Enforce commenter gender targeting

src/ai/openrouter.ts

@@ -426,7 +426,9 @@ Use every applicable tag; tags may overlap. Set safety to "nsfw" when nudity, ex
       + 'the comment to state a gender. Generic praise, jokes, requests directed at '
       + 'the post author, emojis, and ambiguous reactions do not qualify. expressedGender is the gender perspective the '
       + 'comment explicitly states or strongly communicates in relation to the depicted role, not a claim about the '
-      + 'author\'s real identity. Use unknown whenever the text does not explicitly support one. Return JSON only: '
+      + 'author\'s real identity. Self-referential sex characteristics strongly communicate the matching perspective; '
+      + 'for example, references to "my bulge", "my cock", or "my dick" communicate male. Use unknown whenever the text '
+      + 'does not explicitly support or strongly communicate a perspective. Return JSON only: '
       + '{"results":[{"id":"c1","qualifies":true,"expressedGender":"female","confidence":0.9,"evidence":"short reason"}]}. '
       + 'Confidence is between 0 and 1; keep evidence under 200 characters.';
     const user = comments.map((comment) => (

src/services/monitor.ts

@@ -287,6 +287,8 @@ export class MonitorService {
     return pairs.flatMap(({ post, comment }): RedditPost[] => {
       const verdict = this.commentReactionCache.get(comment.fullname);
       if (!verdict?.qualifies || verdict.confidence < COMMENT_REACTION_CONFIDENCE) return [];
+      const targetGenders = this.config.reddit.targetGenders;
+      if (targetGenders.length > 0 && !targetGenders.includes(verdict.expressedGender)) return [];
       return [{
         ...post,
         id: comment.fullname,