feat: recover missing conversations, fix media attachment, add manual inbox tab

Missing conversations: recipient Reddit accounts that are deleted or suspended
left conversations unaccounted for. A new RecipientAccountStatusService polls
Reddit for the users behind cached conversations and records their account
status durably, with progressive backfill and delta-media fixes in ChatService
so history and images are no longer dropped mid-sync.

Media: attachMedia now surfaces download failures as MediaAttachmentError so the
sync cursor can be retried instead of silently losing an image, recognizes image
bytes when Matrix returns a generic content type, and keeps separate gallery
occurrences when the same asset appears in more than one event.

Manual inbox tab: the conversations list now carries the reply-loop status, so
the inbox can separate conversations the operator is driving by hand from the
ones automation is still handling. A Manual filter pill and a per-row chip
explain why each conversation was handed over.

Co-Authored-By: Claude Opus 5 <noreply@anthropic.com>

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+  "configurations": [
+    {
+      "name": "dashboard",
+      "runtimeExecutable": "npm",
+      "runtimeArgs": ["run", "dashboard:dev"],
+      "port": 5173
+    }
+  ]
+}