couple_id) {
+                        router.push({ pathname: "/(app)/pairing", params: { incomingCode: inviteLink.code } });
+                    }
+                } else {
+                    await stashPendingInviteCode(inviteLink.code, user?.id ?? null);
+                    if (isAuthenticated && !onboardingPending) {
+                        router.push({ pathname: "/(app)/pairing", params: { code: inviteLink.code } });
+                    }
                 }
                 return;
             }
@@ -265,6 +272,7 @@ export default function RootLayout() {
     return (
         <QueryClientProvider client={queryClient}>
             <GestureHandlerRootView style={{ flex: 1 }}>
+                <ReducedMotionConfig mode={ReduceMotion.System} />
                 <StatusBar style="light" />
                 <Stack
                     screenOptions={{

apps/mobile/app/index.tsx

@@ -7,8 +7,7 @@ import { getPendingInviteCode } from "../src/lib/pendingInviteCode";
 
 export default function Index() {
     const { isAuthenticated, isLoading, user } = useAuthStore();
-    const [pendingCodeChecked, setPendingCodeChecked] = useState(false);
-    const [hasPendingInvite, setHasPendingInvite] = useState(false);
+    const [pendingInviteCheck, setPendingInviteCheck] = useState<{ userId: string; hasInvite: boolean } | null>(null);
 
     // Check once, after auth resolves, whether an invite code is waiting to be
     // applied (e.g. the user tapped a join link before signing in).
@@ -18,16 +17,17 @@ export default function Index() {
         }
 
         let cancelled = false;
-        getPendingInviteCode().then((code) => {
+        if (!user?.id) return;
+        setPendingInviteCheck(null);
+        getPendingInviteCode(user.id).then((code) => {
             if (cancelled) return;
-            setHasPendingInvite(!!code);
-            setPendingCodeChecked(true);
+            setPendingInviteCheck({ userId: user.id, hasInvite: !!code });
         });
 
         return () => {
             cancelled = true;
         };
-    }, [isLoading, isAuthenticated, user?.couple_id]);
+    }, [isLoading, isAuthenticated, user?.couple_id, user?.id]);
 
     // Show loading state while auth is being determined
     if (isLoading) {
@@ -56,7 +56,7 @@ export default function Index() {
     // Wait for the one-time pending invite code check before deciding the
     // route, so a stashed code from a join link is applied without an extra
     // trip through the home screen.
-    if (!pendingCodeChecked) {
+    if (pendingInviteCheck?.userId !== user?.id) {
         return (
             <View style={styles.container}>
                 <ActivityIndicator size="large" color="#e94560" />
@@ -64,7 +64,7 @@ export default function Index() {
         );
     }
 
-    if (hasPendingInvite) {
+    if (pendingInviteCheck?.hasInvite) {
         return <Redirect href="/(app)/pairing" />;
     }
 

apps/mobile/src/__tests__/lib/coupleApi.test.ts

@@ -12,12 +12,14 @@ describe("coupleApi", () => {
         await coupleApi.getState();
         await coupleApi.create();
         await coupleApi.join("ABCD2345");
+        await coupleApi.cancelInvite();
         await coupleApi.cancel();
 
         expect(request.mock.calls).toEqual([
             ["/v1/couple"],
             ["/v1/couple", { method: "POST", body: {} }],
             ["/v1/couple", { method: "POST", body: { invite_code: "ABCD2345" } }],
+            ["/v1/couple/invite", { method: "DELETE" }],
             ["/v1/couple", { method: "DELETE" }],
         ]);
     });

apps/mobile/src/__tests__/lib/inviteShareCopy.test.ts

@@ -1,22 +1,15 @@
 import { buildInviteShareMessage } from "../../lib/inviteShareCopy";
 
 describe("buildInviteShareMessage", () => {
-    it("leads with a plain invite when there are no sealed answers", () => {
-        const message = buildInviteShareMessage("ABCD1234", 0);
-        expect(message).toBe(
-            "Join me on Sauci! Tap this link to pair up instantly: https://sauci.app/join/ABCD1234 (or enter code ABCD1234 in the app)"
-        );
+    it("keeps a recoverable bare code in a separate sentence", () => {
+        const message = buildInviteShareMessage("AB12CD34", 3);
+        expect(message).toContain("https://sauci.app/join/AB12CD34");
+        expect(message).toContain("enter code AB12CD34 in Sauci");
+        expect(message).toContain("Vote-style questions show shared outcomes");
+        expect(message).toContain("open answers can be visible to us both after we each answer");
     });
 
-    it("leads with earned value and singular wording for exactly one sealed answer", () => {
-        const message = buildInviteShareMessage("ABCD1234", 1);
-        expect(message).toBe(
-            "Join me on Sauci! I have already answered 1 question about us. Tap this link to unlock them: https://sauci.app/join/ABCD1234 (or enter code ABCD1234 in the app)"
-        );
-    });
-
-    it("pluralises for more than one sealed answer", () => {
-        const message = buildInviteShareMessage("ABCD1234", 5);
-        expect(message).toContain("I have already answered 5 questions about us.");
+    it("does not claim a sealed outcome before answers exist", () => {
+        expect(buildInviteShareMessage("AB12CD34", 0)).not.toContain("unlock");
     });
 });

apps/mobile/src/__tests__/lib/pairedUnlockSeen.test.ts

@@ -0,0 +1,18 @@
+jest.mock("@react-native-async-storage/async-storage", () => ({
+    getItem: jest.fn(), setItem: jest.fn(), removeItem: jest.fn(),
+}));
+
+import AsyncStorage from "@react-native-async-storage/async-storage";
+import { clearPairedUnlockSeen, hasSeenPairedUnlock, markPairedUnlockSeen } from "../../lib/pairedUnlockSeen";
+
+describe("paired unlock state", () => {
+    it("is scoped to both account and couple", async () => {
+        (AsyncStorage.getItem as jest.Mock).mockResolvedValue("true");
+        await hasSeenPairedUnlock("user-a", "couple-a");
+        await markPairedUnlockSeen("user-a", "couple-a");
+        await clearPairedUnlockSeen("user-a", "couple-a");
+        expect(AsyncStorage.getItem).toHaveBeenCalledWith("paired_unlock_seen_user-a_couple-a");
+        expect(AsyncStorage.setItem).toHaveBeenCalledWith("paired_unlock_seen_user-a_couple-a", "true");
+        expect(AsyncStorage.removeItem).toHaveBeenCalledWith("paired_unlock_seen_user-a_couple-a");
+    });
+});

apps/mobile/src/__tests__/lib/pairingPrivacyCopy.test.ts

@@ -0,0 +1,8 @@
+import { PAIRING_PRIVACY_SUMMARY } from "../../lib/pairingPrivacyCopy";
+
+describe("PAIRING_PRIVACY_SUMMARY", () => {
+    it("explains what each response style reveals before a user answers", () => {
+        expect(PAIRING_PRIVACY_SUMMARY).toContain("Vote-style answers reveal shared outcomes");
+        expect(PAIRING_PRIVACY_SUMMARY).toContain("Text, audio, photo, and who-likely responses are shown after you both answer");
+    });
+});

apps/mobile/src/__tests__/lib/pendingInviteCode.test.ts

@@ -10,20 +10,40 @@ describe("pendingInviteCode", () => {
         await AsyncStorage.clear();
     });
 
-    it("stashes, retrieves, and clears a valid code", async () => {
-        await stashPendingInviteCode("abcd1234");
-        await expect(getPendingInviteCode()).resolves.toBe("ABCD1234");
+    it("stashes, retrieves, and clears a valid code for its owner", async () => {
+        await stashPendingInviteCode("abcd1234", "user-a");
+        await expect(getPendingInviteCode("user-a")).resolves.toBe("ABCD1234");
 
-        await clearPendingInviteCode();
-        await expect(getPendingInviteCode()).resolves.toBeNull();
+        await clearPendingInviteCode("user-a");
+        await expect(getPendingInviteCode("user-a")).resolves.toBeNull();
     });
 
     it("returns null when nothing has been stashed", async () => {
-        await expect(getPendingInviteCode()).resolves.toBeNull();
+        await expect(getPendingInviteCode("user-a")).resolves.toBeNull();
     });
 
     it("ignores a stashed value that no longer matches the invite code shape", async () => {
         await AsyncStorage.setItem("pending_invite_code", "not-a-code");
-        await expect(getPendingInviteCode()).resolves.toBeNull();
+        await expect(getPendingInviteCode("user-a")).resolves.toBeNull();
+    });
+
+    it("does not leak a claimed invite to a later account", async () => {
+        await stashPendingInviteCode("abcd1234");
+        await expect(getPendingInviteCode("user-a")).resolves.toBe("ABCD1234");
+        await expect(getPendingInviteCode("user-b")).resolves.toBeNull();
+
+        await clearPendingInviteCode("user-b");
+        await expect(getPendingInviteCode("user-a")).resolves.toBe("ABCD1234");
+    });
+
+    it("lets only one concurrently arriving account claim a pre-auth invite", async () => {
+        await stashPendingInviteCode("abcd1234");
+
+        const [first, second] = await Promise.all([
+            getPendingInviteCode("user-a"),
+            getPendingInviteCode("user-b"),
+        ]);
+
+        expect([first, second].filter(Boolean)).toHaveLength(1);
     });
 });

apps/mobile/src/__tests__/stores/authStore.test.ts

@@ -8,6 +8,7 @@ import { useMessageStore } from "@/store/messageStore";
 import { usePacksStore } from "@/store/packsStore";
 import { useSubscriptionStore } from "@/store/subscriptionStore";
 import type { Profile } from "@/types";
+import AsyncStorage from "@react-native-async-storage/async-storage";
 
 const profile = {
     id: "me",
@@ -259,6 +260,7 @@ describe("authStore", () => {
 
     it("clears sealed answers during an explicit sign-out", async () => {
         useAuthStore.setState({ user: profile, sealedCount: 3, isAuthenticated: true } as any);
+        await AsyncStorage.setItem("pending_invite_code", "ABCD1234");
 
         await useAuthStore.getState().signOut();
 
@@ -267,6 +269,7 @@ describe("authStore", () => {
             sealedCount: 0,
             isAuthenticated: false,
         });
+        await expect(AsyncStorage.getItem("pending_invite_code")).resolves.toBeNull();
     });
 
     it("clears sealed answers when the auth listener clears the user", () => {
@@ -281,6 +284,14 @@ describe("authStore", () => {
         });
     });
 
+    it("clears a pending invite when the auth listener clears the user", async () => {
+        await AsyncStorage.setItem("pending_invite_code", "ABCD1234");
+        useAuthStore.setState({ user: profile, isAuthenticated: true } as any);
+        useAuthStore.getState().setUser(null);
+        await new Promise((resolve) => setTimeout(resolve, 0));
+        await expect(AsyncStorage.getItem("pending_invite_code")).resolves.toBeNull();
+    });
+
     it('keeps a pending Apple name scoped to its original subject', () => {
         useAuthStore.getState().setPendingAppleDisplayName({ userId: 'apple-user', name: 'Ada Lovelace' });
         useAuthStore.getState().clearPendingAppleDisplayName('other-user');

apps/mobile/src/__tests__/stores/matchStore.test.ts

@@ -50,10 +50,11 @@ describe('matchStore API behavior', () => {
             let release: (page: { matches: unknown[]; totalCount: number }) => void = () => undefined;
             (apiClient.get as jest.Mock).mockReturnValueOnce(new Promise(resolve => { release = resolve; }));
             const inFlight = useMatchStore.getState().fetchMatches(true);
-            await useMatchStore.getState().fetchMatches(true, { silent: true });
+            const overlapping = useMatchStore.getState().fetchMatches(true, { silent: true });
             expect(apiClient.get).toHaveBeenCalledTimes(1);
             release({ matches: [], totalCount: 0 });
             await inFlight;
+            await overlapping;
 
             (apiClient.get as jest.Mock).mockClear();
             useMatchStore.setState({ hasMore: false });
@@ -61,6 +62,21 @@ describe('matchStore API behavior', () => {
             expect(apiClient.get).not.toHaveBeenCalled();
         });
 
+        it('makes overlapping callers await the same failed refresh', async () => {
+            jest.spyOn(console, 'error').mockImplementation(() => undefined);
+            let reject!: (error: Error) => void;
+            (apiClient.get as jest.Mock).mockImplementationOnce(() => new Promise((_, rejectRequest) => { reject = rejectRequest; }));
+
+            const first = useMatchStore.getState().fetchMatches(true);
+            const second = useMatchStore.getState().fetchMatches(true, { silent: true });
+            expect(apiClient.get).toHaveBeenCalledTimes(1);
+
+            reject(new Error('network'));
+            await expect(first).resolves.toBe(false);
+            await expect(second).resolves.toBe(false);
+            expect(useMatchStore.getState().error).toBe('Failed to load matches');
+        });
+
         it('appends and deduplicates later pages', async () => {
             useMatchStore.setState({ matches: [match('existing')], page: 1, hasMore: true, newMatchesCount: 1, totalCount: 25 });
             const page = [match('existing'), ...Array.from({ length: 19 }, (_, index) => match(`m${index}`, false))];

apps/mobile/src/features/swipe/components/SwipeSealedAnswersBanner.tsx

@@ -21,11 +21,13 @@ export const SwipeSealedAnswersBanner = ({ sealedCount, onInvitePress }: SwipeSe
             onPress={onInvitePress}
             activeOpacity={0.8}
             testID="swipe-sealed-answers-banner"
+            accessibilityLabel={`Invite your partner to compare ${sealedCount} sealed answers`}
         >
             <Ionicons name="lock-closed" size={16} color={colors.premium.rose} />
-            <Text style={styles.text}>
-                {sealedCount} answer{sealedCount === 1 ? "" : "s"} sealed. Your partner unlocks {sealedCount === 1 ? "it" : "them"} when they join.
-            </Text>
+            <View style={styles.copy}>
+                <Text style={styles.title}>{sealedCount} answer{sealedCount === 1 ? "" : "s"} sealed for your partner</Text>
+                <Text style={styles.text}>When you both answer, your shared discoveries are ready to compare.</Text>
+            </View>
             <Text style={styles.cta}>Invite</Text>
         </TouchableOpacity>
     );
@@ -38,11 +40,15 @@ const styles = StyleSheet.create({
         gap: spacing.sm,
         marginHorizontal: spacing.md,
         marginBottom: spacing.sm,
-        paddingVertical: spacing.sm,
+        paddingVertical: spacing.md,
         paddingHorizontal: spacing.md,
-        borderRadius: radius.full,
+        borderRadius: radius.lg,
         backgroundColor: colors.backgroundLight,
+        borderWidth: 1,
+        borderColor: colors.border,
     },
+    copy: { flex: 1, gap: 2 },
+    title: { ...typography.subhead, color: colors.text, fontWeight: "700" },
     text: {
         ...typography.caption1,
         color: colors.textSecondary,

apps/mobile/src/lib/analytics.ts

@@ -281,6 +281,18 @@ export const Events = {
   inviteLinkOpened: (source: "universal_link" | "scheme" | "clipboard") =>
     logEvent("invite_link_opened", { source }),
   pairingCodePrefilled: () => logEvent("pairing_code_prefilled"),
+  invitePromptViewed: (surface: "swipe_banner" | "pairing_waiting" | "swipe_no_partner", sealedBucket: string) => logEvent("invite_prompt_viewed", { surface, sealed_bucket: sealedBucket }),
+  inviteShareOpened: (surface: "pairing_waiting", channel: "system" | "sms" | "whatsapp" | "copy_link" | "copy_code") => logEvent("invite_share_opened", { surface, channel }),
+  pairingJoinAttempted: (codeSource: "link" | "stash" | "clipboard" | "manual") => logEvent("pairing_join_attempted", { code_source: codeSource }),
+  pairingJoinFailed: (reason: "invalid_shape" | "code_not_found" | "couple_full" | "already_paired" | "network" | "unknown", codeSource: "link" | "stash" | "clipboard" | "manual") => logEvent("pairing_join_failed", { reason, code_source: codeSource }),
+  pairingCompleted: (role: "inviter" | "joiner", codeSource: "link" | "stash" | "clipboard" | "manual", hadSealed: boolean) => logEvent("pairing_completed", { role, code_source: codeSource, had_sealed: hadSealed }),
+  pairingUnlockViewed: (role: "inviter" | "joiner", unlockedBucket: string) => logEvent("pairing_unlock_viewed", { role, unlocked_bucket: unlockedBucket }),
+  pairingUnlockCtaTapped: (role: "inviter" | "joiner", cta: "view_matches" | "start_session" | "dismiss") => logEvent("pairing_unlock_cta_tapped", { role, cta }),
+  pairingCancelPrompted: (surface: "waiting" | "conflict") => logEvent("pairing_cancel_prompted", { surface }),
+  clipboardInviteOfferShown: () => logEvent("clipboard_invite_offer_shown"),
+  clipboardInviteOfferResolved: (outcome: "accepted" | "dismissed") => logEvent("clipboard_invite_offer_resolved", { outcome }),
+  inviteConflictShown: (state: "already_paired" | "waiting_own_code") => logEvent("invite_conflict_shown", { state }),
+  inviteConflictResolved: (state: "already_paired" | "waiting_own_code", choice: "cancel_and_join" | "keep_own" | "acknowledged") => logEvent("invite_conflict_resolved", { state, choice }),
 
   // Quiz events
   quizStarted: () => logEvent("quiz_started"),

apps/mobile/src/lib/coupleApi.ts

@@ -24,4 +24,5 @@ export const coupleApi = {
         body: { invite_code: inviteCode },
     }),
     cancel: () => apiRequest<CoupleMutationResponse>("/v1/couple", { method: "DELETE" }),
+    cancelInvite: () => apiRequest<CoupleMutationResponse>("/v1/couple/invite", { method: "DELETE" }),
 };

apps/mobile/src/lib/inviteShareCopy.ts

@@ -5,10 +5,10 @@
  * the recipient a concrete reason to join right away.
  */
 export function buildInviteShareMessage(inviteCode: string, sealedCount: number): string {
-    const link = `https://sauci.app/join/${inviteCode} (or enter code ${inviteCode} in the app)`;
+    const link = `https://sauci.app/join/${inviteCode}`;
     if (sealedCount > 0) {
         const noun = sealedCount === 1 ? "question" : "questions";
-        return `Join me on Sauci! I have already answered ${sealedCount} ${noun} about us. Tap this link to unlock them: ${link}`;
+        return `Join me on Sauci! I've saved ${sealedCount} ${noun} for us to compare. Vote-style questions show shared outcomes; open answers can be visible to us both after we each answer. ${link} If the link does not open the app, enter code ${inviteCode} in Sauci.`;
     }
-    return `Join me on Sauci! Tap this link to pair up instantly: ${link}`;
+    return `Join me on Sauci! ${link} If the link does not open the app, enter code ${inviteCode} in Sauci.`;
 }

apps/mobile/src/lib/pairedUnlockSeen.ts

@@ -0,0 +1,15 @@
+import AsyncStorage from "@react-native-async-storage/async-storage";
+
+const keyFor = (userId: string, coupleId: string) => `paired_unlock_seen_${userId}_${coupleId}`;
+
+export async function hasSeenPairedUnlock(userId: string, coupleId: string): Promise<boolean> {
+    return (await AsyncStorage.getItem(keyFor(userId, coupleId))) === "true";
+}
+
+export async function markPairedUnlockSeen(userId: string, coupleId: string): Promise<void> {
+    await AsyncStorage.setItem(keyFor(userId, coupleId), "true");
+}
+
+export async function clearPairedUnlockSeen(userId: string, coupleId: string | null): Promise<void> {
+    if (coupleId) await AsyncStorage.removeItem(keyFor(userId, coupleId));
+}

apps/mobile/src/lib/pairingPrivacyCopy.ts

@@ -0,0 +1 @@
+export const PAIRING_PRIVACY_SUMMARY = "Vote-style answers reveal shared outcomes. Text, audio, photo, and who-likely responses are shown after you both answer.";

apps/mobile/src/lib/pendingInviteCode.ts

@@ -6,31 +6,73 @@ import AsyncStorage from "@react-native-async-storage/async-storage";
 import { isValidInviteCode, normalizeInviteCode } from "./inviteLink";
 
 const STORAGE_KEY = "pending_invite_code";
+let storageOperation = Promise.resolve();
+
+function withStorageLock<T>(operation: () => Promise<T>): Promise<T> {
+    const next = storageOperation.then(operation, operation);
+    storageOperation = next.then(() => undefined, () => undefined);
+    return next;
+}
+
+interface PendingInviteCode {
+    code: string;
+    /** The account that received or first claimed this deferred invite. */
+    userId: string | null;
+}
+
+function parsePendingInviteCode(value: string | null): PendingInviteCode | null {
+    if (!value) return null;
+
+    // Treat legacy, unscoped values as a pre-auth hand-off. The first account
+    // that intentionally enters the pairing flow claims it below.
+    if (isValidInviteCode(value)) return { code: normalizeInviteCode(value), userId: null };
 
-export async function stashPendingInviteCode(code: string): Promise<void> {
     try {
-        await AsyncStorage.setItem(STORAGE_KEY, normalizeInviteCode(code));
+        const parsed = JSON.parse(value) as Partial<PendingInviteCode>;
+        if (typeof parsed.code !== "string" || !isValidInviteCode(parsed.code)) return null;
+        if (parsed.userId !== null && typeof parsed.userId !== "string") return null;
+        return { code: normalizeInviteCode(parsed.code), userId: parsed.userId ?? null };
+    } catch {
+        return null;
+    }
+}
+
+export async function stashPendingInviteCode(code: string, userId: string | null = null): Promise<void> {
+    try {
+        await withStorageLock(() => AsyncStorage.setItem(STORAGE_KEY, JSON.stringify({ code: normalizeInviteCode(code), userId } satisfies PendingInviteCode)));
     } catch (error) {
         console.error("Error stashing pending invite code:", error);
     }
 }
 
-export async function getPendingInviteCode(): Promise<string | null> {
+export async function getPendingInviteCode(userId: string): Promise<string | null> {
     try {
-        const value = await AsyncStorage.getItem(STORAGE_KEY);
-        if (value && isValidInviteCode(value)) {
-            return normalizeInviteCode(value);
-        }
-        return null;
+        return await withStorageLock(async () => {
+            const pending = parsePendingInviteCode(await AsyncStorage.getItem(STORAGE_KEY));
+            if (!pending || (pending.userId && pending.userId !== userId)) return null;
+
+            // A hand-off made before sign-in becomes owned by the account that
+            // reaches pairing. Later account switches cannot consume it.
+            if (!pending.userId) {
+                await AsyncStorage.setItem(STORAGE_KEY, JSON.stringify({ ...pending, userId }));
+            }
+            return pending.code;
+        });
     } catch (error) {
         console.error("Error reading pending invite code:", error);
         return null;
     }
 }
 
-export async function clearPendingInviteCode(): Promise<void> {
+export async function clearPendingInviteCode(userId?: string): Promise<void> {
     try {
-        await AsyncStorage.removeItem(STORAGE_KEY);
+        await withStorageLock(async () => {
+            if (userId) {
+                const pending = parsePendingInviteCode(await AsyncStorage.getItem(STORAGE_KEY));
+                if (pending?.userId && pending.userId !== userId) return;
+            }
+            await AsyncStorage.removeItem(STORAGE_KEY);
+        });
     } catch (error) {
         console.error("Error clearing pending invite code:", error);
     }

apps/mobile/src/store/authStore.ts

@@ -5,6 +5,8 @@ import { coupleApi } from "../lib/coupleApi";
 import { profileSettingsApi } from "../lib/profileSettingsApi";
 import { syncTimezone } from "../lib/reportedTimezone";
 import { Events } from "../lib/analytics";
+import { clearPairedUnlockSeen } from "../lib/pairedUnlockSeen";
+import { clearPendingInviteCode } from "../lib/pendingInviteCode";
 import type { Profile, Couple } from "@/types";
 
 export interface AuthSessionSnapshot {
@@ -201,6 +203,15 @@ export const useAuthStore = create<AuthState>((set, get) => ({
     signOut: async () => {
         Events.signOut();
 
+        // The paired-unlock presentation is scoped to this account and current
+        // relationship. Remove it before local identity state is cleared.
+        const unlockUserId = get().user?.id;
+        const unlockCoupleId = get().couple?.id ?? get().user?.couple_id ?? null;
+        if (unlockUserId) {
+            await clearPairedUnlockSeen(unlockUserId, unlockCoupleId);
+        }
+        await clearPendingInviteCode(unlockUserId);
+
         // Clear local state FIRST to ensure UI updates even if Supabase call fails
          set({
              user: null,
@@ -236,6 +247,8 @@ export const useAuthStore = create<AuthState>((set, get) => ({
     },
 
     setUser: (user) => {
+        const priorUserId = user === null ? get().user?.id : undefined;
+        const priorCoupleId = user === null ? (get().couple?.id ?? get().user?.couple_id ?? null) : null;
         set({
             user,
             isAuthenticated: !!user,
@@ -246,6 +259,10 @@ export const useAuthStore = create<AuthState>((set, get) => ({
         });
         // Clear other stores when user signs out
         if (user === null) {
+            void clearPendingInviteCode(priorUserId);
+            if (priorUserId) {
+                void clearPairedUnlockSeen(priorUserId, priorCoupleId);
+            }
             const { useMatchStore, usePacksStore, useMessageStore, useSubscriptionStore, useNotificationPreferencesStore, useStreakStore, useResponsesStore, useQuizStore } = getOtherStores();
             useMatchStore.getState().clearMatches();
             usePacksStore.getState().clearPacks();

apps/mobile/src/store/matchStore.ts

@@ -28,6 +28,7 @@ export interface FetchOptions { silent?: boolean }
 // account's request for the same key, and a stale generation's `finally` must not
 // clear an entry a newer generation just claimed.
 const inFlight = new Map<string, number>();
+const activeInFlight = new Map<string, { generation: number; promise: Promise<boolean> }>();
 
 // Rate limit: 12 hours in milliseconds
 const NUDGE_COOLDOWN_MS = 12 * 60 * 60 * 1000;
@@ -80,7 +81,7 @@ interface MatchState {
      */
     generation: number;
     // Methods
-    fetchMatches: (refresh?: boolean, options?: FetchOptions) => Promise<void>;
+    fetchMatches: (refresh?: boolean, options?: FetchOptions) => Promise<boolean>;
     markAsSeen: (matchId: string) => Promise<void>;
     markAllAsSeen: () => Promise<void>;
     addMatch: (match: Match) => void;
@@ -130,18 +131,20 @@ export const useMatchStore = create<MatchState>((set, get) => ({
     isNudging: false,
     generation: 0,
 
-    fetchMatches: async (refresh = false, options = {}) => {
+    fetchMatches: (refresh = false, options = {}) => {
         const coupleId = useAuthStore.getState().user?.couple_id;
         const myGeneration = get().generation;
 
         // Early return if no couple - user isn't paired yet
         if (!coupleId) {
             set({ matches: [], newMatchesCount: 0, totalCount: 0, isLoading: false, isRefreshing: false });
-            return;
+            return Promise.resolve(false);
         }
 
         const state = get();
-        if (inFlight.get('active') === myGeneration || (state.isLoadingMore && !refresh)) return;
+        const activeRequest = activeInFlight.get('active');
+        if (activeRequest?.generation === myGeneration) return activeRequest.promise;
+        if (state.isLoadingMore && !refresh) return Promise.resolve(false);
 
         // Nothing on screen yet is the only case that warrants blanking the list
         // for a spinner; every other refresh leaves the cached rows in place.
@@ -149,17 +152,17 @@ export const useMatchStore = create<MatchState>((set, get) => ({
         if (refresh) {
             set({ isLoading: initial, isRefreshing: !initial && !options.silent, error: null, page: 0, hasMore: true });
         } else {
-            if (!state.hasMore) return;
+            if (!state.hasMore) return Promise.resolve(false);
             set({ isLoadingMore: true });
         }
 
-        inFlight.set('active', myGeneration);
-        try {
+        const request = (async (): Promise<boolean> => {
+          try {
             const currentPage = refresh ? 0 : state.page;
             const result = await apiClient.get<{ matches: Match[]; totalCount: number | null; hasMore?: boolean }>(`/v1/matches?page=${currentPage}&limit=${BATCH_SIZE}`);
             // A sign-out/account switch that happened while this request was in
             // flight must not let its response populate the next account's store.
-            if (get().generation !== myGeneration) return;
+            if (get().generation !== myGeneration) return false;
             const nonArchivedMatches = result.matches;
             const totalCount = result.totalCount;
             const archivedMatchIds = state.archivedMatchIds;
@@ -174,7 +177,7 @@ export const useMatchStore = create<MatchState>((set, get) => ({
                 } else {
                     set({ isLoadingMore: false, hasMore: false });
                 }
-                return;
+                return true;
             }
 
             const sortedData = nonArchivedMatches;
@@ -208,14 +211,19 @@ export const useMatchStore = create<MatchState>((set, get) => ({
                 loadedAt,
                 };
             });
+            return true;
         } catch (err) {
-            if (get().generation !== myGeneration) return;
+            if (get().generation !== myGeneration) return false;
             console.error("Error fetching matches:", err);
             set({ error: "Failed to load matches", isLoading: false, isRefreshing: false, isLoadingMore: false });
+            return false;
         } finally {
             // An old generation's cleanup must not delete a newer generation's guard.
-            if (inFlight.get('active') === myGeneration) inFlight.delete('active');
+            if (activeInFlight.get('active')?.generation === myGeneration) activeInFlight.delete('active');
         }
+        })();
+        activeInFlight.set('active', { generation: myGeneration, promise: request });
+        return request;
     },
 
     markAsSeen: async (matchId) => {
@@ -296,6 +304,7 @@ clearMatches: () => {
         // A request belonging to the signed-out user must not suppress the next
         // one: the guard is a duplicate-request check, not a lock on the data.
         inFlight.clear();
+        activeInFlight.clear();
     },
 
     // Archive methods

apps/web/app/PostHogPageView.test.ts

@@ -0,0 +1,46 @@
+import { readFile } from 'node:fs/promises'
+import { describe, expect, it } from 'vitest'
+import { redactInvitePaths } from './providers'
+
+const pageViewPath = new URL('./PostHogPageView.tsx', import.meta.url)
+const providerPath = new URL('./providers.tsx', import.meta.url)
+
+describe('PostHog invite privacy boundary', () => {
+  it('does not send a global page view for invite routes', async () => {
+    const source = await readFile(pageViewPath, 'utf8')
+
+    expect(source).toContain("pathname?.startsWith('/join/')")
+    expect(source.indexOf("pathname?.startsWith('/join/')")).toBeLessThan(source.indexOf("posthog.capture('$pageview'"))
+  })
+
+  it('disables automatic page-leave capture and redacts join URLs', async () => {
+    const source = await readFile(providerPath, 'utf8')
+
+    expect(source).toContain('capture_pageview: false')
+    expect(source).toContain('capture_pageleave: false')
+    expect(source).toContain('get_current_url: redactInviteUrl')
+    expect(source).toContain('before_send: redactInvitePathsBeforeSend')
+    expect(source).toContain("url.pathname.startsWith('/join/')")
+    expect(source).toContain('/join/[invite]')
+  })
+
+  it('removes an invite code from every serialized URL or path property', () => {
+    const inviteCode = 'A4K9BT2Q'
+    const event = {
+      event: 'join_page_viewed',
+      properties: {
+        $current_url: `https://sauci.app/join/${inviteCode}`,
+        $pathname: `/join/${inviteCode}`,
+        $referrer: `https://sauci.app/join/${inviteCode}?source=message`,
+        $session_entry_url: `https://sauci.app/join/${inviteCode}`,
+        nested: { previous_path: `/join/${inviteCode}` },
+      },
+    }
+
+    const serialized = JSON.stringify(redactInvitePaths(event))
+
+    expect(serialized).not.toContain(inviteCode)
+    expect(serialized).toContain('/join/[invite]')
+    expect(serialized).toContain('join_page_viewed')
+  })
+})

apps/web/app/PostHogPageView.tsx

@@ -10,6 +10,10 @@ function PostHogPageViewInner() {
   const posthog = usePostHog()
 
   useEffect(() => {
+    // Invite codes are bearer-like tokens. The join route emits its own
+    // aggregate-only event, so it must never produce a URL-bearing page view.
+    if (pathname?.startsWith('/join/')) return
+
     if (pathname && posthog) {
       let url = window.origin + pathname
       if (searchParams.toString()) {

apps/web/app/globals.css

@@ -70,6 +70,13 @@ body {
   border-radius: 16px;
 }
 
+/* Solid pairing surface. Join links must not rely on glass or blur. */
+.surface-solid {
+  background: #17171c;
+  border: 1px solid #303036;
+  border-radius: 16px;
+}
+
 /* Gradient text */
 .gradient-text {
   background: linear-gradient(135deg, #e94560 0%, #9b59b6 100%);

apps/web/app/join/[code]/JoinClient.test.ts

@@ -12,12 +12,13 @@ describe('/join/[code] JoinClient', () => {
     expect(source).not.toMatch(/fetch\(/)
   })
 
-  it('attempts the app scheme link and shows the raw code fallback', async () => {
+  it('only attempts the app scheme link after an explicit Open in Sauci action', async () => {
     const source = await readFile(componentPath, 'utf8')
 
     expect(source).toContain('buildInviteSchemeUrl')
+    expect(source).toContain('Open in Sauci')
+    expect(source.indexOf('const handleOpenInApp')).toBeLessThan(source.indexOf('window.location.href = buildInviteSchemeUrl'))
     expect(source).toContain('invite-code-display')
-    expect(source).toContain('Copy code')
   })
 
   it('copies only the raw code, not a share message', async () => {
@@ -37,13 +38,53 @@ describe('/join/[code] JoinClient', () => {
     const source = await readFile(componentPath, 'utf8')
 
     expect(source).toContain("posthog?.capture('join_page_viewed'")
-    expect(source).toContain("posthog?.capture('join_page_code_copied')")
+    expect(source).toContain("posthog?.capture('join_page_code_copied'")
     expect(source).toContain("posthog?.capture('join_page_store_button_clicked'")
+    expect(source).toContain("posthog?.capture('join_page_open_app_clicked'")
+    expect(source).toContain("posthog?.capture('join_page_open_app_fallback_shown'")
+    expect(source).toContain("posthog?.capture('join_page_offline_shown'")
+  })
+
+  it('does not put an invite code in a PostHog payload', async () => {
+    const source = await readFile(componentPath, 'utf8')
+
+    expect(source).not.toMatch(/posthog\?\.capture\([^)]*normalizedCode/)
+    expect(source).not.toMatch(/posthog\?\.capture\([^)]*\bcode\s*:/)
+  })
+
+  it('uses the required recovery and accessibility states', async () => {
+    const source = await readFile(componentPath, 'utf8')
+
+    expect(source).toContain('Copy this before you install')
+    expect(source).toContain('setTimeout(() =>')
+    expect(source).toContain('}, 1500)')
+    expect(source).toContain("document.visibilityState === 'visible'")
+    expect(source).toContain("aria-live=\"polite\"")
+    expect(source).toContain('navigator.onLine')
+    expect(source).toContain('surface-solid')
+    expect(source).not.toContain('glass-light')
+  })
+
+  it('describes comparison and open-answer visibility truthfully', async () => {
+    const source = await readFile(componentPath, 'utf8')
+
+    expect(source).toContain('Vote-style questions reveal shared outcomes')
+    expect(source).toContain('open text, audio, photo, and who-likely responses can be visible to you both after you have each answered.')
+    expect(source).not.toContain('Neither of you sees the other’s individual answers.')
+  })
+
+  it('uses PostHog-recognized selectors to exclude the invite-code DOM from capture and replay', async () => {
+    const source = await readFile(componentPath, 'utf8')
+
+    expect(source).toContain('ph-no-capture ph-mask')
+    expect(source).not.toContain('data-ph-no-capture')
+    expect(source).not.toContain('data-ph-mask')
   })
 
   it('shows a clear fallback message for a malformed invite code', async () => {
     const source = await readFile(componentPath, 'utf8')
 
     expect(source).toContain('Invite link not recognized')
+    expect(source).not.toContain('has expired')
   })
 })

apps/web/app/join/[code]/JoinClient.tsx

@@ -7,35 +7,66 @@ import { usePostHog } from 'posthog-js/react'
 import { isValidInviteCode, normalizeInviteCode } from '../../../lib/inviteCode'
 import { APP_STORE_URL, PLAY_STORE_URL, buildInviteSchemeUrl } from '../../../lib/appLinks'
 
+type Platform = 'ios' | 'android' | 'desktop' | 'other'
+
+function getPlatform(): Platform {
+  if (typeof navigator === 'undefined') return 'other'
+
+  const userAgent = navigator.userAgent
+
+  if (/iPad|iPhone|iPod/i.test(userAgent)) return 'ios'
+  if (/Android/i.test(userAgent)) return 'android'
+  if (/Macintosh|Windows|Linux/i.test(userAgent)) return 'desktop'
+
+  return 'other'
+}
+
 export function JoinClient({ code }: { code: string }) {
   const posthog = usePostHog()
   const [copied, setCopied] = useState(false)
-  const hasAttemptedOpen = useRef(false)
+  const [isOnline, setIsOnline] = useState(true)
+  const [openAppFallbackVisible, setOpenAppFallbackVisible] = useState(false)
+  const [platform, setPlatform] = useState<Platform>('other')
+  const fallbackTimer = useRef<ReturnType<typeof setTimeout> | null>(null)
+  const hasCopiedCode = useRef(false)
 
   const isValid = isValidInviteCode(code)
   const normalizedCode = useMemo(() => (isValid ? normalizeInviteCode(code) : ''), [isValid, code])
 
-  // Track the page view once. Fires regardless of code validity so we can
-  // see broken/expired links in the funnel too.
   useEffect(() => {
-    posthog?.capture('join_page_viewed', { code_valid: isValid })
+    const detectedPlatform = getPlatform()
+    setPlatform(detectedPlatform)
+    posthog?.capture('join_page_viewed', { code_valid: isValid, platform: detectedPlatform })
     // eslint-disable-next-line react-hooks/exhaustive-deps
   }, [])
 
-  // Attempt to open the app via the custom scheme once. If the app is
-  // installed and registered for the scheme, this hands off to it; if not,
-  // nothing visible happens and the fallback UI below remains in view.
   useEffect(() => {
-    if (!isValid || hasAttemptedOpen.current) return
-    hasAttemptedOpen.current = true
-    window.location.href = buildInviteSchemeUrl(normalizedCode)
-  }, [isValid, normalizedCode])
+    const updateOnlineStatus = () => setIsOnline(navigator.onLine)
 
-  const handleCopy = async () => {
+    updateOnlineStatus()
+    window.addEventListener('online', updateOnlineStatus)
+    window.addEventListener('offline', updateOnlineStatus)
+
+    return () => {
+      window.removeEventListener('online', updateOnlineStatus)
+      window.removeEventListener('offline', updateOnlineStatus)
+    }
+  }, [])
+
+  useEffect(() => {
+    if (!isOnline) posthog?.capture('join_page_offline_shown')
+  }, [isOnline, posthog])
+
+  useEffect(() => () => {
+    if (fallbackTimer.current) clearTimeout(fallbackTimer.current)
+  }, [])
+
+  const handleCopy = async (trigger: 'code_block' | 'fallback_note') => {
     try {
       await navigator.clipboard.writeText(normalizedCode)
+      hasCopiedCode.current = true
       setCopied(true)
-      posthog?.capture('join_page_code_copied')
+      posthog?.capture('join_page_code_copied', { trigger })
       setTimeout(() => setCopied(false), 2000)
     } catch (err) {
       console.error('Failed to copy invite code:', err)
@@ -43,60 +74,95 @@ export function JoinClient({ code }: { code: string }) {
   }
 
   const handleStoreClick = (store: 'app_store' | 'play_store') => {
-    posthog?.capture('join_page_store_button_clicked', { store })
+    if (!isOnline) return
+    posthog?.capture('join_page_store_button_clicked', { store, code_copied_first: hasCopiedCode.current })
+  }
+
+  const handleOpenInApp = () => {
+    setOpenAppFallbackVisible(false)
+    posthog?.capture('join_page_open_app_clicked', { platform })
+    window.location.href = buildInviteSchemeUrl(normalizedCode)
+
+    if (fallbackTimer.current) clearTimeout(fallbackTimer.current)
+    fallbackTimer.current = setTimeout(() => {
+      if (document.visibilityState === 'visible') {
+        setOpenAppFallbackVisible(true)
+        posthog?.capture('join_page_open_app_fallback_shown', { platform })
+      }
+    }, 1500)
   }
 
   if (!isValid) {
+    const malformedStoreUrl = platform === 'android' ? PLAY_STORE_URL : APP_STORE_URL
+
     return (
       <main className="min-h-screen bg-gradient-to-b from-background-light to-background flex items-center justify-center p-6">
-        <div className="glass-light p-8 sm:p-12 max-w-md w-full text-center">
+        <div className="surface-solid p-8 sm:p-12 max-w-md w-full text-center">
           <h1 className="text-2xl sm:text-3xl font-bold mb-3">Invite link not recognized</h1>
-          <p className="text-white/60 mb-8">
-            This invite link looks incomplete or has expired. Ask your partner to send a new one from the Sauci app.
+          <p className="text-white/70 mb-8">
+            This invite link looks incomplete. Ask your partner to send a new one from the Sauci app.
           </p>
-          <Link href="/" className="btn-primary inline-block">
-            Back to Home
-          </Link>
+          <div className="flex flex-col gap-3 sm:flex-row sm:justify-center">
+            <Link href="/" className="btn-primary inline-block">
+              Back to Home
+            </Link>
+            <a
+              href={malformedStoreUrl}
+              target="_blank"
+              rel="noopener noreferrer"
+              className="btn-secondary inline-block"
+            >
+              Get Sauci
+            </a>
+          </div>
         </div>
       </main>
     )
   }
 
+  const copyAnnouncement = copied ? 'Invite code copied.' : ''
+  const storeUnavailableTitle = isOnline ? undefined : 'Reconnect to open the app store.'
+  const desktopCopy = platform === 'desktop'
+    ? 'Sauci is a phone app. Copy your code, then open this link on your phone or install from the store there.'
+    : 'Join to compare answers together. Vote-style questions reveal shared outcomes; open text, audio, photo, and who-likely responses can be visible to you both after you have each answered.'
+
   return (
-    <main className="min-h-screen bg-gradient-to-b from-background-light to-background">
-      {/* Header */}
+    <main className="min-h-screen bg-gradient-to-b from-background-light to-background ph-no-capture ph-mask">
       <header className="py-6 px-6 border-b border-white/5">
         <div className="max-w-4xl mx-auto flex items-center gap-4">
-          <Link href="/" className="flex items-center gap-2 text-white/60 hover:text-white transition-colors">
+          <Link href="/" className="flex items-center gap-2 text-white/70 hover:text-white transition-colors">
             <ArrowLeft className="w-5 h-5" />
             <span>Back to Home</span>
           </Link>
         </div>
       </header>
 
-      {/* Content */}
       <div className="max-w-md mx-auto px-6 py-12 sm:py-20 text-center">
-        <div className="w-20 h-20 rounded-full bg-primary/20 flex items-center justify-center mx-auto mb-8">
-          <Heart className="w-10 h-10 text-primary" />
+        {!isOnline && (
+          <p className="surface-solid mb-6 px-4 py-3 text-sm text-white/70" role="status">
+            You&apos;re offline. Your code is below, and it still works.
+          </p>
+        )}
+        <div className="w-20 h-20 rounded-full bg-gradient-to-br from-primary to-secondary flex items-center justify-center mx-auto mb-8 shadow-[0_8px_28px_rgba(233,69,96,0.28)]">
+          <Heart className="w-10 h-10 text-white" />
         </div>
 
-        <h1 className="text-3xl sm:text-4xl font-bold mb-3">You&apos;ve been invited to Sauci</h1>
-        <p className="text-white/60 mb-10">
-          Open the app to pair up instantly. If it doesn&apos;t open automatically, copy your code below and
-          enter it after you install Sauci.
-        </p>
+        <h1 className="text-3xl sm:text-4xl font-bold mb-3">You&apos;ve been invited to compare answers</h1>
+        <p className="text-white/70 mb-10">{desktopCopy}</p>
 
-        <div className="glass-light p-6 sm:p-8 mb-8">
-          <p className="text-white/60 text-sm mb-3">Your invite code</p>
+        <section className="surface-solid p-6 sm:p-8 mb-6 ph-no-capture ph-mask" aria-labelledby="invite-code-heading">
+          <h2 id="invite-code-heading" className="text-white/70 text-sm font-medium mb-3">Your invite code</h2>
           <p
             className="text-4xl sm:text-5xl font-bold tracking-[0.3em] text-primary mb-6"
             data-testid="invite-code-display"
+            aria-label={normalizedCode.split('').join(' ')}
           >
             {normalizedCode}
           </p>
+          <p className="text-white/70 text-sm mb-5">Copy this before you install. You&apos;ll enter it in the app.</p>
           <button
             type="button"
-            onClick={handleCopy}
+            onClick={() => void handleCopy('code_block')}
             className="btn-secondary w-full flex items-center justify-center gap-2"
           >
             {copied ? (
@@ -111,33 +177,59 @@ export function JoinClient({ code }: { code: string }) {
               </>
             )}
           </button>
-        </div>
+          <span className="sr-only" role="status" aria-live="polite">{copyAnnouncement}</span>
+        </section>
 
-        <p className="text-white/40 text-sm mb-6">Don&apos;t have Sauci yet? Get the app first:</p>
+        <button type="button" onClick={handleOpenInApp} className="btn-primary w-full mb-2">
+          Open in Sauci
+        </button>
+        <p className="text-white/60 text-sm mb-6">Already installed? This opens the app with your code.</p>
 
-        <div className="flex flex-col sm:flex-row items-center justify-center gap-4">
-          <a
-            href={APP_STORE_URL}
-            target="_blank"
-            rel="noopener noreferrer"
-            onClick={() => handleStoreClick('app_store')}
-            className="btn-primary w-full sm:w-auto"
-          >
-            Download on the App Store
-          </a>
-          <a
-            href={PLAY_STORE_URL}
-            target="_blank"
-            rel="noopener noreferrer"
-            onClick={() => handleStoreClick('play_store')}
-            className="btn-secondary w-full sm:w-auto"
-          >
-            Get it on Google Play
-          </a>
-        </div>
+        {openAppFallbackVisible && (
+          <p className="surface-solid mb-6 px-4 py-3 text-sm text-white/70" role="status" aria-live="polite">
+            Nothing opened? You probably don&apos;t have Sauci yet.{' '}
+            <button type="button" className="underline font-medium text-white" onClick={() => void handleCopy('fallback_note')}>
+              Copy your code
+            </button>
+            , then install below.
+          </p>
+        )}
+
+        <section aria-labelledby="install-heading">
+          <h2 id="install-heading" className="text-white/70 text-sm font-medium mb-4">Get Sauci</h2>
+          <div className="flex flex-col gap-3">
+            <a
+              href={APP_STORE_URL}
+              target="_blank"
+              rel="noopener noreferrer"
+              onClick={(event) => {
+                if (!isOnline) event.preventDefault()
+                handleStoreClick('app_store')
+              }}
+              aria-disabled={!isOnline}
+              title={storeUnavailableTitle}
+              className={`${platform === 'ios' ? 'btn-primary' : 'btn-secondary'} w-full ${!isOnline ? 'opacity-50 cursor-not-allowed' : ''}`}
+            >
+              Get it on the App Store
+            </a>
+            <a
+              href={PLAY_STORE_URL}
+              target="_blank"
+              rel="noopener noreferrer"
+              onClick={(event) => {
+                if (!isOnline) event.preventDefault()
+                handleStoreClick('play_store')
+              }}
+              aria-disabled={!isOnline}
+              title={storeUnavailableTitle}
+              className={`${platform === 'android' ? 'btn-primary' : 'btn-secondary'} w-full ${!isOnline ? 'opacity-50 cursor-not-allowed' : ''}`}
+            >
+              Get it on Google Play
+            </a>
+          </div>
+        </section>
       </div>
 
-      {/* Footer */}
       <footer className="py-8 px-6 border-t border-white/5 mt-auto">
         <div className="max-w-4xl mx-auto flex flex-col sm:flex-row items-center justify-between gap-4">
           <span className="text-xl font-bold gradient-text">Sauci</span>

apps/web/app/join/[code]/page.tsx

@@ -2,8 +2,8 @@ import type { Metadata } from 'next'
 import { JoinClient } from './JoinClient'
 
 export const metadata: Metadata = {
-  title: 'Join your partner on Sauci',
-  description: 'Open Sauci and pair up instantly with your invite code.',
+  title: 'Compare answers together on Sauci',
+  description: 'Copy your invite code, then join Sauci to make shared discoveries together.',
 }
 
 export default async function JoinPage({

apps/web/app/providers.test.tsx

@@ -0,0 +1,16 @@
+import { readFile } from 'node:fs/promises'
+import { describe, expect, it } from 'vitest'
+
+const providerPath = new URL('./providers.tsx', import.meta.url)
+
+describe('PostHogProvider invite privacy', () => {
+  it('disables DOM autocapture and session recording on invite routes', async () => {
+    const source = await readFile(providerPath, 'utf8')
+
+    expect(source).toContain("pathname?.startsWith('/join/')")
+    expect(source).toContain("window.location.pathname.startsWith('/join/')")
+    expect(source).toContain('autocapture: !isInvitePage')
+    expect(source).toContain('disable_session_recording: isInvitePage')
+    expect(source).toContain('mask_all_text: isInvitePage')
+  })
+})

apps/web/app/providers.tsx

@@ -2,20 +2,79 @@
 
 import posthog from 'posthog-js'
 import { PostHogProvider as PHProvider } from 'posthog-js/react'
+import type { CaptureResult } from 'posthog-js'
 import { useEffect } from 'react'
+import { usePathname } from 'next/navigation'
+
+const INVITE_PATH_PATTERN = /\/join\/[^/?#\s]+/g
+
+function redactInviteUrl(defaultUrl: string): string {
+  const url = new URL(defaultUrl)
+
+  if (url.pathname.startsWith('/join/')) {
+    return `${url.origin}/join/[invite]`
+  }
+
+  return defaultUrl
+}
+
+export function redactInvitePaths<T>(value: T): T {
+  if (typeof value === 'string') {
+    return value.replace(INVITE_PATH_PATTERN, '/join/[invite]') as T
+  }
+
+  if (Array.isArray(value)) {
+    return value.map(redactInvitePaths) as T
+  }
+
+  if (value && typeof value === 'object' && (Object.getPrototypeOf(value) === Object.prototype || Object.getPrototypeOf(value) === null)) {
+    return Object.fromEntries(Object.entries(value).map(([key, entry]) => [key, redactInvitePaths(entry)])) as T
+  }
+
+  return value
+}
+
+export function redactInvitePathsBeforeSend(event: CaptureResult | null): CaptureResult | null {
+  return event ? redactInvitePaths(event) : null
+}
 
 export function PostHogProvider({ children }: { children: React.ReactNode }) {
+  const pathname = usePathname()
+
   useEffect(() => {
     if (typeof window !== 'undefined' && process.env.NEXT_PUBLIC_POSTHOG_KEY) {
+      const isInvitePage = window.location.pathname.startsWith('/join/')
       posthog.init(process.env.NEXT_PUBLIC_POSTHOG_KEY, {
         api_host: process.env.NEXT_PUBLIC_POSTHOG_HOST || 'https://eu.i.posthog.com',
         person_profiles: 'identified_only',
-        capture_pageview: false, // We'll capture pageviews manually for better control
-        capture_pageleave: true,
+        capture_pageview: false,
+        capture_pageleave: false,
+        get_current_url: redactInviteUrl,
+        before_send: redactInvitePathsBeforeSend,
+        // This must be part of initialization, not only the navigation effect
+        // below, so an initially loaded invite page is protected before its DOM
+        // can be considered for capture or recording.
+        autocapture: !isInvitePage,
+        disable_session_recording: isInvitePage,
+        mask_all_text: isInvitePage,
       })
     }
   }, [])
 
+  useEffect(() => {
+    if (!process.env.NEXT_PUBLIC_POSTHOG_KEY) return
+
+    // Invite codes are credentials. Do not let their page enter PostHog's DOM
+    // autocapture or session-recording pipeline, even though event properties
+    // and URLs are separately redacted below.
+    const isInvitePage = pathname?.startsWith('/join/')
+    posthog.set_config({
+      autocapture: !isInvitePage,
+      disable_session_recording: isInvitePage,
+      mask_all_text: isInvitePage,
+    })
+  }, [pathname])
+
   if (!process.env.NEXT_PUBLIC_POSTHOG_KEY) {
     return <>{children}</>
   }

docs/couple-pairing.md

@@ -115,6 +115,23 @@ Leaves current couple (sets `couple_id` to null).
    - All messages
    - All couple_packs settings
 
+### Standalone API invite cancellation (DELETE)
+
+`DELETE /v1/couple/invite` cancels an unjoined invite for the authenticated
+creator only. It is intentionally separate from `DELETE /v1/couple`, which
+continues to end an existing relationship for legacy clients.
+
+The server locks the authenticated profile and then the couple row in one
+transaction. It deletes the invite only when that caller is the sole member.
+If another member has joined, it returns `409 invite_already_joined` and makes
+no changes. This serializes safely with a concurrent `POST /v1/couple` join:
+one operation completes first, while the other observes the resulting state.
+
+```javascript
+// Response on a cancelled waiting invite
+{ success: true, couple_id: null }
+```
+
 ## Database Schema
 
 ### Couple Record
@@ -178,6 +195,18 @@ This prevents race conditions where multiple users try to join simultaneously.
 
 **Waiting State:**
 ```
+
+The invite journey leads with the shared outcome, then shows the recoverable
+eight-character code. It offers both a bare-code copy and a full
+`https://sauci.app/join/{code}` link copy. Cancelling an invite warns that it
+removes only an unjoined invite. Sealed answers made before invite creation
+remain, while answers made while waiting are deleted with the invite. The
+five-second poll surfaces an inline offline state but continues retrying.
+
+When pairing succeeds, both members are routed once per account and couple to
+the `/(app)/paired` payoff screen. It reads only `newMatchesCount`: it never
+reveals unmatched or individual answers. Existing swipe remains the named
+post-pair question entry until Quick Spark is implemented.
 ┌─────────────────────────────┐
 │      ❤️ Partner Code        │
 │                             │
@@ -360,6 +389,11 @@ The code is never applied automatically; the user must accept the offer.
 `join_page_viewed` / `join_page_code_copied` / `join_page_store_button_clicked`
 (web, PostHog).
 
+The mobile invite funnel also records aggregate-only prompt, share, join,
+failure, completion, unlock, cancellation, clipboard, and conflict events.
+Counts use fixed buckets. Invite codes, user IDs, partner IDs, questions, and
+answers are never sent as analytics properties.
+
 ## Cascade Behavior
 
 When a couple is deleted, foreign key cascades clean up:
@@ -381,4 +415,5 @@ Storage (chat-media) is manually cleaned before the cascade.
 | Already paired | User tries to create/join while in couple | "You are already in a couple" |
 | Invalid code | Invite code doesn't exist | "Invalid invite code" |
 | Couple full | Couple already has 2 members | "This couple already has two partners" |
+| Invite already joined | Creator tries to cancel after a partner joins | "This invite has already been joined" |
 | DB trigger | Race condition caught | "A couple can only have 2 members" |