feat(dares): ship the dares loop to mobile

Completes the half-built dares feature: send a dare, respond, report done,
confirm, and get a push notification on every transition.

Backend (apps/api):
- New `dares` domain with couple-shared premium entitlement, a free weekly
  send allowance, and server-enforced actor/state rules on every transition.
- `submitted` status so the recipient reports completion and the sender
  confirms, rather than the sender guessing.
- Notifications ride the existing operations outbox via a trigger on
  `sent_dares`. Push copy is generic; store compliance forbids dare text in a
  preview and a test asserts no payload leaks it.
- Worker expiry sweep now covers `pending` as well as `active`/`submitted`;
  an invitation nobody opened previously stayed open forever.

Fixes two latent defects:
- Deleting any dare that had been sent aborted with a check violation, because
  `dare_id` is ON DELETE SET NULL while `sent_dares_dare_or_custom_check`
  required it. Dare text is now snapshotted at send time, which also keeps a
  couple's history stable across catalogue edits.
- The free send allowance was raceable: concurrent requests all read the same
  count and every one succeeded. The count and insert are now serialized on
  the sender's profile row.

Also ports `content_status` review metadata to the API catalogue, which had no
store-safety gating at all, and mirrors the review decision already enforced on
the legacy catalogue.

Mobile: dares screen (active/send/history), send sheet with duration presets,
home tile badging incoming dares, paywall on both proactive and 402 paths.

Verified: lint, typecheck, 379 unit tests, build, 71 integration tests against
local PostgreSQL.

Co-Authored-By: Claude Opus 5 <noreply@anthropic.com>

docs/dares-feature.md

@@ -1,5 +1,10 @@
 # Dares Feature - Architecture & Implementation Plan
 
+> **SUPERSEDED.** This is the original 2026-01 plan, kept for its competitor analysis
+> and decision history. It describes a Supabase Edge Function + RLS architecture that
+> the product no longer uses: mobile talks only to the standalone API. For the shipped
+> contract see [Dares loop](dares-loop.md).
+
 > **Status**: Phase 1 Complete (Database + Admin Portal)  
 > **Created**: 2026-01-08  
 > **Updated**: 2026-01-08