feat: kill conversations on off-platform and seller pushes

Seller detection on replies was a case-insensitive substring match over the
configured keyword list, and every hit landed in `human-required` alongside
genuine prospects that need a person. Off-platform pushes were only checked
for r4r policy modes, as were the under-18 signals.

Three layers now:

- New `off-platform-signals` module matches on normalized text (unicode
  folding, zero-width stripping, leet mapping, separator removal), so
  `0nlyf4ns`, `t3l3gr4m` and `t e l e g r a m` are caught. Ambiguous terms
  need context: `snap` on its own stays a photo request, never a kill.
- New terminal `killed` automation status. It records the evidence, sets the
  durable seller flag, supersedes the pending claim, and resolves triage to
  `done`, so killed conversations leave every actionable queue. Off-platform
  kills are independent of `reddit.filterSellers`.
- Optional AI screening of inbound replies behind
  `conversations.aiReplyScreening` (off by default). Runs only after the
  deterministic gates pass, memoizes per inbound event, and fails open.

Under-18 and in-person/contact-detail signals now apply to every policy mode
rather than r4r only, and remain human handoffs rather than kills.

Co-Authored-By: Claude Opus 5 <noreply@anthropic.com>

apps/dashboard/src/features/conversations/conversation-detail.tsx

@@ -421,6 +421,9 @@ function ConversationComposer({ conversation, conversationId }: { conversation:
 
 function automationStatusMessage(conversation: ConversationDetailResponse): string {
   switch (conversation.automation.status) {
+    case 'killed':
+      return conversation.automation.handoffReason
+        ?? 'Automation ended this conversation as a seller or off-platform push.';
     case 'image-received':
       return 'Image received. Automation is complete.';
     case 'human-required':

apps/dashboard/src/features/conversations/conversation-triage.ts

@@ -113,6 +113,8 @@ export function manualFlowLabel(conversation: ActiveChat): string | null {
     return 'Manual by policy';
   }
   switch (conversation.automationStatus) {
+    case 'killed':
+      return 'Killed — seller';
     case 'user-overridden':
       return 'Manual — you replied';
     case 'image-received':